When dating a single mom

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Anonymous wrote:You lost me at "single mom"

No one cares if you're lost.

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I would plan to get married and buy/rent a new house that met the family’s needs with regard to space, school district, commutes, any special circumstances, etc.

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The single mom won't necessarily want to stay put. I remarried after my divorce and moved with my two kids. The place where I lived with my ex was a compromise between me and him, and if I were to chose for myself, I wouldn't pick it, so wasn't particularly attached to it.

Knowing that I was likely to move, I insisted on putting a fairly wide area into our divorce agreement.

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Anonymous wrote:Men looking for a life partner and dating a single mom, do you assume you’d likely have to move in with her if you cohabitate, due to her kids schooling?

Nah, no way. I assume she and I will maintain separate households. Even if we lived in the same school district and our kids wouldn't have to switch schools, I'm not subjecting my kids to the horrible Brady Bunch scenario of dealing with step-siblings.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

You are a divorced mom. You aren’t a single mom. There is a huge difference.

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It depends on what you both want! Single mothers are not a cohesive block. They didn't all have a meeting and issue a joint resolution, you know.

Really, sometimes DCUM is extra stupid.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

You are a divorced mom. You aren’t a single mom. There is a huge difference.

I'm very much a single mom. I have 100% custody and he pays almost nothing in child support. But thanks for mansplaining that to me.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

That’s fine, I don’t want to support your dead weight or deal with a bitter shrill single mom like you or deal with your demon-spawn.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

That’s fine, I don’t want to support your dead weight or deal with a bitter shrill single mom like you or deal with your demon-spawn.

That's right. Worry about your own demon-spawn. Oh wait, you probably don't take care of them. Judging by what you write, you're most likely a deadbeat who blames women for his own f-ups.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

That’s fine, I don’t want to support your dead weight or deal with a bitter shrill single mom like you or deal with your demon-spawn.

That's right. Worry about your own demon-spawn. Oh wait, you probably don't take care of them. Judging by what you write, you're most likely a deadbeat who blames women for his own f-ups.

I have full custody. Try again. It's my XW who doesn't pay what she agreed to pay in the separation agreement, but nobody gives a shit about "deadbeat moms", least of all the court system.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

That’s fine, I don’t want to support your dead weight or deal with a bitter shrill single mom like you or deal with your demon-spawn.

That's right. Worry about your own demon-spawn. Oh wait, you probably don't take care of them. Judging by what you write, you're most likely a deadbeat who blames women for his own f-ups.

I have full custody. Try again. It's my XW who doesn't pay what she agreed to pay in the separation agreement, but nobody gives a shit about "deadbeat moms", least of all the court system.

SUUUURRREEEE YOU DO.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

That’s fine, I don’t want to support your dead weight or deal with a bitter shrill single mom like you or deal with your demon-spawn.

That's right. Worry about your own demon-spawn. Oh wait, you probably don't take care of them. Judging by what you write, you're most likely a deadbeat who blames women for his own f-ups.

I have full custody. Try again. It's my XW who doesn't pay what she agreed to pay in the separation agreement, but nobody gives a shit about "deadbeat moms", least of all the court system.

Full custody doesn’t mean you are actually parenting your kids.

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Anonymous wrote:I was dating a single mom last year, and I was thinking seriously about first moving to her school district (we both rented at the time), and then in a few years buying a house with her which would be large enough for everyone.

What happened?

I don't know what happened. She broke up with me.

You dodged a bullet, man. Learn the proper lesson and never even think about moving in with a single mom.

Unless the idea of paying to support her kids while they disrespect you and constantly shout "you're not my real dad!" is somehow appealing?

As a single mom, I would never let you move in with me. I got rid of dead weight when I divorced their father. I don't need a man child to take care of again.

That’s fine, I don’t want to support your dead weight or deal with a bitter shrill single mom like you or deal with your demon-spawn.

That's right. Worry about your own demon-spawn. Oh wait, you probably don't take care of them. Judging by what you write, you're most likely a deadbeat who blames women for his own f-ups.

I have full custody. Try again. It's my XW who doesn't pay what she agreed to pay in the separation agreement, but nobody gives a shit about "deadbeat moms", least of all the court system.

Full custody doesn’t mean you are actually parenting your kids.

Different PP. Give it up.