Wife’s attempts to climb the social ladder and create a hierarchy are super concerning

[Anonymous]

This is a SIL looking for our comments so she can forward to her brother about his wife.

[Anonymous]

She sounds like a racist.

[Anonymous]

Newsflash. Yes, these people exist. Smile and nod and be cordial, and laugh a lot at all these folks trying to one up each other and form some sort of exclusive club.

Teach your kids not to be this petty. Teach your kids that adults whom behave like this are not great people. Teach your kids that on the inside these adults are hurting and to be kind. Teach your kids to forge genuine human connections with others.

It’s really simple. Always be inclusive and kind towards others.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Amazing a guy would notice this at all.

Trollin’ on my bestie

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a SIL looking for our comments so she can forward to her brother about his wife.

+1 crowdsourcing FAIL!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amazing a guy would notice this at all.

He didn’t. OP is a troll. The thread title alone, please.

Just too long and too many BS superlatives for a straight man to write. BS alert!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is true in wealthy areas but also way worse amongst SAHMs who arent regularly exposed to the wider world and community.

Lol what?! This is the most ignorant comment I’ve heard in a while.

[Anonymous]

If not a troll post... she's highly insecure.

[Anonymous]

This is a micro aggressive post towards stay at home moms who are really just attempting to get the laundry done while breastfeeding and helping the toddler learn the abc’s and push them on the swing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm really concerned why youre eavesdropping and so concerned about some stupid, throwaway conversation she had with a friend where she mentioned she didnt want to invite certain people.

Seems to me you're being nitpicky and fairly catty, trying to create a mean narrative about your wife rather than being loving and supportive.

Are you mad because you are unable to make enough money where your wife feels comfortable and secure? And now youre projecting that on her cause you cant measure up?

OP's wife has entered the chat...

[Anonymous]

If I hadn’t lived through this as a child, I might not believe you, because all the people I surround myself with today don’t act like this.

But yes, emotionally-stunted, damaged adults like this do exist. They are deeply insecure with an external locus: they need to bring others down to feel good about themselves.

The good news is: if you actively fight against that mindset, your kids will come out of it untainted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Amazing a guy would notice this at all.

He didn’t. OP is a troll. The thread title alone, please.

Just too long and too many BS superlatives for a straight man to write. BS alert!

Or, OP is secretly gay and that's going to add a lot of sizzle to this scenario real quick!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
If I hadn’t lived through this as a child, I might not believe you, because all the people I surround myself with today don’t act like this.

But yes, emotionally-stunted, damaged adults like this do exist. They are deeply insecure with an external locus: they need to bring others down to feel good about themselves.

The good news is: if you actively fight against that mindset, your kids will come out of it untainted.

Agree that people like this do exist.

[Anonymous]

I know a woman who changed like this with a move to a new upscale neighborhood. It’s really very sad. She used to be a good person.

[Anonymous]

Man here. My wife has become a little like this over the years though not quite as bad. It’s a turn off but she has other issues so can’t say I’m totally surprised.