Women irritate me (vent)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are very unique and special, OP. Women are useless but YOU are that rare breed of feminine creature who is rational, sane, not crazy, AND has a vagina. It's amazing. You are rare and beloved by all men.

I bet she's really funny, too! Everyone knows women aren't funny. Op is a rare gem.

She burps and watches sports. While other girls watch what they eat, OP regularly eats a whole burger. Oh, you like wine and cocktails? OP drinks beer, with wings. She owns baseball hats- not pink ones either!

Why are you being so Mean Girl about women like this? I am and I'm not OP. My baseball team is doing horribly this year BTW. And yes I love wings and beer.

It's more Gone Girl than Mean Girl, the famous "Cool girl" riff.

I have no idea what any of this means. So it's ok to both someone for liking sports because it's a trope or a riff? I'm an actual person who has actual likes and dislikes. Why is it ok for you to be b%tchy but not OP?

You ENTIRELY miss the point. A lot of women like those things. ONLY women like OP make them seem like rare and defining personality traits that make them ~better than who they perceive to be lame, less cool “normal” annoying women.

Ok that makes sense. But I went to the reddit thread and I googled it...and that is a pretty fine distinction that wasnt clear. All it seemed like was trying to test women down.

As I've said before in this thread I have had women on here tell me I'm faking my interest in beer and sports. And on this thread I had someone tell me none of my guy friends will ever marry me and I'm desperate and bitter.

-Not OP

NP. Who visits websites that tear women down? The bitter PP you are responding to. OP hasn’t commented for some time and is probably laughing at the
rabble rouser expertise she has. Don’t feed the trolls!

someone up thread posted a Reddit subreddit about being a cool girl or something like that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a woman, but for the most part I hate hanging out with other women. The majority of women I encounter are insufferable. They are needy, have unrealistic expectations of you, and have no yet perfected how to be independent. They also have not learned how to enjoy time alone with themselves. I know this is not ALL women, but it is a lot of women. It's maddening. Men are so much simpler. I envy the way their friendships work at times.

Based on this post, I imagine you have ample opportunity to learn to enjoy alone time.

Also, "alone time with themselves" is redundant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are very unique and special, OP. Women are useless but YOU are that rare breed of feminine creature who is rational, sane, not crazy, AND has a vagina. It's amazing. You are rare and beloved by all men.

I bet she's really funny, too! Everyone knows women aren't funny. Op is a rare gem.

She burps and watches sports. While other girls watch what they eat, OP regularly eats a whole burger. Oh, you like wine and cocktails? OP drinks beer, with wings. She owns baseball hats- not pink ones either!

She's a jeans and t shirt kinda girl. Shelooks great with her hair in a ponytail or sloppy bun and of course she doesn't bother with make up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are very unique and special, OP. Women are useless but YOU are that rare breed of feminine creature who is rational, sane, not crazy, AND has a vagina. It's amazing. You are rare and beloved by all men.

I bet she's really funny, too! Everyone knows women aren't funny. Op is a rare gem.

She burps and watches sports. While other girls watch what they eat, OP regularly eats a whole burger. Oh, you like wine and cocktails? OP drinks beer, with wings. She owns baseball hats- not pink ones either!

Why are you being so Mean Girl about women like this? I am and I'm not OP. My baseball team is doing horribly this year BTW. And yes I love wings and beer.

It's more Gone Girl than Mean Girl, the famous "Cool girl" riff.

I have no idea what any of this means. So it's ok to both someone for liking sports because it's a trope or a riff? I'm an actual person who has actual likes and dislikes. Why is it ok for you to be b%tchy but not OP?

You ENTIRELY miss the point. A lot of women like those things. ONLY women like OP make them seem like rare and defining personality traits that make them ~better than who they perceive to be lame, less cool “normal” annoying women.

Ok that makes sense. But I went to the reddit thread and I googled it...and that is a pretty fine distinction that wasnt clear. All it seemed like was trying to test women down.

As I've said before in this thread I have had women on here tell me I'm faking my interest in beer and sports. And on this thread I had someone tell me none of my guy friends will ever marry me and I'm desperate and bitter.

-Not OP

NP. Who visits websites that tear women down? The bitter PP you are responding to. OP hasn’t commented for some time and is probably laughing at the
rabble rouser expertise she has. Don’t feed the trolls!

someone up thread posted a Reddit subreddit about being a cool girl or something like that

IT'S FROM 'GONE GIRL,' PEOPLE. Cool girl. Google it. YouTube it. Read the book.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are very unique and special, OP. Women are useless but YOU are that rare breed of feminine creature who is rational, sane, not crazy, AND has a vagina. It's amazing. You are rare and beloved by all men.

I bet she's really funny, too! Everyone knows women aren't funny. Op is a rare gem.

She burps and watches sports. While other girls watch what they eat, OP regularly eats a whole burger. Oh, you like wine and cocktails? OP drinks beer, with wings. She owns baseball hats- not pink ones either!

Why are you being so Mean Girl about women like this? I am and I'm not OP. My baseball team is doing horribly this year BTW. And yes I love wings and beer.

It's more Gone Girl than Mean Girl, the famous "Cool girl" riff.

I have no idea what any of this means. So it's ok to both someone for liking sports because it's a trope or a riff? I'm an actual person who has actual likes and dislikes. Why is it ok for you to be b%tchy but not OP?

You ENTIRELY miss the point. A lot of women like those things. ONLY women like OP make them seem like rare and defining personality traits that make them ~better than who they perceive to be lame, less cool “normal” annoying women.

Ok that makes sense. But I went to the reddit thread and I googled it...and that is a pretty fine distinction that wasnt clear. All it seemed like was trying to test women down.

As I've said before in this thread I have had women on here tell me I'm faking my interest in beer and sports. And on this thread I had someone tell me none of my guy friends will ever marry me and I'm desperate and bitter.

-Not OP

Right, OK. WE GET IT. If being a fake "cool girl" doesn't apply to you, wonderful. But we are talking about the OP: the kind of woman who likes to tear down other women so she, alone, can emerge as That Girl You Wish You Were With, that rare breed of logical, non-crazy femininity. You can reason with her AND she has a magic snatch? Amazing.

[Anonymous]

Oh lord, there's nothing like hearing this from a woman in person as if somehow you're not supposed to be offended that you're being lumped in with "women" as a class. Jeez, I try to take people on a person by person basis when it comes to friendship but if you're gonna reject me before you even know me, well, there's no sense wasting my time with you.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I actually enjoy stereotypical female activities....mani pedi, massage,etc. I just don't like all the other stuff that in my experience tends to come with doing that stuff in female groups...gossiping about the women in the group that didn't show up, group texts following the event that go on and on talking about nothing. When I observe my husbands friendships there is no gossip, no expectation for constant emotional hand holding. He hangs out with his friends, they don't say negative things about each other, and in between outings they understand that each of them is busy. They connect when they can and everyone is happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are very unique and special, OP. Women are useless but YOU are that rare breed of feminine creature who is rational, sane, not crazy, AND has a vagina. It's amazing. You are rare and beloved by all men.

I bet she's really funny, too! Everyone knows women aren't funny. Op is a rare gem.

She burps and watches sports. While other girls watch what they eat, OP regularly eats a whole burger. Oh, you like wine and cocktails? OP drinks beer, with wings. She owns baseball hats- not pink ones either!

Why are you being so Mean Girl about women like this? I am and I'm not OP. My baseball team is doing horribly this year BTW. And yes I love wings and beer.

It's more Gone Girl than Mean Girl, the famous "Cool girl" riff.

I have no idea what any of this means. So it's ok to both someone for liking sports because it's a trope or a riff? I'm an actual person who has actual likes and dislikes. Why is it ok for you to be b%tchy but not OP?

You ENTIRELY miss the point. A lot of women like those things. ONLY women like OP make them seem like rare and defining personality traits that make them ~better than who they perceive to be lame, less cool “normal” annoying women.

Ok that makes sense. But I went to the reddit thread and I googled it...and that is a pretty fine distinction that wasnt clear. All it seemed like was trying to test women down.

As I've said before in this thread I have had women on here tell me I'm faking my interest in beer and sports. And on this thread I had someone tell me none of my guy friends will ever marry me and I'm desperate and bitter.

-Not OP

NP. Who visits websites that tear women down? The bitter PP you are responding to. OP hasn’t commented for some time and is probably laughing at the
rabble rouser expertise she has. Don’t feed the trolls!

someone up thread posted a Reddit subreddit about being a cool girl or something like that

IT'S FROM 'GONE GIRL,' PEOPLE. Cool girl. Google it. YouTube it. Read the book.

Based on your accurate descriptions so far I’m not “cool” enough. You are though. Crazy cool!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I actually enjoy stereotypical female activities....mani pedi, massage,etc. I just don't like all the other stuff that in my experience tends to come with doing that stuff in female groups...gossiping about the women in the group that didn't show up, group texts following the event that go on and on talking about nothing. When I observe my husbands friendships there is no gossip, no expectation for constant emotional hand holding. He hangs out with his friends, they don't say negative things about each other, and in between outings they understand that each of them is busy. They connect when they can and everyone is happy.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I actually enjoy stereotypical female activities....mani pedi, massage,etc. I just don't like all the other stuff that in my experience tends to come with doing that stuff in female groups...gossiping about the women in the group that didn't show up, group texts following the event that go on and on talking about nothing. When I observe my husbands friendships there is no gossip, no expectation for constant emotional hand holding. He hangs out with his friends, they don't say negative things about each other, and in between outings they understand that each of them is busy. They connect when they can and everyone is happy.

I actually don’t agree with your original post blanket statements on all women but for many this is true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I actually enjoy stereotypical female activities....mani pedi, massage,etc. I just don't like all the other stuff that in my experience tends to come with doing that stuff in female groups...gossiping about the women in the group that didn't show up, group texts following the event that go on and on talking about nothing. When I observe my husbands friendships there is no gossip, no expectation for constant emotional hand holding. He hangs out with his friends, they don't say negative things about each other, and in between outings they understand that each of them is busy. They connect when they can and everyone is happy.

And you felt the need to essentially gossip about all women and draw attention to yourself exactly...why? I thought you were so above all that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/notlikeothergirls/

Suggest that OP check it out

This is the subreddit I mentioned

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I actually enjoy stereotypical female activities....mani pedi, massage,etc. I just don't like all the other stuff that in my experience tends to come with doing that stuff in female groups...gossiping about the women in the group that didn't show up, group texts following the event that go on and on talking about nothing. When I observe my husbands friendships there is no gossip, no expectation for constant emotional hand holding. He hangs out with his friends, they don't say negative things about each other, and in between outings they understand that each of them is busy. They connect when they can and everyone is happy.

Uh, OP, the problem is you. You're picking the wrong people to be friends with. I just don't hang out with people like that. Why do you?

I'm serious about this. You're blaming women when the problem is with your choices - like the women who complain about not being able to find a good guy but who don't examine why they're consistently attracted to men who are bad for them. (Been there. Done that. Got therapy for it.) You need to look at why you keep trying to be friends with people who do this.

For the record, I'm a pretty butch cisgendered heterosexual woman and I don't like stereotypical female activities. But I don't think those preferences have anything to do with whether one gossips about their friendship circle. I think being a grown up has everything to do with it. You need to look at your own involvement in this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/notlikeothergirls/

Suggest that OP check it out

This is the subreddit I mentioned

+1
Oh yes, absolutely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/notlikeothergirls/

Suggest that OP check it out

This is the subreddit I mentioned

+1
Oh yes, absolutely.

This is a crappy sub that exists to tear women down. If you support this then you are no better than OP.