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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I actually enjoy stereotypical female activities....mani pedi, massage,etc. I just don't like all the other stuff that in my experience tends to  come with doing that stuff in female groups...gossiping about the women in the group that didn't show up, group texts following the event that go on and on talking about nothing. When I observe my husbands friendships there is no gossip, no expectation for constant emotional hand holding. He hangs out with his friends, they don't say negative things about each other, and in between outings they understand that each of them is busy. They connect when they can and everyone is happy.[/quote]Uh, OP, the problem is you.  You're picking the wrong people to be friends with.  I just don't hang out with people like that. Why do you?

I'm serious about this.  You're blaming women when the problem is with your choices - like the women who complain about not being able to find a good guy but who don't examine why they're consistently attracted to men who are bad for them.  (Been there. Done that. Got therapy for it.) You need to look at why you keep trying to be friends with people who do this.

For the record, I'm a pretty butch cisgendered heterosexual woman and I don't like stereotypical female activities.  But I don't think those preferences have anything to do with whether one gossips about their friendship circle.  I think being a [i]grown up[/i] has everything to do with it.  You need to look at your own involvement in this.[/quote]

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