I teach and it doesn’t represent what I see daily. My middle schooler tells me everything (which we’re working on) and hasn’t reported the level you claim. |
You must be in the rich parts. Over here in East County, this is just another day in the life of MS. My kids hate going to school because they are legitimately terrified. And the teachers and principal can't/on't do anything. Can't afford to move so we deal. |
At one point I had to lock kids in my room each morning bc there were gang fights in the hallway. don't know where you are but my teaching experiences have always been in schools that were chaotic |
| Anyone have any good strategies for dealing with this as a teacher given these constraints? Feeling like I need to hear something constructive now! |
Do you teach in a public school? In MCPS? Which part of the County? In reality, I think most MSs have fights, regardless of SES level or racial makeup though. What MS does your kid attend that he has never reported a fight in the cafeteria? I'm impressed. Walking out of classrooms is also pretty common. The kids know the teacher won't come after them. Sometimes at our school, teachers will send another student out as a 'chaperone', which is a joke because now both kids are out in the halls. |
My SIL is an MCPS sub, so she goes around to different areas. Not sure about every school, but these are issues at most of the MSs she has worked at - Rockville, Germantown, Silver Spring, etc. |
This is telling, because it suggests to me the school system is corrupt at the principal level and above. How can a principal allow this to happen to their teachers? I know that teachers that speak up are at fear of losing their job, but it is completely unacceptable to ignore verbal and physical abuse. This is a clear line that the principal needs to draw and initiate suspension, followed by expulsion if repeated. Multiple posts here are suggesting that they don't want to do that because it would look bad in the books and they don't want inconvenient data points. But that is exactly what full blown corruption is. Teachers and others, what can we as parents do to help here? Are there options for parents to come together and help the teachers take back their school? If multiple parents at schools organize and protest when things like this happen, it should result in pressure on the principal to do the right thing. I definitely think that parents as a group need to make the principal accountable through any means, including legal action if necessary. If the principal is not assigning consequences to threats or violence against teachers (never mind other kids), they are not promoting a safe environment. If teachers have to worry about safety, and they cannot speak up for what's right, who else can do it but the parents? |
| You may have to make noise at the director level, the principal’s boss. |
The Code of Conduct is very gray. If a kid has an IEP, the matter becomes more complicated. While I love your support, if there aren't enough teachers banning together and documenting (both publicly for student behavior and "privately" with regard to other matters), nothing will get done. We are complainers expected to follow our duties. in other words, good little soldiers . . . Most principals today are spineless. Many, like teachers, are trapped by a salary they won't see elsewhere and an excellent benefits package. Others are simply brainwashed b/c they've been "raised" by the system during a time when autonomy had already been stripped away. I've spoken up over the years - always supported by colleagues privately, NEVER publicly. So what's the use? The system is damaged beyond repair. No online program will "fix" the gap. Restorative practices (I'm trained through tier two . . . ) are a sad excuse for disciplinary measures. And our definition of collaborative planning is nothing I recognize! Lockstep all the way, which means you're either all in or all out I don't want to push you away, PP, but I've been doing this for a long time. It's gotten worse each year. |
It's the chicken little effect. |
I would expect that subs would see worst behavior than normal. I was a sub when I first began my career and that was true even in the Churchill and Wooten clusters. However, neither now or then, did I see any student behavior that should terrify a person who wasn’t a racist or exceptionally emotionally fragile. Those folks should not teach anyway. |
Of course. Anyone who posts anything negative is a racist. This is not about race. I notice that you didn’t comment on whether you actually teach in MCPS. I’m guessing that you do teach in MoCo, but at a private school. That’s why my two neighbors - one AA and one Peruvian - yanked their kids out of MCPS and send them to private schools. Sure. They must be racist. It has nothing to do with the appalling behavior that they see and hear about regularly. In and out of the classroom. Agree with the PP. MCPS is corrupt to the core. And honestly, it affects kids of ALL races. There are plenty of motivated AA and Latino kids at our school. Allowing such blatant misbehavior ruins the experience of them, regardless of race. |
Do you know how hard it is to find child therapists who are accessible to low or even moderate income families? And that’s if the family believes in therapy and trusts the therapist. There are huge structural barriers to families getting their child therapy. Just getting the child to and from appointments is a challenge for anyone who works full time. The schools can’t just give up on these kids. I don’t know what the answer is, and there are problems with MCPS’s current policies and how they are implemented. But just giving up on small kids, calling them “bad” and kicking them out is NOT an acceptable answer. |
I have a friend who is a former fulltime teacher who now subs in MCPS (she had to take time off for family issues). She's good, and before you accuse her of being racist, is also african american. When we were looking for a neighborhood to buy a house, we asked her opinion on a few elementary schools. There was one in particular where she will no longer sub for grades 3-5 because the behavior issues are that bad. That's telling to me. |
Because just like a corrupt business anywhere, they are looking to move up in their jobs and get out of where they are now. The only way to do that is to appease the people above them, not below them. |