This sounds like a drunken obese slob. Why is your DS bff with such an embarrassment? I'd honestly question your son's judgment, maturity... and what exactly he does away at college with peers of this caliber. |
Well the son can not pick a new mother. |
It’s no wonder the first tier friends all turn down the invite...lol. Man can you image what OP will be like as a MIL? |
He's 19? Really? Why is he going 100% gratis on your vacay? |
Because the kid was supposed to keep Op's kid occupied and out of her hair. The boys were supposed to be going out at night and doing things like parasailing and jet skiing together but wound up hanging out at the rental place instead. Now Op is ready to boot this kid clear back to wherever he came from. He has failed his mission. |
Yep, can you imagine if Op's son marries a 3rd tier bride? The other ladies he asked were, you know, "busy" ![]() |
OP, you are affluent, your houseguest is probably not. Set some ground rules and don't worry if you come across cheap. He is not going to be a part of your son's future life. He sees you as the golden once in a lifetime opportunity that you are and he will continue taking advantage.
Put him on a budget. And if it means putting your son on a budget too then so be it. It will teach your son a valuable lesson. Your unwanted guest sounds like a leech and very ungrateful. You are only hesitant to call this out because you feel that it could be fat-shaming. It is not. Stock up on cheap food. |
OP, best to quit while you are ahead. |
Nope. I get the distinct impression that OP wouldn't mind at all if the friend were thin. |
Better not gain weight....I am sure the OP will let you know. |
OP 19 year olds do nit eat rice cakes and a small juice box. |
OP, don’t get mad. We didn’t eat your cookies. |
Ok this one made me lol in the office. |
To summarize what OP said:
1. She can afford market fish 2. Friend is 3rd rate 3. Out of 3 dozen doughnuts, friend will eat 30 4. He used up the sunscreen 5. OP uses bad words The kid will leave 6 doughnuts for you guys. That’s 5 for each of you and one to share! So chill. |
Where did you get “drunken”? There has been no mention of alcohol. |