Men: do you notice your wife aging?

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Anonymous wrote:All ya’ll who are saying you’re still hot I your 40s…of course you are. Stuff doesn’t hit the fan until 51.

My mother says 53. That’s when the wheels come off.

Please, I'm 64 and my body is better than ever and no wrinkles because I was religious about sunscreen since my twenties. Your mother should have used sunscreen and lifted weights. It does not have to go away at 50 or 60.

You’re a lying liar.

Not lying. The trick is to make sure your vision fades at the same time as the wrinkles grow.

[Anonymous]

Just take a look at these crows feet
sitting on the prettiest eyes

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Her aging is not an issue.
The extra 40 pounds is a MAJOR issue and a complete turn off

Did she give birth? Go through menopause? Are you the same as you were at 20?

Woman in her 50s here, and I am so tired of the comments about gaining weight due to childbirth and menopause. I have experienced both and I haven’t gained any significant weight. I work out, move a lot, and eat a healthy diet.

It’s always amazing that people can live half a century and not realize how different we all are.

+1000!

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Anonymous wrote:All ya’ll who are saying you’re still hot I your 40s…of course you are. Stuff doesn’t hit the fan until 51.

My mother says 53. That’s when the wheels come off.

Please, I'm 64 and my body is better than ever and no wrinkles because I was religious about sunscreen since my twenties. Your mother should have used sunscreen and lifted weights. It does not have to go away at 50 or 60.

You’re a lying liar.

Not lying. The trick is to make sure your vision fades at the same time as the wrinkles grow.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Her aging is not an issue.
The extra 40 pounds is a MAJOR issue and a complete turn off

Did she give birth? Go through menopause? Are you the same as you were at 20?

Woman in her 50s here, and I am so tired of the comments about gaining weight due to childbirth and menopause. I have experienced both and I haven’t gained any significant weight. I work out, move a lot, and eat a healthy diet.

You got lucky. Pregnancy did a number on my hormones and insulin resistance.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Her aging is not an issue.
The extra 40 pounds is a MAJOR issue and a complete turn off

Did she give birth? Go through menopause? Are you the same as you were at 20?

Woman in her 50s here, and I am so tired of the comments about gaining weight due to childbirth and menopause. I have experienced both and I haven’t gained any significant weight. I work out, move a lot, and eat a healthy diet.

It’s always amazing that people can live half a century and not realize how different we all are.

That’s right. We are all different. Some women, after childbirth/my age, take care of ourselves. I was playing soccer six weeks after giving birth, and I do a crazy amount of burpees at my age just because I would rather be uncomfortable for 30 mins than carrying around an extra forty pounds. Then there are other women who are lazy, and blame their weight gain on being a “woman” (child birth, menopause). I do empathize with those who are impacted by health issues. I know I will be hit with some health issue. For now, I am willing to be uncomfortable doing 100 burpees in a workout session.

For the record, I have been an only parent for 10 years, and I have a career. I did a lot on my own as a single parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH is getting hotter as he ages. It's so unfair!

You too might be getting better with age. Take care of your health! I think some women age well especially when they look after themselves. Beauty is not just for the young!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Her aging is not an issue.
The extra 40 pounds is a MAJOR issue and a complete turn off

Did she give birth? Go through menopause? Are you the same as you were at 20?

Woman in her 50s here, and I am so tired of the comments about gaining weight due to childbirth and menopause. I have experienced both and I haven’t gained any significant weight. I work out, move a lot, and eat a healthy diet.

It’s always amazing that people can live half a century and not realize how different we all are.

That’s right. We are all different. Some women, after childbirth/my age, take care of ourselves. I was playing soccer six weeks after giving birth, and I do a crazy amount of burpees at my age just because I would rather be uncomfortable for 30 mins than carrying around an extra forty pounds. Then there are other women who are lazy, and blame their weight gain on being a “woman” (child birth, menopause). I do empathize with those who are impacted by health issues. I know I will be hit with some health issue. For now, I am willing to be uncomfortable doing 100 burpees in a workout session.

For the record, I have been an only parent for 10 years, and I have a career. I did a lot on my own as a single parent.

Still not getting it. That’s okay. In addition to being different physically, we all have different levels of intelligence and empathy.