From deception to denial to lying. Now we have the sarcasm defense for "my child got in without study or prep." |
Really? If I say that my child got in without study or prep, then I am lying? (Or being sarcastic? I'm not sure how that would be sarcasm.) How do you know this? |
Amen - I can only hope there are more out there like you ![]() |
I am the "amen" poster and I really mean that - no sarcasm intended - we didn't prep our child for the test - who knows if he will get in but after reading all these posts I am afraid of what kind of families I will find there if he does! Please tell me there are more grounded people like you at your center! (which on is it?)
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I am the "amen" poster and I really mean that - no sarcasm intended - we didn't prep our child for the test - who knows if he will get in but after reading all these posts I am afraid of what kind of families I will find there if he does! Please tell me there are more grounded people like you at your center! (which on is it?)
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I always assume that the Must Prep My Third Grader Because If They Don't Get Into The Elementary School HGC Their Whole Future Will Be Ruined And They Will Forever Live Illiterately As Failures In My Basement posters live downcounty in the W zones. But I have no way of knowing this. |
NP: But, did you review any of these items with your child leading up to the test?
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I have not heard many poster advocating you must prep and enrich your children even though many would acknowledge most mid to high SES do precisely this, if their children do not. what I hear is many here simply exaggerate the issue of lack of prep in much the same way they did with their peers in primary and secondary school. I believe this phenomenon. |
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Thanks for the response. Your silence speaks volumes. |
No I did not - but I will not be crushed if child isn't accepted. Everything will be okay and there are plenty of other opportunities in the future. |
I live in a W district but I don't know how parents are treating this process because we are not currently at our public ES and I haven't talked about applying with our neighbors. We didn't prep and are ok if our child "misses out". We think it would be a great experience if child is accepted though. To me, I'd think it would be families outside of the W districts that would have more at stake in the HGC process if they felt that their schools were not up to par and that the HGC would make a big difference in comparison. It wouldn't seem unreasonable to me that a family with enough financial resources in such a district might want to invest as much as possible to help their child get to the HGC. But who knows? There are plenty of competitive parents in the W's.... |
Good point. I think the same competitive parents whose kids do not get into the HGC will later get into the middle school magnets. I know many. And even if they do not go to middle school magnet their kids will do well in their local middle school and go on to do very well in high (magnet or non magnet). I know many. |