With all due respect, you should read the research (incidentally, my friend's brother was heavily involved) on this. Summary: Changing the environment through the use of boarding schools (i.e. removing them from the home) was the only thing that really had an effect. The parents and their home environment IS the problem and liberals who 'want to find out what makes them tick' are failing miserably (using my tax dollars, I might add). You can spend eons trying to figure out the 'why are they like this'. You're much better off addressing the how to change it now. |
Who are those voices? Reading is fundamental. |
If you interpret the President's words as simply an expression of sympathy, you are very, very, naive. He could have said "this is a tragic situation for all involved and I'm sorry for your loss". That' all he needed to say to express sympathy. That's not where he went.... |
You recognize the difference between sympathy and empathy, yes? Empathy: Understanding what others are feeling because you have experienced it yourself or can put yourself in their shoes. Sympathy: Acknowledging another person's emotional hardships and providing comfort and assurance. Obama was able to empathize with the Martins. And he did so. This is the definition of privilege. "Wahhh... he was able to uniquely connect with these black parents, a group that previously was incapable of empathizing with a President over racial matters because every President before that was white... it's unfair and divisive!" Obama said nothing on Zimmerman. He did not weigh in on his guilt or innocence. He saw a family grieving and was able to say, "I truly and deeply understand what you're feeling because you and I are not that different." No previous President could have said that to the Martin. Previous Presidents have connected empathetically with any number of white families, without getting flamed. But god forbid the black man do it. |
Also, you haven't demonstrated HOW it was divisive. Let's look at the issue. Some set of people thought that Zimmerman was innocent of a crime. Some set of people thought he was guilty of a crime. Within these sets, people had varying degrees of intensity behind their views and different rationales for arriving at them. But that was the primary divide. Obama came out and said, "Hey, Martin family, I get what you're feeling. I can understand it because I could have been similarly positioned." Nothing about Zimmerman. Nothing about guilt or innocence. Nothing about the law or criminality or anything else. So, tell me, how did he divide anyone? How did he offend those who thought Zimmerman was innocent? "I don't think Zimmerman committed a crime!" "Obama's son might have looked like Trayvon!" "Are you calling me a racist?" You see the silliness there? Also, if you really want to get picky, Obama never mentioned race, not in his first speech. Maybe he thought his son would have looked like Trayvon because they'd both be tall and spindly. |
| Wow, you are going to real lengths to defend this guy. The President's job is to represent all people regardless of race, looks etc. By bringing up any comparison, he's taking sides |
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So where do we place these kids?
With all due respect, one such place was recently closed down b/c there were no funds to keep it running. The kids were taken from their families and were cared for by social workers and psychologists. They were trained in a trade and attended the local high school. It was a success until the funding stopped. And I'm ending this now, as you're too damaged to work on. And FWIW, you're the one who appears to need the help, as you give me the impression of someone so tightly wound, s/he would snap in a minute. If you have kids, don't think you're not rubbing off on them. Damaged goods . . .
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But that's the thing... he's not. He's not taking sides. There were no sides in the, "Should we sympathize with the Martin family?" debate. Well, there were. A small group of assholes on one side and the vast majority of decent people on the other. Were women who connected with his mother "taking sides"? You've yet to substantiate your point. You're attempting to deflect my question instead of answer it. I will ask one more time before dismissing you for the bumper-sticker-touter you are: How were the President's remarks divisive? |
| BO made it national news. BO should comment on this, just as he did the black girl shot in Chicago last year. If he does for one race, he should do for all. |