| Asked and answered her about a million times. |
Your perception is not correct, I have a student there. Both schools are great, OP |
I was there Sat too, and in the Engineering school presentations, there were no phones going off. Not one. |
I was in that session. One phone went off from what I heard, but maybe I was just too dialed into the professors. They were impressive. I'm glad they have transfers represented. Shows that there are different ways to get to a great school. |
Arts & Sciences - it was constant. |
DP. I attended an A&S session a few weeks ago and didn’t hear a single phone go off. My kid sat separately from me with a friend from HS and later mentioned that friend was bored and on their phone the whole time, but friend is going to an Ivy, so you don’t have to worry about that one dragging down the intellectualism at UVA. |
I could see why the kid was bored. We came from admitted days elsewhere. The session was boring, the worst we have been to this month. |
We went to an accepted students event for UVA and my DC had the opposite reaction from PP. The extremely nerdy, intellectual factor was very high. My DC left panicked that there weren’t any more “normal” not awkward kids there. Eye of the beholder and all that…. |
Cool, I guess it’s just not the place for you. That’s exactly what these events are for. I hope your kid finds a place where they (and you!) feel like it’s more their scene. |
Must be all the quirky kids who aren’t at W&M anymore! |
Ha! So we went two years ago with our older kid and had your experience- nerdier. This go around it was a stark difference for us and was like the other pp- disengaged, looking for party more than caring about education vibe. My first ultimately went elsewhere so I can’t speak to it. I guess you will find both. |
We’re noticing that even the smartest kids seem to think that strong academics and fun are mutually exclusive. More so than even a few years ago. Guessing it’s driven by social media? Example: We were at Northwestern’s admitted students day, and kids kept talking about how they’re choosing between NU and USC or a state flagship. Why? Because they’re burned out from high school and want to “have fun” in college. Including my DC. It’s a head-scratcher for me. These kids are clearly super smart but also surprisingly rigid in their thinking. They genuinely think it’s black or white - no fun (misery) vs. an endless party (joy). College is what you make of it. In a school with 9,000 undergrads, if you want to go out, you can always find people to go out with you. True, it’s not a constant party in the freshman dorms, nor is the bar scene likely to be huge on a random Tuesday. But there’s more than enough for most 18 year old kids away from home for the first time. |
Okay, it sounds like you will turn down UVA? If you’re planning to withdraw, could you do it ASAP? DS is currently on the waitlist.
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I love this! 😂 |
How do the disengaged partiers even get into UVA? I’m being serious here. Only the top of the class, grinders are getting in from our school. They are not playing beer pong on the weekends senior year… |