would you report a kid who is planning on breaking an ED for a EA school to your private high school?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:MYOB.
There are many reasons why a family would break an ED. If it’s not your own family, it’s not any of your business. The private school will find out.
Why is this even a question? It’s unethical but the reason why the counselors are involved to begin with. Rich people do what they want all the time. It’s not like the entire private will get blacklisted for her for one student.

Isn’t this exactly why Tulane blacklisted a school??

Yes! Mind your own business.

[Anonymous]

We toured an independent college in CA early on in our search and they talked about the fact they would not hold anyone to the binding nature of this contract if the family was not able to ultimately afford to attend.

[Anonymous]

Psycho indeed. Busy body losing her chest hair over gossip about 18 year olds’ college agreements - if even real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes. And I came here to ask this question 3 years ago and was called a psycho for even considering it.

What did you end up doing and what happened to the student?

We told the college advisor. Girl was already in to a school for ED but hadn’t withdrawn her other applications. I don’t know if the school said anything other but the girl ended up at her ED school.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would absolutely report if someone broke a rule, especially if by breaking the rule the someone was negatively impacting other innocent people in the future.

[Anonymous]

Reads like someone trying to convince herself it’s ok to force herself somewhere she doesn’t belong

[Anonymous]

Let’s hope the snitch has the guts to reveal her name so that the system can hold her accountable if she defames the student with falsehoods that don’t hold up under her mistaken guise of nobility and morality. That would be the ethical approach — not hiding behind the veil of anonymity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:MYOB.
There are many reasons why a family would break an ED. If it’s not your own family, it’s not any of your business. The private school will find out.
Why is this even a question? It’s unethical but the reason why the counselors are involved to begin with. Rich people do what they want all the time. It’s not like the entire private will get blacklisted for her for one student.

Isn’t this exactly why Tulane blacklisted a school??

Kid was accepted ED to Tulane and was full pay. Didn’t pull apps and got into UCLA. Backed out of Tulane ED and went to UCLA. Everyone at this school knows what happened. It was bad faith and not a matter of not meeting NPC.

[Anonymous]

Bullshit. Show me proof not slander.