NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are cracking up at this article online, and the comments are gold. For years now, women have been telling men to go away, you're lower than dirt. We don't need you! Well, they listened, and they want nothing to do with you. They are happy to pay off their mortgages and cars, and hang out with the guys, hassle free. And now you want them back? They're saying no, thanks. We're good.

If true, then those guys are some whiny little b**ches. I’m a man in my mid-30s and whenever I heard anything like that crap over the last 15 years — which comes from a truly small handful of loudmouths who wouldn’t know true femininity and feminism if it hit ‘em in the face — I’d just roll my eyes and keep dating other, better women.

The idea of a real man reading some shrill commentary on Twitter ignorantly blaming men for something, and then taking it seriously, and then using it as a reason to run and hide from women altogether? That’s juvenile. Not what real men do. But, we’ve created a world where we let both men and women keep acting like children for too long.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

My man. Who hurt you? The real world is simply not what you seem to think. Among other things, it’s sad that you view “most women” as “unobtainable.” They’re just unobtainable TO YOU, because of your obvious untreated pain.

I say this in all sincerity. You are way too online. And, candidly, too emotional. Touch grass and go actually meet some women, try therapy, and also maybe have your hormone levels checked out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

Not hard at all, all-caps bro. Plenty of women feel the same way.

Enjoy your celibacy!

They don't have to be celibate.Women are very easy these days. Are you even able to follow this thread? If a man is a 7 or 8, he can bang a hopeful 5 or 6 any night of the week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

My man. Who hurt you? The real world is simply not what you seem to think. Among other things, it’s sad that you view “most women” as “unobtainable.” They’re just unobtainable TO YOU, because of your obvious untreated pain.

I say this in all sincerity. You are way too online. And, candidly, too emotional. Touch grass and go actually meet some women, try therapy, and also maybe have your hormone levels checked out.

I have net plenty. They have facial piercings, duck lips, weird foreheads and a huge sense of entitlement

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

Not hard at all, all-caps bro. Plenty of women feel the same way.

Enjoy your celibacy!

They don't have to be celibate.Women are very easy these days. Are you even able to follow this thread? If a man is a 7 or 8, he can bang a hopeful 5 or 6 any night of the week.

If this were true, there would be far fewer incels. Women have never been "easy".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

My man. Who hurt you? The real world is simply not what you seem to think. Among other things, it’s sad that you view “most women” as “unobtainable.” They’re just unobtainable TO YOU, because of your obvious untreated pain.

I say this in all sincerity. You are way too online. And, candidly, too emotional. Touch grass and go actually meet some women, try therapy, and also maybe have your hormone levels checked out.

I have net plenty. They have facial piercings, duck lips, weird foreheads and a huge sense of entitlement

So women don't cater to your one-eye's limited picture of beauty, and rather than expand your ideals beyond what you've been spoonfed your whole life, you'll blame women.

Got it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

Not hard at all, all-caps bro. Plenty of women feel the same way.

Enjoy your celibacy!

Lol. No, women do not want peace. They find that very boring and have affairs with the arrogant team leader at work

[Anonymous]

What I like about this thread is that both extremes are exposing their idiocy vividly

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

This was written by a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

You lost the plot when you claimed all the women are unobtainable…basically you said you actually want to couple up but because you are a loser then now you have to justify your existence.

I see it in my own family with a relative claiming all women are unobtainable and yet my own kid (complete STEM dork) has no problem asking girls out and has basically had a GF since 9th grade of HS (none STEM BTW).

Not a one had/has any piercings or duck lips or weird foreheads.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

Not hard at all, all-caps bro. Plenty of women feel the same way.

Enjoy your celibacy!

Man who realizes he doesn’t need marriage: celibate incel

Woman who realizes she doesn’t need marriage: powerful independent

Typical DCUM

[Anonymous]

I think she's dating "unavailable" guys as indirect self sabotage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

I don't see why everyone is piling on this guy. He's entitled to be this way and doesn't seem to be bothering anyone. If someone wants to just come home from work and do/live as am they please (relaxing with sports, hanging out with guys, video games, veg out whatever) isn't it better for that person to be single? If he were married and the DW complained on here about what he's doing with his time, everyone would pile on him for not being a good partner.

Plenty of women make this choice - rather be single and focus on yourself "self care" etc - and it's applauded.

I think it's laudable for people (of either gender) who don't want to be partners to just exit the dating market rather than leading someone on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

I don't see why everyone is piling on this guy. He's entitled to be this way and doesn't seem to be bothering anyone. If someone wants to just come home from work and do/live as am they please (relaxing with sports, hanging out with guys, video games, veg out whatever) isn't it better for that person to be single? If he were married and the DW complained on here about what he's doing with his time, everyone would pile on him for not being a good partner.

Plenty of women make this choice - rather be single and focus on yourself "self care" etc - and it's applauded.

I think it's laudable for people (of either gender) who don't want to be partners to just exit the dating market rather than leading someone on.

It’s fine for anyone who truly feels good about being by themselves. What’s concerning is when people of either gender write off the other en masse. Relationships are hard. Very hard. But most things that are very difficult can be worth the effort.

We have a society that is increasingly unwilling to put much effort into anything—relationships, reading, writing, cooking, exercise, etc—because sitting around ingesting content, using AI, ordering takeout, and/or taking a pill is way easier. But what kind of life does that leave you with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand?

I don't see why everyone is piling on this guy. He's entitled to be this way and doesn't seem to be bothering anyone. If someone wants to just come home from work and do/live as am they please (relaxing with sports, hanging out with guys, video games, veg out whatever) isn't it better for that person to be single? If he were married and the DW complained on here about what he's doing with his time, everyone would pile on him for not being a good partner.

Plenty of women make this choice - rather be single and focus on yourself "self care" etc - and it's applauded.

I think it's laudable for people (of either gender) who don't want to be partners to just exit the dating market rather than leading someone on.

Because the guy said "women are unobtainable"...that's the tell of a loser.