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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Newsflash! Some men have figured out they like being by themselves! As a result of not chasing after the unobtainable (most women today)....more and more men are discovering that a life with NO drama, NO stress, NO angst, NO arguing, NO conflict in their lives....while coming home to a peaceful home each and every day....is FAN-frickING-TASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!! Their expenses are much lower....they are able to live within their means....and they can save money (if we choose)! In addition, men have plenty of free time to partake in activities that bring them actual pleasure WITHOUT having to explain/justify to some emotional/moody/argumentative/impossible to please female.
How hard is that to understand? [/quote]

I don't see why everyone is piling on this guy. He's entitled to be this way and doesn't seem to be bothering anyone. If someone wants to just come home from work and do/live as am they please (relaxing with sports, hanging out with guys, video games, veg out whatever) isn't it better for that person to be single? If he were married and the DW complained on here about what he's doing with his time, everyone would pile on him for not being a good partner.

Plenty of women make this choice - rather be single and focus on yourself "self care" etc - and it's applauded.

I think it's laudable for people (of either gender) who don't want to be partners to just exit the dating market rather than leading someone on.[/quote]

It’s fine for anyone who truly feels good about being by themselves. What’s concerning is when people of either gender write off the other en masse. Relationships are hard. Very hard. But most things that are very difficult can be worth the effort.

We have a society that is increasingly unwilling to put much effort into anything—relationships, reading, writing, cooking, exercise, etc—because sitting around ingesting content, using AI, ordering takeout, and/or taking a pill is way easier. But what kind of life does that leave you with?[/quote]

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