1. No can or has argued that a 24 month birthday span is not the fairest and most practical way to divide age groups for a very short summer rec league. 2. The idea of a 9 year old winning a labeled “8 and under” is apparently triggering on a primal level. 3. The idea of an 8 year old having to compete in a division labeled “9-10 year olds” is apparently equally triggering 4. The system is fair, whether the cutoff is June 1, July 1, Aug 1 or October 23rd. Every kid is within 2 calendar years of every other kid. 5. Parents are math challenged and do not understand that a 9 year old can indeed be born within 24 months of an 11 year old. 6. Parents perceive the cutoff as “unfair” because they cannot stomach the ideas of points 2. and 3. above. 7. Call the groups minis/freshman/sophomore/junior/senior or copper/bronze/silver/gold/platinum. Anything to distract parents from their inability to do calendar math. |
I mean -- not if you are an adult. I have a kid with an August birthday who is not redshirted and is often the youngest in class as well as anything grade based. This means often we have to manage a maturity gap around school and activities that can be tricky. It's just the straw she drew as a person and we drew as parents. I have never once in my life claimed it was "unfair" that this is how it is because it's not. It's just life. Some kids have learning disorders and some have mental health challenges. Some kids are very short or very tall or struggle with gaining weight or maintaining a healthy weight. That's life. As a parent you roll with it and parent the kid you have which in my case means I have to parent a kid who is often on the younger age of an age cohort and I have to do stuff other parents don't have to do to help her navigate that. Other parents are dealing with other stuff. Whiny immature parents are the ones who get mad that they have to parent their kid through the sometimes frustrating but also normal experience of having to compete against someone older or bigger than they are. The fact that kids with spring birthdays are at a slight disadvantage in summer swim is probably GOOD for them because they have not often experienced being the youngest in their cohort but at some point in life they will be and now they can figure out how to deal with it. And then they won't be whiny babies when they are the youngest in their intern class or the least experienced member of the project team. They will understand how to navigate that situation. So no "unfairness" is not inevitable when there are age cutoffs. It's only unfair if you have this sense of entitlement around never having to compete against someone a tiny bit older or bigger than you are. What my kid knows is that once you acclimate to working with people who are a bit older and bigger and more mature than you are you actually become better at whatever it is -- swimming or running or reading or playing games or whatever. It pushes you to work harder and you learn what is possible sooner. It's a gift. It's not "unfair". |
⬆️ This. |
All so a kid, or rather, a parent with a May birthday kid can longer cry "how unfair". sounds logical. |
The summer swim birthday rule is not unfair. And I say that as a May birthday kid who swims fast enough to make divisionals even when she's at the bottom of her age group. You need to take a look at the lessons your are teaching your child by crying about it being unfair. Congratulate them for their effort, support them if they want to work harder. But don't blame missing out on all stars on the age cut off. That's poor sportsmanship. |
Kids also aren't clueless. Two kids with a May 15, 2014 birthday and a June 15, 2012 birthday will likely never swim in the same age group at the same time in a PVS meet but in NVSL they are competing head to head every other year. They notice these weird anomalies. |
And people wonder why people get upset about trans athletes. Unfair birthday is nothing compared to born biologically with an advantage. |
There has to be a cutoff date. Whatever it is, there is going to be someone who is the oldest in the group and someone who is the youngest. My kids have May and March birthdays so they are always amongst the youngest swimmers in their age group. It kind of stinks but what can you do? I was happy to learn that my 7 year old with a March birthday would be evaluated at a 7 year old in RMSC tryouts- for once he finally has an advantage! An acquaintance whose son has a September birthday was pissed he was being evaluated as an 8 year old. My view is he is finally the slightly disadvantaged one after always having the advantage of being the oldest - deal with it! |
This totally makes sense. Your 7 year old will be 7 throughout the short course season. Your friend's kid will be 8 throughout the short course season. How does RMSC handle the kids who age up during the short course season (September - March)? |
You completely missed the point. Those 9 year olds (even if they are now 10) are not "over age" by your wacky definition. But they still did well in divisionals. You originally claimed that divisionals was dominated by over age kids. It clearly is not because 9 year olds won quite a few events in the top 3 divisions and placed in the top 6 in many others. |
RMSC uses December 6 as the cutoff for minis vs non minis - if your kid turns 9 before December 6 they are not eligible for a minis slot. http://rmscswimming.com/rmsc-20242025-season-tryout-information-montgomery-county-sites-copy Most clubs have a similar age cutoff date. |
Current age of top 2 All-Star seeds from NVSL Divisionals, by event as determined by USAS databases. In most cases, it's the oldest of the best swimmers who get the glory. 8&u boys - 25 Free 1(t). 9.1 1(t). 8.9 8&u boys - 25 Back 1. 8.7 2. 9.1 8&u boys - 25 Breast 1. unknown 2. unknown 8&u boys - 25 Fly 1. 8.1 2. unknown 10&u boys - 50 Free 1. 10.9 2. 11.0 10&u boys - 50 Back 1. 10.7 2. 10.9 10&u boys - 50 Breast 1. 11.0 2. 11.0 10&u boys - 25 Fly 1. 10.9 2. 10.3 10&u boys - 100 IM 1. 11.1 2. 10.7 |
I think the fact that all those kids show up in USAS is a sign that the actual unfair advantage comes from kids who swim club. 15/18 kids have that unfair advantage. Maybe we should ban them. |
I guess older kids really flourish in breaststroke. Age of NVSL All Star qualifiers in 9-10 boys 50 breaststroke ..
1. 11.0 2. 11.0 3. 11.1 4. 10.7 5. 11.1 6. 10.8 .. the average age of the top heat is 11. |
Yes, that’s what is so laughable about this entire thread. The random kid with the June birthday that only swims during the summer in the RECREATIONAL league is not the kid with the unfair advantage, it’s the kid swimming 3-5 days per week the other 47 weeks of the year! I did not complain that all the kids ahead of mine at divisionals were crazy fast and seeded in the top 10/top 20 in the 12U championships. I thought it was amazing my kid who swims only in the summer could keep pace fairly well and outswam their seed and placed higher than they should have. They were really proud of that as well. |