This is the best and most logical response in my opinion. |
Agree with PP, even riding (equestrian sports) which is absolutely an individual sport utilizes a specific date to determine age. No one complains. |
Do 11 year olds dominate the individual 10&u events at the year end riding championships? |
My 10-years-and-361-days-old kid did pretty well at divisionals, but the events that they didn’t come in first in were lost to a 9-year-old, alas.
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My kid won divisionals as a 9 year old too. Mostly because there wasn’t a single team in the division that had a good 9-10 swimmer that year. |
Like PP. My 9 year old really 10 won divionals this year. And would have won last year. And will win next year. Because she is good at the stroke. Who the F cares. Just have fun with summer swim. I'm so sick of hearing my kid is good because of the cutoff. No she actually works her a#s off all ear to get good. Stop with this nonsense. |
Look at the D1 relays and see how many “bottom of the age group” kids are on relays. Sooooo many!!! Age is not the determining factor. Then look to see how many swim club and, for most, are great club swimmers. *That* is the determining factor. |
+1, I have a May birthday club swimmer and she still crushes summer swim because she’s a talented year round swimmer. Would she get more records if she had been born a few weeks later, absolutely, but it’s summer swim and she doesn’t care. She would much rather have the good SC champs/Zones/NCSAs birthday. |
And yet the teams winning the 9-10 age group at ASR just happen to be loaded with 11 year olds year after year. |
Life isn't fair. Summer birthday kids have an advantage in summer swim. Get over it. Having a summer birthday general sucks for pretty much everything else so its nice to have one perk. |
2024 9-10 Girls Free Relay ASRs 1st - one younger 9 y.o.; one 10 y.o. who turned 10 in late Apr/May; one who turned 10 in Jan; and one older 10 y.o. (maybe Aug/Sept) 2nd place - two very young 9 y.o.s; one who turned 10 in Jan; one who is 10 (Oct/Nov bday) 3rd place - one young 9 y.o.; one who turned 10 in May; one older 10 y.o. (Sept/Oct bday); and one who turned 11 in June 4th place - two 9 y.o.s with Fall bdays; one 10 y.o. with late March bday; one older 10 y.o. (Aug/Sept bday) —> All D1 teams; these relays have swum each other 3 times; only one 11 year old across the 16 swimmers |
That's nuts! |
The June 1 date has been used by summer rec leagues for decades. Either get over it and let your kid have fun or don’t participate.
It’s not fair that the majority of swimmers are 5-8 inches taller than my kid at this point but it is what it is. |
What if my kid is short and has a 5/31 birthday?? 😭 😭 😭 |
Kids also notice when their parents think things are unfair and grow up to think life is unfair. Your parenting matters far more than the birthday rule. Do better. |