Too thin? At what point to friends intervene. Nicole Kidman allegedly is “too thin “

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Anonymous wrote:Mostly she looks skinny, but healthy, but I have to admit she looks like a bobble head doll in the photo where she’s wearing a tie-dye t-shirt.


She looks anorexic in that picture.




Thin-shaming.

She's much healthier than overweight people.


It's not true. When it comes to surviving illnesses/cancer etc it is disadvantageous to be thin. Go read. Slightly overweight people actually fare better.


Fact. It’s called the “obesity paradox.” Especially as you age, a person who is somewhat overweight has a greater life expectancy than a normal weight or thin person.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10096985/


I for one am not interesting in living longer if I look like a land whale.


Land whale is not slightly overweight.
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Anonymous wrote:A lot of women after 50 have legs skinnier than they need to be, mostly due to menopause and osteopenia. Judging by her muscle distribution, she does more upper body workout. Her legs are way too skinny to be called slender and she does exibit signs of post-menopausal lack of musculature in her extremities.



God not me. Muscular soccer thighs that never went away. Peloton and squatting make them hard to fit in pants at 54.
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Anonymous wrote:This photo was attached to an advertisement on another website I was just reading, and I thought immediately of this thread which I had visited this morning. Look at this grocery shopping mom from the 50s/60s - she's ANOREXIC!!





People's notions of what is a normal looking body is totally skewed by the 70% of overweight and obese fellow citizens we see around us every day - or maybe in the mirror.

Nicole Kidman isn't anorexic. She's not even underweight.


Agree. Whenever I see old pictures from even the 80s and earlier, the first thing I notice is how thin everyone was (and dressed nicely). Heathy thin, but would not be considered an anomaly. Now when out, everyone is obese and in leggings or sweatpants.
So sad. And I don’t blame cigarettes


The 80s is when Big Tobacco became Big Food, buying up most of the major brands and re-engineering processed foods with more and more added sugar to make it hyperpalatable while also 'low fat' to meet government dietary recommendations, and ensuring the customer base would not be able to keep from coming back over and over and over thanks to their growing dependency on refined sugar.

The rates of T2 diabetes in adults and children have been skyrocketing since, along with rates the overweight and obesity.

But yeah, there is something wrong with Nicole Kidman's lifestyle and weight. https://www.sportskeeda.com/health-and-fitness/what-nicole-kidman-s-workout-routine-helps-stay-fit


I think people also waaay underestimate how much smoking was used as an appetite suppressant.
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Anonymous wrote:This photo was attached to an advertisement on another website I was just reading, and I thought immediately of this thread which I had visited this morning. Look at this grocery shopping mom from the 50s/60s - she's ANOREXIC!!





People's notions of what is a normal looking body is totally skewed by the 70% of overweight and obese fellow citizens we see around us every day - or maybe in the mirror.

Nicole Kidman isn't anorexic. She's not even underweight.


NP. Kidman looks much skinnier than this woman.
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Anonymous wrote:This photo was attached to an advertisement on another website I was just reading, and I thought immediately of this thread which I had visited this morning. Look at this grocery shopping mom from the 50s/60s - she's ANOREXIC!!





People's notions of what is a normal looking body is totally skewed by the 70% of overweight and obese fellow citizens we see around us every day - or maybe in the mirror.

Nicole Kidman isn't anorexic. She's not even underweight.


NP. Kidman looks much skinnier than this woman.


Why does this lady look like she’s 70? And it’s not the styling, I mean her actual face?
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Anonymous wrote:This photo was attached to an advertisement on another website I was just reading, and I thought immediately of this thread which I had visited this morning. Look at this grocery shopping mom from the 50s/60s - she's ANOREXIC!!





People's notions of what is a normal looking body is totally skewed by the 70% of overweight and obese fellow citizens we see around us every day - or maybe in the mirror.

Nicole Kidman isn't anorexic. She's not even underweight.


NP. Kidman looks much skinnier than this woman.


Much skinnier? Why are you exaggerating?
We are talking about different built, different age (huge factor), different lifestyle and yet their body mass looks about the same.




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Anonymous wrote:This photo was attached to an advertisement on another website I was just reading, and I thought immediately of this thread which I had visited this morning. Look at this grocery shopping mom from the 50s/60s - she's ANOREXIC!!





People's notions of what is a normal looking body is totally skewed by the 70% of overweight and obese fellow citizens we see around us every day - or maybe in the mirror.

Nicole Kidman isn't anorexic. She's not even underweight.


NP. Kidman looks much skinnier than this woman.


Why does this lady look like she’s 70? And it’s not the styling, I mean her actual face?


It is the styling. The short "set" hair, heavy makeup, and restrictive clothes. Trust me, if you wore your hair like this and put on some 1950s era foundation, powder, and lip stick, you would also suddenly look geriatric.

Sometimes I wonder if one reason women were so obsessed with being thin during this era (and they were obsessed -- insane diets, appetite suppressants, very little actual exercise but they likely worried about developing any muscle ton) was because the way women dressed and made themselves up meant that the only way to tell a younger woman from an older one was her weight.
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Anonymous wrote:The amount of weight and body shaming on this 6 pages long thread is disgusting. I dare someone to post a thread shaming an overweight actress/singer/performer. It would be taken down immediately.


+1, and it's amazing to me how the body shaming takes the exact same form as it would if the person in question was overweight. It's the concern trolling "oh I'm just worried about her health" BS. No you are not. You hate her body because it provokes some kind of shame response in YOU.

I don't know how Hollywood actress of any size deal with this amount of scrutiny and criticism. I've been body shamed before (what woman hasn't) but the relentlessness of this is so disturbing. I don't even care about Nicole Kidman really! But it's so gross to encounter so many people (likely mostly women) scrutinizing another woman's body in this detail and with such nasty, critical tone.


It really does not have to be a nasty critical tone though. She's a high profile person and chooses to be, so she becomes a visible figure in the culture and therefore people notice and share impressions. Some are harsher than others. Some people love her, some find her over-rated. Some find her gorgeous, some find her emaciated. That's part of the price of celebrity.

People also intuitively experience natural body changes as they age. When someone like kidman portrays both little change over time in the body or alternately, significant facial changes that are often shifting, people notice. Both are extremes and she becomes an outlier. She wants to stand out evidenced by her numerous product campaigns So sometimes it's received well and sometimes it's not We are scanning each other all the time, it's inherent in being human.



Some do, some don't. There are a whole set of people who, rather than gaining weight as they age, struggle to keep it on. There is a verso of aging where people lose appetites, struggle to retain bone density and muscle mass, and become more frail. It's not some tiny subset of people either.

I also know some women who don't become frail, but who basically maintain their body type into old age. For instance I know some women who have always been very fit, stayed fit through middle age, and are still fit and thin. I have a friend who has always been a distance runner and never stopped (still competes, just moves up her age group) and just has the 55 yr old version of the same body type she had at 25. Look at someone like Audrey Hepburn -- clearly predisposed to thinness, did ballet and likely watched what she ate, but basically same body type her whole life.

I know it is easier for people to believe "everyone" gets fatter with age, if that is what you are experiencing. And it's true many people put on weight and struggle to keep it off at Nicole's age. But not everyone. You have no idea if her thinness is natural, the result of considerable effort (either healthy, like my marathoner friend, or potentially unhealthy if she has an eating disorder), or maybe even a sign of aging. She has always been thin and she's very tall. Your expectation that she'll get fatter has way more to do with you than with her.
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She has an eating disorder. She needs professional help.
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Anonymous wrote:She looks like a teenager.


Tom looks amazing. That must be doing things to her self esteem
Anonymous
Ozempic, duh
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Anonymous wrote:This photo was attached to an advertisement on another website I was just reading, and I thought immediately of this thread which I had visited this morning. Look at this grocery shopping mom from the 50s/60s - she's ANOREXIC!!





People's notions of what is a normal looking body is totally skewed by the 70% of overweight and obese fellow citizens we see around us every day - or maybe in the mirror.

Nicole Kidman isn't anorexic. She's not even underweight.


The 50's were a half-century ago. This woman would have lived through the Great Depression (prior to fortified food) and WW II (rationing). Her life expectancy was 60 years. She thought cigarettes were healthy and relaxing. Contracting any kind of cancer was a death sentence.

I'm not saying obesity is healthy, but equating being skinny and little with health is misleading.
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Anonymous wrote:Mostly she looks skinny, but healthy, but I have to admit she looks like a bobble head doll in the photo where she’s wearing a tie-dye t-shirt.


She looks anorexic in that picture.


Agree.
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Anonymous wrote:NK looks slender and healthy, this discussion is ridiculous.
10 days ago:



I'm just going to keep reposting this photo (I did not post it the first time) after every single nasty critical concern troll post about NK's weight.

She is nothing but healthy and you ladies have mental health issues.


If this is NK a few days ago, she looks fine.

Emily from Emily in Paris doesn’t look fine.
Anonymous
It's Ozempic. Same with Heather Dubrow.
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