In one of her texts, she relates that he had their couples therapist negotiate with her that when a guy approached her she was just supposed to say hello and then say that she was going to go and find her boyfriend and leave. Also they had a safe word for getting him to stop yelling at her which was pineapple. He sounds delightful. |
If you're in couples therapy with someone you've been dating a few months, doesn't that tell you something? It's not meant to be. Cut your losses and run. |
I think both these people sound horrible. He obviously is a controlling douche. But what is the point of airing the details of your bad relationship, especially when he moved on and had a baby with someone else? Lord, I didn’t even do this to my exH and we were together 10 years. Move on lady. |
Mmmm but they should be! |
Have you seen his documentary that he produced about his therapist? He was really into therapy fwiw. |
This guy was a walking red flag. It's hard to muster a lot of sympathy for someone who willingly becomes involved with him. |
I doubt it was her idea. He’s been obsessed with therapy for as long as I can remember him giving interviews. |
Can we talk about how he bullied and shamed Sarah for more or less being an alleged whore and then he immediately goes out and has unprotected sex and gets someone else knocked up? Best boyfriend ever. Yeah, right. More like misogynistic scumbag. |
The texts were phrased politely but demonstrated a controlling attitude. Nothing good comes of that kind of expectation from a guy. |
Is the word "no" that hard to say? "No, I'm not going to do that." And then leave. She's an adult with her own career, money, and plenty of options. Why stay with someone like that? |
She was only 25. I wouldn’t have known to leave someone like that, who was rich and famous and interested in me, at 25. If you think it would have been so easy as you say, I don’t think you’re being honest with yourself. |
I didn’t know wtf I was doing at 25 with dating, I was a mess and didn’t get much better until late 20s. |
She's a professional surfer with sponsorships, model, influencer, etc. She didn't just fall off the turnip truck. |
Most of y'all haven't read The Gift of Fear and it shows. |
Hmm, and he’s a professional actor with millions of dollars. Really think surfer girl has more power than him? |