
Do you think her Dad complaining about restaurant service is putting someone’s life at risk? I think that behavior is distinct than the one you’re outraged over. Using the same label for both actually minimizes the worse case by associating it with less severe reactions. It also needlessly targets a group of innocent people who are completely unrelated to the problem. |
No, I don’t think telling your father to chill is worse than his behavior. I encourage you to tell him to chill. That addresses the behavior without using someone else’s name as a slur. That’s exactly what I’ve been suggesting you do. |
Yeah, two wrongs don’t make a right. Anyone using their power to subjugate another is wrong. People calling the cops on someone simply because of their race is racism. That action is wrong. But using a middle aged woman’s name to describe that behavior is not right, just because it causes less harm to Middle Aged women than calling the cops does for racial minorities. This isn’t a contest of which is more wrong. They both are to varying degrees. |
So let's joke about a man being a jerk at a restaurant and equating his behavior with the behavior that killed people? Huh? Oh dad, there you go again!? Ridiculous. |
No one is defending that behavior. But you are trading one slur for another. And honestly you just proved the teacher’s point that Karen is a racist term. |
Then maybe white people should stop using Black slang they don't understand? A Karen has always been a busybody white women who wields her privilege like a weopon to assert her authority over people of color. It often involves appealing to white male authority to rescue them. And it's gotten plenty of Black men killed. Giving it a cutesy name is about nothint more than taking the power out of it. An if you don't laugh you'll cry situation. |
Read the quoted post. They literally did defend the behavior. And what slur are we trading? We're talking about gross behavior vs. an insult. Actual crappy behavior vs. A word. See the difference yet? |
You believe that white women should not have an opinion or a voice, fine. You are free to own your self hatred. I disagree and therefore find the term Karen a misogynistic, racist slur. |
Yes, this. I was coming on here to write the same, but then saw that you wrote it better. Sad because it's stereotyped as misusing power, but at its root that kind of behavior is due to powerlessness. Complaining, because they can't effect change in any other substantive way, or at all. |
No, it hasn’t. Unfortunately the term is now used to describe everything bad. You don’t think it is awful to tie a person’s name to this behavior? |
My personal theory: Some people want control others to make themselves feel better about themselves. So they take advantage of power plays when they can - maybe it's a server at a restaurant. Or someone else they think is inferior for whatever reason. They see it as justified punching down. My dad grew up in a large family with limited funds. They weren't exactly poor, but they were very thrifty. When he goes out to a restaurant he expects to get the FULL value out of this experience that he's paying for. And he goes overboard. He's not exactly rude, but he feels entitled to take up ALL of the server's time. Because he's paying money for her to serve him. Call it Richard, Dick for short. |
Black people toss it around indiscriminately too, often just towards a white woman they don't like. |
“Karen” is a relatively new term. It’s not more than 10 years old. |
And when men of any race use the term they always have the power differential. It is a slur. |
That's not what PP said at all. Let's coin a name for people who just make up fake sheet to argue against. What's your name? We'll name it after you. |