
My HS daughter told me that in class they were having a discussion and a girl used the term Karen. The teacher told her thatKaren is a racial slur and not to say it.
I’ve never considered it to be a racial slur. Is this a common take on the term? |
Yes. It is directed at one race in particular. |
What? |
No. I use it on anyone who is entitled and aggressive. |
+1. This is an awful slur that is for some reason tolerated. I appreciate that teacher shutting it down. |
Not really, though it's most frequently applied to white women.
It's more sexist than anything. |
This is a bit dramatic, and honestly exactly the reason people use it to describe a certain kind of person. It's on the level of calling someone a busy body. Calling it a slur is disrespectful to the experience of people who actually get slurs lobbed at them, and is typical centering behavior of exactly the kind of person who gets called a Karen. |
I read as a Karen and I am anything but. It has taught how bad it can feel to be stereotyped and I can’t imagine what my life would be without white privilege. This has been my takeaway.
Yes, it is racist. And racism is hurtful. |
It describes someone's (bad) behavior. It doesn't take away their humanity and equate them with an animal or trash. It's not a slur. It's a *response* to racism, specifically weoponized whiteness. |
I view “Karen” as a way to silence women. Particularly middle aged, white women. So maybe you don’t think it’s a slur, but I do. |
Also, women right here on this website have expressed fear that speaking up about anything will get them labeled a “Karen”. It’s not ok to silence women in this way. Use your words if you think someone is misbehaving. Using a slur like “Karen” is frankly just lazy and dumb. |
How does being called a name silence someone? It's just a frustrated response to behavior that can actually be really dangerous to people of color, ie. Emmitt Till. If the existence of the term makes women who wield the power of whiteness irresponsponsibly think twice before being a busy body, I don't have a problem with it. |
Karen is a word 🙄 It's not actually hurting you. |
Would you say that about all words? |
Use your words if you think someone is being irresponsible or dangerous. It’s really not that hard. Calling them a “Karen” does nothing. |