I agree people should know better players will play more. This is just common sense. The parents complaining about their kids playing time likely are on the wrong team for their skill. However, I think some coaches do more to develop the “bubble” kids than others. |
Shouldn’t the coach decide who is on the team? The coach is the one who is supposed to be evaluating skill levels. If a parent shells out thousands of dollars there is an expectation that their child will get some playing time. |
It is not realistic for all players on a team to be equally skilled. Especially when you get to outdoor. A kid not as skilled needs to practice extra, put in extra effort and hope to catch up. Some coaches will give all players the same high level of coaching. A less skilled kid will benefit from this type of coach and will catch up. A less skilled kid will not catch up if the coach only focuses on the top players and continue to build their list of skills. Some clubs have all players in an age group practice the same skills. It’s an opportunity for them all to improve at the skill. Some clubs break the age group up by skill level and those who are high skilled continue to be taught new skills while the others fall further behind because they aren’t adding to their list of skills. All players should be working on their skills outside of practice. When you get into travel sports, you shouldn’t expect equal playing time. If you don’t think your kid gets enough playing time then you are with the wrong club. It doesn’t mean the club is bad, it just means it’s not the right fit. |
Welma coaches for NCS and definitely favors her high school players who also play for Next Level. I’m not sure if there is a NCS player not on her top team regardless of whether they actually belong there or not. |
LBH, sometimes skill is irrelevant if your kid is not favored. A kid who performs well by any metric, plays at a high level, many accolades, is being recruited . . . comes to practice, practices hard, does everything asked, parents don't question playing time (despite being pissed and wanting to), pays everyhting on time, etc etc. and then gets a lesser position or team placement. Let's stop pretending that it's always the parents who are not understanding of their kid's true abilities. |
This. I have seen kids who are less skilled get more playing time because coach is BFFs with their parents. It is tough for DD to see this. |
More than tough. . . . it's demoralizing. And wrong. But happens a lot. |
Wolves is no different. Gloria has brought in players from Warhawks, Husel in the older age groups to win and sidelined players who have been there for ages. She also brings in guest players from places like Princeton FHC at major tournaments and side lines her Wolves players. It’s not just Next Level. She has also loss lots of players to Next Level, Freedom because of her coaching preferences |
Every club brings in guest players, including Husel and Warhawks. DD has guest played for 4 different clubs - including Wolves. I was concerned DD wouldn’t play much as a guest player but everyone played a good amount. Wolves has also gained players from other clubs. Players move clubs. It’s normal. Not every club/player is a fit. Just because one person has a bad experience doesn’t mean everyone does. |
“Gloria brings in players” Those kids left their clubs (for whatever reasons) and joined Wolves. “She has also loss (sic) lots of players” Those kids joined a different club (for whatever reasons) and left Wolves. The bias is ridiculous. As others have said, plenty of kids move clubs. For all sorts of reasons. No players have been sidelined because of new additions. The strength of a club is found in the kids and kids leaving and joining is part of the norm for youth sports. |
NP. Current Wolves parent in the upper age group. I read this post fully and IMO there are truths to both the positive and critical posts about the Wolves. I can easily name what a PP poster called who the core players are versus the sidelined players are in the upper age group. IMO here are the top three positives and negatives about the Wolves.
Positives: 1) Excellent u12/u14 coaches that have been brought in 2) Superb goalie coaches 3) Strong recruiting advise Negatives: 1) Inconsistent and/or ineffective (different learning styles) coaching for older age group during practices/tournaments 2) Limited skill development for less skilled upper aged players due to limited playing opportunities and skill practice differentiation 3) Coaching philosophy stated versus executed are a mismatch sometimes Possible areas to improve: 1) Skills differentiation and playing opportunities for highly skilled players versus developing players 2) Effective practice time focusing on skills (repetition), strategy (field IQ, watching games for movement and positioning) 3) Strength and conditioning integration I agree with other posters there isn’t a perfect club out there. Everywhere has their positives and negatives. Do your homework before deciding on a club. |
Current Wolves parent. My main beef with this club is that some of the core players are not necessarily better than the sidelined players. This is what is frustrating to me. |
Same at Husel. Favorites galore and the owner is cra-cra. |
One thing I have learned in club sports is that not many people think they are part of the “core group” but everyone is part of the “core group” to someone else.
I never thought my DD was part of the group at her club until another parent commented on it. Likewise, I always thought of this one family as part of the group and was surprised to find out they didn’t think they were. Not all coach/player personalities are a match. DD has clicked with some coaches and not others. Find a coach your kid clicks with. |
Core group = group of players getting favored treatment and most of the time on the field whether it was deserved Why should the coach/player personality match be factored into this ??? |