Most young men are single - most young women are not

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Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.


This is...not a good thing.


It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.


Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.


What is your alternative?


Idk...maybe a nuclear family?


An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.


Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!


Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.


Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.


There is nothing you can do about it.


Don't kid yourself. There is always something to be done.

Hope your trolling has been fun, girl.


State-mandated marriages? Banning divorce?

Hi Gilead
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Anonymous wrote:You can sneer at the quality of young men, and you can say it's their own damn fault for being unf**ckable losers that don't deserve love. You could even do those things with some justification.

But when they increasingly make the world a violent sh*tshow, none of us is going to be happy, and it's not going to make a huge difference who was right or wrong.


What is your solution?


I am not the poster to whom you are responding. Not sure what the solution is. Maybe a start would be more support for boys in the early years? Aside from sports, encourage activities that require more social interactions like drama, home economics, the arts. We encourage both boys to do all sorts of activities that would allow for more social interaction. The truth is that when they are in a non-athletic activity, they struggle so much more to be accepted into the group since most girls seem to want to partner with other girls in group activities.

Boys need good role models for them with more mentorship programs.


The push right now is for STEM educations and only STEM. Who would have thought that foregoing anything that helped boys be social would cause them to have issues with social development?
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Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.


This is...not a good thing.


It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.


Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.


What is your alternative?


Idk...maybe a nuclear family?


An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.


What percentages of single mothers do you assume are single mothers by choice?


The vast majority. Including ones that choose not to involve the father (because he, like most men, are subhuman useless).


Why so much hate for men?


They’re useless. Single & lesbian women are thriving raising kids without them and take huge risks rather than dealing with them because they are so useless. They don’t help around the house, they’re uneducated, etc.
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Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.


This is...not a good thing.


It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.


Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.


What is your alternative?


Idk...maybe a nuclear family?


An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.


What percentages of single mothers do you assume are single mothers by choice?


The vast majority. Including ones that choose not to involve the father (because he, like most men, are subhuman useless).


Why so much hate for men?


So incredibly blind re: what men have and continue to contribute to society. Only the truly privileged can talk like that.
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Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.


This is...not a good thing.


It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.


Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.


What is your alternative?


Idk...maybe a nuclear family?


An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.


Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!


Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.


Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.


There is nothing you can do about it.


Don't kid yourself. There is always something to be done.

Hope your trolling has been fun, girl.


State-mandated marriages? Banning divorce?

Hi Gilead


We seem to be going down the banning abortion and birth control route.
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Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.


This is...not a good thing.


It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.


Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.


What is your alternative?


Idk...maybe a nuclear family?


An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.


Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!


Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.


Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.


There is nothing you can do about it.


Don't kid yourself. There is always something to be done.

Hope your trolling has been fun, girl.


State-mandated marriages? Banning divorce?

Hi Gilead


We seem to be going down the banning abortion and birth control route.


Gotta keep women barefoot, pregnant and dependent on their husbands. Goal is to cripple their their ability to compete in the workplace so men can dominate the higher paying jobs and keep power. Keep them in abusive relationships.
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This conversation is basically meaningless until you also take into account race and class as well.

I don't have time to google all the stats on this, though start here, https://www.brookings.edu/blog/up-front/2021/01/12/the-unreported-gender-gap-in-high-school-graduation-rates/, but basically there is almost no gender gap among white UMC kids in terms of educational outcomes, but fairly significant ones in different classes / races. Same could be said for e.g. marriage rates for college educated vs. non-college educated. Which does not mean this is not a problem, quite the opposite. But that many (most?) of the causes and solutions raised here are not responsive to the issue.
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Teach your boys to interact with girls. Teach your boys to interact with one another in the real world and not only online. Far too many young men's only interaction with other people is through screens. Men aren't encouraged to have friends with other men. Men are socially isolated and incompetent.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.


This is...not a good thing.


It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.


Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.


What is your alternative?


Idk...maybe a nuclear family?


An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.


Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!


Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.


Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.


There is nothing you can do about it.


Don't kid yourself. There is always something to be done.

Hope your trolling has been fun, girl.


State-mandated marriages? Banning divorce?

Hi Gilead


We seem to be going down the banning abortion and birth control route.


Gotta keep women barefoot, pregnant and dependent on their husbands. Goal is to cripple their their ability to compete in the workplace so men can dominate the higher paying jobs and keep power. Keep them in abusive relationships.


Did your husband abuse you by telling you to turn off Real Housewives and pay attention to the kids?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The nuclear family is dead. Accept that.


The most important part of the legislation:

"It would also ban them from accessing websites developed by two Chinese companies, TikTok’s maker ByteDance and Tencent Holdings, the operator of WeChat, on the devices or from using the apps or sites while connected to a network owned or maintained by the commonwealth."

That leads to this absurdity

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/15/business/auburn-tiktok-ban-students.html
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Teach your boys to interact with girls. Teach your boys to interact with one another in the real world and not only online. Far too many young men's only interaction with other people is through screens. Men aren't encouraged to have friends with other men. Men are socially isolated and incompetent.


Because they've been completely neutered by calling every single thing they do "toxic" or "creepy".

But yes, instead of calming down on that hysteria a bit, let's situate the locus of all blame on them.
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Anonymous wrote:Single motherhood has exploded.


This is...not a good thing.


It’s great. Women are tired of men not being good partners who actually help out around the house.


Yikes...have you seen the outcomes for kids that come from single mother households? They're horrible. Even worse than kids from single father households.


What is your alternative?


Idk...maybe a nuclear family?


An overwhelming number of women clearly disagree. It should be telling that they’d rather raise kids alone than with today’s men. Women have spoken. You cannot force us to marry.


Society will enjoy your trainwreck kids. You go girl!


Society will have to adapt. The nuclear family is dead and isn’t coming back. Accept that.


Don't complain when that "adaptation" hits your front door. So short sighted and selfish lol.


There is nothing you can do about it.


Don't kid yourself. There is always something to be done.

Hope your trolling has been fun, girl.


State-mandated marriages? Banning divorce?

Hi Gilead


We seem to be going down the banning abortion and birth control route.


Gotta keep women barefoot, pregnant and dependent on their husbands. Goal is to cripple their their ability to compete in the workplace so men can dominate the higher paying jobs and keep power. Keep them in abusive relationships.


Did your husband abuse you by telling you to turn off Real Housewives and pay attention to the kids?


Anonymous
Female in my 20s here. I plan to have a child via donor at 40.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your boys to interact with girls. Teach your boys to interact with one another in the real world and not only online. Far too many young men's only interaction with other people is through screens. Men aren't encouraged to have friends with other men. Men are socially isolated and incompetent.


Because they've been completely neutered by calling every single thing they do "toxic" or "creepy".

But yes, instead of calming down on that hysteria a bit, let's situate the locus of all blame on them.


Right, blame it on being called toxic or creepy and not on their crappy male socialization. It's really not that hard for men to find a girlfriend or a job if they have some self esteem and motivation.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your boys to interact with girls. Teach your boys to interact with one another in the real world and not only online. Far too many young men's only interaction with other people is through screens. Men aren't encouraged to have friends with other men. Men are socially isolated and incompetent.


Because they've been completely neutered by calling every single thing they do "toxic" or "creepy".

But yes, instead of calming down on that hysteria a bit, let's situate the locus of all blame on them.


Right, blame it on being called toxic or creepy and not on their crappy male socialization. It's really not that hard for men to find a girlfriend or a job if they have some self esteem and motivation.


You're wrong. That's the point of the whole article.
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