
When a baby gets stuck during the birth, the only option is to work to free the baby and complete the delivery. A speedy 911 call is NOT going to change the outcome. An EMT is NOT going to be able to offer anything greater than what the skilled midwife/OB is already doing. Even having an operating room three doors down is NOT going to help. Once a baby is partially born, there are no other magic answers; you have to finish getting the baby out, and if more than 10 minutes pass, the baby is just not going to make it unless there is a miracle. Maybe you take some personal comfort from thinking that a hospital could have saved this baby, and I think that as mothers who are horrified at this case, it is easy to believe that the right medical team could have saved this baby. However, I honestly believe that the outcome would have been exactly the same regardless of where the birth occurred. . I disagree (and I am the person who has had a homebirth vbac so I am not anti-homebirth- I have also had 2 C-sections, one of them I am thankful for or my baby wouldn't be here today)!!!! My OB told me she has had some very serious and difficult SD (shoulder dystocia) cases, one of which they saved the baby by basically cutting open the cervix (I know, awful, but better than a dead baby). She also said there were some other SD cases where the baby was totally stuck and she had to quickly push the baby back up into mom and rush them to the OR where they were saved. So I couldn't disagree with you more, being close to an OR CAN mean the difference between life or death!!!! |
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When a baby gets stuck during the birth, the only option is to work to free the baby and complete the delivery. A speedy 911 call is NOT going to change the outcome. An EMT is NOT going to be able to offer anything greater than what the skilled midwife/OB is already doing. Even having an operating room three doors down is NOT going to help. Once a baby is partially born, there are no other magic answers; you have to finish getting the baby out, and if more than 10 minutes pass, the baby is just not going to make it unless there is a miracle. Maybe you take some personal comfort from thinking that a hospital could have saved this baby, and I think that as mothers who are horrified at this case, it is easy to believe that the right medical team could have saved this baby. However, I honestly believe that the outcome would have been exactly the same regardless of where the birth occurred. . I disagree (and I am the person who has had a homebirth vbac so I am not anti-homebirth- I have also had 2 C-sections, one of them I am thankful for or my baby wouldn't be here today)!!!! My OB told me she has had some very serious and difficult SD (shoulder dystocia) cases, one of which they saved the baby by basically cutting open the cervix (I know, awful, but better than a dead baby). She also said there were some other SD cases where the baby was totally stuck and she had to quickly push the baby back up into mom and rush them to the OR where they were saved. So I couldn't disagree with you more, being close to an OR CAN mean the difference between life or death!!!! Did she tell you if they all came out healthy and whole? |
I was going to leave this discussion because it's getting boring but this statement is just purely false. Read up on your history. This is a great book about the history of childbirth in America: http://www.amazon.com/Lying--History-Childbirth-America-Expanded/dp/0300040873/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1304699310&sr=8-1 |
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Round and Round We Go!!!! Certainly assuming the OB she’d had throughout her preg didn’t want to “help” her give birth naturally! When it comes to vilifying the medical community , you say the evil docs refused to help her and that she couldn’t call the shots in a hospital b/c her OB options were limited. When it comes to defending her risk assessment and saying it was average (yeah, right), then the doctors suddenly didn’t say she was high risk but were merely booked up? Which is it? Was she too set on no hospital to be objective (at which point OBs and midwives should have intervened to reassure her back into objectivity)? Was she failed by a medical community who refused to help her (in which case the midwives would not have turned her around)? Did she seek, find, but refuse vaginal birth attempts in a hospital (in which case why attack a willing medical community)? Did she find the vaginal deliv docs but they weren’t free (again, why would the midwives have turned her around)? I can’t figure where you are with this. Based on the FACTS, the woman’s pregnancy was deemed high risk enough for the OB who was providing the prenatal monitoring (including sonograms she obviously had to have had since they knew it was a breech preg) to call for a c-section. At some point she walked away from the OB providing this, no? She didn’t want a hospital birth, which an OB can’t work with. The midwives told her to seek a physician. The article stated that only one OB in the area was willing but unavailable. ONE doc. In the wide DC area. No midwife support for a non-doc delivery. So I’m not sure what your argument is. It was made clear this was extremely risky, and Carr knew this. |
When a baby gets stuck during the birth, the only option is to work to free the baby and complete the delivery. A speedy 911 call is NOT going to change the outcome. An EMT is NOT going to be able to offer anything greater than what the skilled midwife/OB is already doing. Even having an operating room three doors down is NOT going to help. Once a baby is partially born, there are no other magic answers; you have to finish getting the baby out, and if more than 10 minutes pass, the baby is just not going to make it unless there is a miracle. Maybe you take some personal comfort from thinking that a hospital could have saved this baby, and I think that as mothers who are horrified at this case, it is easy to believe that the right medical team could have saved this baby. However, I honestly believe that the outcome would have been exactly the same regardless of where the birth occurred. . I disagree (and I am the person who has had a homebirth vbac so I am not anti-homebirth- I have also had 2 C-sections, one of them I am thankful for or my baby wouldn't be here today)!!!! My OB told me she has had some very serious and difficult SD (shoulder dystocia) cases, one of which they saved the baby by basically cutting open the cervix (I know, awful, but better than a dead baby). She also said there were some other SD cases where the baby was totally stuck and she had to quickly push the baby back up into mom and rush them to the OR where they were saved. So I couldn't disagree with you more, being close to an OR CAN mean the difference between life or death!!!! Well look at that, staunch homebirthers - someone who believes in homebirth AND objectivity in identifying its limits! Got any answers for this one or is she on the traitor list? |
Round and round IS my point. YOU don't know what happened. Stop it with a risky birth...please. The point is that the mom knew the risks and with that full knowledge rolled the dice and lost. It did not seem too risky for HER. And, that is all the matters. |
I disagree (and I am the person who has had a homebirth vbac so I am not anti-homebirth- I have also had 2 C-sections, one of them I am thankful for or my baby wouldn't be here today)!!!! My OB told me she has had some very serious and difficult SD (shoulder dystocia) cases, one of which they saved the baby by basically cutting open the cervix (I know, awful, but better than a dead baby). She also said there were some other SD cases where the baby was totally stuck and she had to quickly push the baby back up into mom and rush them to the OR where they were saved. So I couldn't disagree with you more, being close to an OR CAN mean the difference between life or death!!!! Well look at that, staunch homebirthers - someone who believes in homebirth AND objectivity in identifying its limits! Got any answers for this one or is she on the traitor list? You do understand that all homebirthers do not share the same brain, right? Most of them are fairly open-minded people and that's what brought them to home birth in the first place. A few are zealots who approach it almost like religion but that is not the norm. So when you ask "staunch homebirthers" for an opinion and they remain silent, it's because you are asking for an answer that does not exist. There is no "traitor list." Most of them are probably thinking about how sad this is and feeling genuine compassion for the parents, the baby, and the midwife. And still defending the rights and freedom of the people involved to make choices that many people do not agree with. |
Well look at that, staunch homebirthers - someone who believes in homebirth AND objectivity in identifying its limits! Got any answers for this one or is she on the traitor list? You do understand that all homebirthers do not share the same brain, right? Most of them are fairly open-minded people and that's what brought them to home birth in the first place. A few are zealots who approach it almost like religion but that is not the norm. So when you ask "staunch homebirthers" for an opinion and they remain silent, it's because you are asking for an answer that does not exist. There is no "traitor list." Most of them are probably thinking about how sad this is and feeling genuine compassion for the parents, the baby, and the midwife. And still defending the rights and freedom of the people involved to make choices that many people do not agree with. That was expressed very well. Thank you. |
Predicted risk is what this thread is all about, and i'm pretty sure no the overall concensus here is that it was indeed above-average. And though the mother's assessment of the risk is important, it does not absolve Karen Carr (or anyone else) in her decision to participate with that risk as though she could handle whatever came her way as well as a hospital staff might have - which Karen Carr's peers recommended. |
I disagree (and I am the person who has had a homebirth vbac so I am not anti-homebirth- I have also had 2 C-sections, one of them I am thankful for or my baby wouldn't be here today)!!!! My OB told me she has had some very serious and difficult SD (shoulder dystocia) cases, one of which they saved the baby by basically cutting open the cervix (I know, awful, but better than a dead baby). She also said there were some other SD cases where the baby was totally stuck and she had to quickly push the baby back up into mom and rush them to the OR where they were saved. So I couldn't disagree with you more, being close to an OR CAN mean the difference between life or death!!!! Did she tell you if they all came out healthy and whole? She did say sometimes when this is done the babies can be left with nerve damage in their arms (talking about SD here- but I am sure the parents would rather have their baby alive even if they are left with a damaged arm). That is why she wanted me to go ahead with a C-section, my baby was at serious risk for SD. That was a risk I wasn't willing to take. My homebirth baby had been much smaller and had less risk factors than my last baby, and that is why I went ahead with that homebirth. I still support hb in LOW risk cases, but I will personally never have another one again. My next baby will be a planned C-section (although I know it is done, I personally don't feel comfortable doing a vbac after 2 C-sections, I did feel okay with doing a vbac after 1, but not 2). Shoot me. |
Well look at that, staunch homebirthers - someone who believes in homebirth AND objectivity in identifying its limits! Got any answers for this one or is she on the traitor list? You do understand that all homebirthers do not share the same brain, right? Most of them are fairly open-minded people and that's what brought them to home birth in the first place. A few are zealots who approach it almost like religion but that is not the norm. So when you ask "staunch homebirthers" for an opinion and they remain silent, it's because you are asking for an answer that does not exist. There is no "traitor list." Most of them are probably thinking about how sad this is and feeling genuine compassion for the parents, the baby, and the midwife. And still defending the rights and freedom of the people involved to make choices that many people do not agree with. 1) I said "staunch" for a reason. 2) Again with the rights and freedom. Few here are attacking the right to birth from home. It's the professional right to assist this beyond one's capability that's being questioned, and the objectivity and open-mindedness of home-birth advocates to agree to hospital settings when it's best and not just trust what they want to hear that's being promoted. I can't even remember a post saying that it should be illegal to birth at home or to practice midwifery. 3) Traitor list refered to to those here who systematically attack a post accusing them of being and OB when they have medical knowledge (which apparently makes them evil and biased) or of NOT being an OB if their knowledge is apparently limited. |
Yes, that too. KC took on the case with full knowledge of the risks, rolled the dice and lost. I agree. |
Did she tell you if they all came out healthy and whole? She did say sometimes when this is done the babies can be left with nerve damage in their arms (talking about SD here- but I am sure the parents would rather have their baby alive even if they are left with a damaged arm). That is why she wanted me to go ahead with a C-section, my baby was at serious risk for SD. That was a risk I wasn't willing to take. My homebirth baby had been much smaller and had less risk factors than my last baby, and that is why I went ahead with that homebirth. I still support hb in LOW risk cases, but I will personally never have another one again. My next baby will be a planned C-section (although I know it is done, I personally don't feel comfortable doing a vbac after 2 C-sections, I did feel okay with doing a vbac after 1, but not 2). Shoot me. Your body, your choice. Do what you want and leave other people alone with their choices. |