How would you prepare them for drinking culture then? Or is it better to shelter them and let them figure it out on their own in college? |
If, if, if. If the Swedes had not arrived, there'd be a rapist on the loose, congratulating himself for "20 minutes of action." |
Yes, they found him guilty of the crimes. But they didn't offer an opinion as to whether he deserves a long prison sentence. I believe he is guilty as well, I just don't believe that what he is guilty of is deserving of a long prison sentence. Especially since he will have to live the rest of his life as a registered sex offender. |
From the studies I've seen the type of sexual predators that cannot be reformed are pedophiles. This guy was an asshole who took advantage of a drunk girl. Yes, he's a dick, but I don't think it's of the level that he can't be reformed. |
I think that they were fooling around and he had hoped to have sex with her - that was his intent. Then she passed out. He was aroused and was getting himself off by dry humping her. I don't think he had any intentions of raping her unconscious body. He wouldn't have wasted time dry humping her if he was going to rape her. But in CA if the victim doesn't remember what happened....it is assault. Ironically, if she had remained conscious they probably would have had sex....which could have gotten him a rape charge because she blacked out and didn't remember what happened. Thus the intent to rape... It was a mess of a night alright. |
I'm not going to teach my kids how to party drink. I will talk to them about how serious things can get if they don't take the time to get to know a girl and treat her decently. |
| Ok. I am wondering how it is known that he fingered her. And before anyone gets hysterical, I am not trying to cast doubt. I'm just curious as how that can be determined. She obviously doesn't remember anything, the men on the bikes saw him dry humping her. Is manual penetration something that can be determined from a medical exam especially if she was not a virgin. And no I am not victim blaming, I'm just assuming that since she was 23 years old and had a boyfriend she was not a virgin. |
Hope they remember that conversation when they are black out drunk. |
There's no IF anymore, there is only what he did. There's no speculation about what he would have done if she had behaved differently, there is only what he DID TO HER while she was passed out. I asked a question upthread that none of the rape apologists want to answer: if he'd been found sitting on top of a passed out person slapping her face back and forth, would that be okay to you? If he'd stuck foreign objects into her mouth, instead of an orifice where you assume she derived pleasure from it? Would you still view that as the results of her actions, or speculate that she'd invited him to slap her face while she was unconscious? |
He said he did. There was consistent physical evidence. |
Leave the "fingering" aside. He was seen humping her "corpse-like" (the witness's words) body. She was unconscious and he was humping her. We know this because two people saw it. He was convicted of sexual assault with the intent to rape for doing that. It's not questionable. It's not he said/she said. There were two (male) witnesses to that. 6 months isn't enough time for a would-be rapist. |
Yes, your hypotheticals are different. Was he fingering her for his sexual gratification, or for (what he thought was) hers? Slapping her, doing other things to her, are different. |
1) Dry humping her body is a sexual battery/sexual assault. 2) The jury heard all the evidence and convicted him of sexual assault with intent to rape. Your opinion doesn't matter. They heard all of the evidence. You haven't. You are wrong. |
I believe that was information provided by him. |
I agree with you. I love how many "opinions" about what happened are on this thread. Its completely ridiculous. As if all these people were there! |