Why are men so angry?
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Anonymous
| I have seen men rage at others in public, usually strangers, mostly women. Why you so mad bro? |
Anonymous
| Question of the century |
Anonymous
| My theory is that most men who are angry aren't getting laid adequately/often enough. Sexual healing is real. |
Anonymous
| I think they are insecure, or they wish they were women. It’s a question for a neuropsychologist. |
Anonymous
| Your sample must be awfully small and skewed if think it is mostly women. |
Anonymous
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Funny you ask that - a few weeks ago, I ended things with a man I had been dating for about 3 months, because I could see he had anger issues that were starting to come out. The next day, he was involved in a road rage incident that got him arrested, thrown in jail with no bond, and several felony aggravated assault charges.
In his case, I just really don’t think he saw anything wrong with his behavior. Anytime he raged, he always blamed the other person. And nobody ever held him accountable, even now I’ve heard his friends saying he’s such a great guy, he doesn’t deserve to be in jail, etc. They’ve excused it with “he has a low tolerance for nonsense, so the other person must have brought it on themselves”. So overall I think a large part is a lack of accountability. People tend to walk on eggshells around those men to avoid pissing them off. Especially accountability from other men. Oh, and also with the guy I had been seeing, he immediately ran back to his ex-gf and she’s been handling his legal stuff. So the consequences are very low. |
Anonymous
For sure. I also think there’s also a lot of misandry out there, and the Internet is feeding it to them as rage-bait. A working class guy who saw his father work in a factory, get a pension, and own a small house is now has to work two part-time jobs, live in an apartment, and can’t retire. Then he’s told that the world’s problems are mediocre white men’s fault. Essentially, everything’s worse and it’s his fault. |
Anonymous
Because of women. |
Anonymous
Exactly. If you get hostile enough, most people fold. Angry men realize that and use their aggression for their own benefit. There is no reason to stop, unless they finally meet their match and get arrested. If you don't mind being a noisy, uncouth person in public, you can exploit other people's sense of decorum. It's the alpha male mentality. My best friend's husband is a nice person most of the time, but can get really loud when he's angry. I've seen people fold in front of his anger, which means there are no repercussions. My friend refuses to cooperate when he's like this, and walks away, but there are no repercussions beyond that. She's never going to divorce him, because he's a good enough husband and father the rest of the time. So there are no real consequences at all for this guy. |
Anonymous
Wait til you see what they do behind closed doors. Loud temper tantrums at everything. They don’t want to do anything or talk about anything. Developmentally and cognitively many are like stuck 3 yos. |
Anonymous
Sad and hilariously bad but predictable misbehavior. |
Anonymous
| I always assumed it was because they were used to the world revolving around them and always getting their way. Now they have to co-exist in a world where women can also do things like hold jobs and vote. Many were raised to believe they could do anything (because in the past they could) and now they struggle with not getting things easy. I think I just described toddlers too. Lol |
Anonymous
| I genuinely have never seen a man randomly pop off at a strange woman in public. Where do yall see this? |
Anonymous
| I have seen more Karens have temper tantrums in public |
Anonymous
That I see very often |