Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
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Anonymous
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Today I visited my boyfriend and there was a dog at his house. he says his ex needed dog sitting for the next couple of weeks.
This makes me uncomfortable. How would you approach this? |
Anonymous
| Are you concerned he’s going to have sex with the dog? |
Anonymous
| Sounds like your boyfriend is a good guy. |
Anonymous
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Ehhh… He probably should have shared it was his ex’s dog. |
Anonymous
| Your boyfriend can do whatever he wants, not only things that you approve or feel comfortable with. If you have a problem with that, break up with him. |
Anonymous
| This is a you problem. |
Anonymous
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I understand, especially if they lived together and he was attached to the dog.
On the other hand, it could be a yellow flag worth paying attention to how over they really are. |
Anonymous
| Is the dog familiar with him? If you don't trust him, explore that. |
Anonymous
| Seems like an opening to discuss his relationship with her as an ex. From there you can decide if there’s anything for you to worry about |
Anonymous
| Did she have the dog when they were together? If so, he might just love the dog and want to see it again. |
Anonymous
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OP here. Sorry I shared very few details. he was with her for 5 years they used to live together. I don’t know if the dog was around then. After they ended he had a new relationship and cheated with her once according to him.
Because of this history I just feel uncomfortable about it all. |
Anonymous
Yeah. End that relationship. Seems sloppy. |
Anonymous
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Trickling details, burying the lede… he cheated on a previous girlfriend with a previous-previous girlfriend…
I call troll. |
Anonymous
| How long have you guys been dating? I wouldn’t dump him over it, but I would keep an eye on it. As a new-ish dog owner, I’m more sympathetic to it than I would have been previously. |
Anonymous
| He loves the dog!! Normal. He misses the darn dog! Of course he does. |