High stats kid with disappointing end results?
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Anonymous
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Anyone with high stats kids, who didn't get where you thought they should? Thought mine would land a few T25s, but didn't. She got into NYU, UMD and GWU, which are good choices but still feel a bit bummed.
Anyone experiencing this? How to get over it. |
Anonymous
| Last year, mine got into some top schools but they really wanted HYP. It stung for a bit but it fades slowly. Once at the school they’ll thrive and you won’t think about it anymore, and the rare time it pops up you’ll question whether they even would have been better off knowing how happy your kid is now. Hope this is your story too. |
Anonymous
"Should"? No. Couple of disappointments but im not naive enough to think that I know what's going on with admissions at any school. |
Anonymous
Remind your kid why they liked NYU, UMD and GWU. Help them get excited about their choices. Also, you remind them that the T25s are all highly rejective schools, so many many many many many top students were rejected as well. She played the lottery and didn't win. Time to focus on your excellent choices |
Anonymous
Agree. I guess I have always known there are many many kids out there that "should" land T25s. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Work hard, hope for the best, if it doesn't move onto a plan B. There are probably wonderful things to get excited about in that plan as well. |
Anonymous
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Gosh ... NYU is so many kids' dream school...
I can't read this kind of post. |
Anonymous
| Are you upset or is your kid? These are awesome choices to have! |
Anonymous
| Dc did not get into a few places we thought he should, but it was all fine. Both dh and I went to both pricey elite private colleges and state schools between undergrad and grad, and I think we did a good job of not letting dc get caught up in status and brand. |
Anonymous
| Agree with others that those are excellent options (and NYU is very close to the top 25), but I do know what you mean. Everyone wants their kid’s hard work to be rewarded, and everyone has an idea of what that reward would consist of. So the adjustment can sting. Def agree with the PP to remind your kid and yourself that most applicants to top 25 schools are qualified to attend. Since there isn’t room for everyone, in the end it’s largely a spin of the roulette wheel. I hope she loves where she lands. |
Anonymous
| Hi OP, my son also is choosing between UMD Honors (in state for us), NYU and GWU interestingly! He only applied to one Ivy and two other Top 20 so was not surprised that he didn't get in, but was a tad bit disappointed. But we are all thankful that he has great options to choose from. You should be proud of your daughter! |
Anonymous
Nyu is not top 25, so I kinda get it. |
Anonymous
Op here, we r OOS for UMD. What major? |
Anonymous
Thought the same thing! NYU is a wonderful admit. |
Anonymous
Yes, but we were sure to measure expectations at the get go so it was disappointment but not shock and tough to get upset about. Making sure kids realize that there are so many high stat kids these days that it becomes very difficult to handicap admissions chances. |
Anonymous
| Undergrad is so random. Don't worry about it. Just tell them to work hard. Grad school are a lot more predictable result. |