You lost me with your “at parent’s discretion” comment. I have respect for someone who thinks they are above the rules. I’ll help your child because I care about my students. (You’re welcome.) It’s not their fault this is how you choose to operate. |
Nobody on this thread has done that. There’s no “weird flex” other than your strange desire to create conflict. |
It follows the rules. Parents and their chosen professionals determine the best interest of students. Not a teacher who thinks doing her job needs a “your welcome” |
No, the “you’re welcome” is that I will help your child regardless of your disrespect for the system. It is not your child’s fault that you approach education professionals with so much disrespect. You’ve lost any footing with me. |
Your problem is you think this matters or should matter. If you don’t want to do “extra” meaning the work FCPS regulations clearly stipulated is your job, go somewhere else. Don’t pretend make up work is anomalous— its not— or that it’s harder based on your perception of why a student was out. |
You have no understanding of my job, nor do you respect it. You’ve been rude, dismissive, and entitled. I feel sorry for the teachers and administrators who have to deal with you in real life, as you have clearly established who you are on this thread. |
Your perception that it is rude to point out that you are required by contract to provide make up work says a lot about entitlement. I respect many teachers, but no, I do not respect you, or anyone else who acts as though doing the job for which they are hired and for which they accept public pay is some remarkable favor they are doing the world. You make good teachers look bad— always wanting extra, always wanting sympathy, always wanting a gold star. You, by the way, or why parents take note of teachers with so many absences and don’t provide the benefit of the doubt anymore. |
NP: nowhere does it state in my contract I must provide makeup work to kids with unexcused (vacation) absences. If you have information that states otherwise, please share! Official grading policy is actually that any vacation is unexcused and unexcused absences result in zeros. If a teacher is offering makeup work for a vacation, they are going above and beyond for your child. |
I’m the PP to which that poster was responding. You are correct, of course, and this has been pointed out multiple times. However, that poster continues to demand that make-up work is always required as absences are excused at “parent’s discretion.” There’s no way to reason with that poster, who will continue to morph our job description into whatever he/she wants it to be. I wouldn’t take any insults hurled by that poster seriously, either. |
It’s not your business whether a kid is on vacation just like you think it’s not a parents business if a teacher is. If vacation is in the best interests of the kid, it’s excused. A teacher who seems like they don’t understand it’s part of the job to provide makeup work will be informed by the admin that the student had a note. |
| An absence is excused if a parent says it is. The parent is who calls the school. If the Admin (not the teacher) wants to request additional information they’re provided a note from the professional the parent selects to say the date the student will return to school. I don’t know where you get this idea that vacations are always unexcused absence. |
Well, the school system doesn’t agree with your “the parent calls all the shots” interpretation of the rules. I’m not seeing “vacation” below: “Legitimate reasons may include: illness (including mental health challenges), injury, legal obligations, medical procedures, death in the family, a doctor or dental appointment, religious or cultural observance, military obligation, deployment of a military family member or visit from a family member who has immediately returned from deployment, civic engagement (one school day per year for middle and high school) suspension except for certain violations as provided in the current version of Regulation 2601: Student Rights and Responsibilities, or another reason acceptable to the principal or their designee. Parents or guardians and students are encouraged to prearrange excused absences when possible.” Sure, as I stated upthread, you are welcome to LIE. And we’ll give your child the work, of course. But that’s on you and your conscience as you teach disrespect of rules and others to your child. But you won’t get us to agree with your “I am LORD” attitude. Your interpretation is simply wrong, no matter what twist you try to put on it. |
Zero of the things you list require a geographical location. If I decide my child will visit a relative returning from the armed forces in the Caribbean, that’s none of your concern. Cultural observation takes place where the parents say it does, including Europe. And even if all of the above wasn’t true, the person who has to agree is still not the teacher. So now that we agree, it is part of your job. We can agree it is not extra work. |
It’s like addressing an obstinate child. You bolded the part about the principal finding your excuse acceptable. Um… principals aren’t going to fake data for you simply because who throw a tantrum. They’ve seen it before, and they can handle you quite easily. Scream “it’s your job to placate me” all you want. It doesn’t make it true. You go on a vacation? Great. I’ll help your kid because your kid isn’t the pain. You are. But it’ll never be “my job,” no matter how big of a tantrum you throw. |
SO you want to creatively obscure the reason for a trip and don’t want a teacher to do extra work and create a packet ahead of time for your child’s trip? Cool- Lexia and ST math 30 minutes of each a day and check Schoology. No extra work involved at all. Have a great time on your “emergency trip!” |