Its called Class and it's by Paul Fussell. In many ways it's The Preppy Handbook writ large. |
That's not just according to Fussell. It's also true across societies and time periods. The noveau riche can't do it even though they have "f you" money, because the old money is always judging them. |
Nah, YOU are just falling in status, so your line is dying and becoming MC. I’m also WASP - mayflower, DAR, private (not boarding) school. The landscape is evolving as it always has and we are still going strong - we just interact with more diverse circles of UC, where our predecessors were more racist and we are much less so. |
No one cares about old money in this day and age, though. It just doesn't matter anymore. Tech money is the indisputed ruler of our society now. |
So true, but mainly because US has accepted more UC foreigners with privileges AND UC women want the privileges their brothers have - so the privilege market is flooded. |
People cared enough about old money recently enough that Donald Trump has a huge chip on his shoulder...and look where that got us. Tech money is certainly doing things, but I'm not sure they rule society the same way the WASPs did. |
This isn’t “class” it’s financial standing. The question was about “class”. You can be very wealthy and LC - just look at many NFL players or Mike Tyson or Eminem etc. they are rich lower class people. I could never marry one of them and have them accepted into my WASP family - they’d have a heart attack. It’s not just about money; it’s all about culture. |
Donald Trump is old AF. Any such analysis related to him is about two decades out of date. Look at the celebrities and cultural markers he's obsessed with. He's stuck in the 80's and 90's; times have changed. |
I agree. I think the internet ruined a lot of this because it democratized information and homogenized culture. Anyone can read up on “Class” this days. Anyone can become an “influencer” since we no longer have strong cultural and civic gatekeepers. Being a “poser” or sellout used to be the worst thing you could be - there’s no shame to strivers and wannabes anymore. Similarly, our modern tech robber barons have shown no willingness to be culture or civic leaders aside from some childhood nerd desires like outer space and robots. None of them are really investing in this country other than virtually. |
Now, you get celebrated in Netflix documentaries! |
Someone is always judging. Best way to handle is to not care. |
Ty, will check it out. |
Clearly I hit a nerve… |
| Such insightful views from our brilliant members at DCUM. |
Agree that "it's not just about money," but it's still about money a priori. Culture without money is not class. |