You literally cited subjective academic rankings and ignored the others aspects of the college experience that I noted have plenty of value for parents seeking to identify the best fit for well-rounded applicants. And no, band / orchestra and coding competitions / Science Olympiad awards, etc. don’t make a kid well-rounded. |
Same poster … just re-read myself … as I recalled, the surge of insecurity (dissonance, maybe?) from “top private” parents is palpable on every single page. Every one. |
"Top private" parents feel the need to brag. They have a really odd demeanor. It's cringe. There is this strange sanctimonious tone. It's almost like they have to justify their kids choice. |
Agreed. I think it’s probably the ones scraping by to afford their kid’s top private education who resent that there are kids paying less for their education and having a substantially better experience in the process. I doubt the parents of kids getting full aid or the parents with FU money really care to attack the top public schools, but the ones who know they are there by the thinnest of margins (either financially or because their kid barely got in, or were accepted from a waitlist) seem to be pretty relentless in their effort to downplay the Berkeleys, UCLAs, and Michigans. I’d guess there are a lot of SLAC and Cornell parents in the mix with the highest levels of insecurity, but who knows. |
Some of this is people trying to feel better about the 100K+ in undergrad debt they have that they wouldn't have if they went to those state schools. |
DP here. So what makes a kid well rounded? |
Something tells me you downplay everything after the Berkeley's, UCLA's, and Michigan's. As a UCLA grad you seem like a snob. |
DP: your source is Niche ratings. Seriously? |
For me? In addition to notable academic achievements (grade inflation and super scoring have largely distorted what that means for many people, unfortunately), athletic achievement at a level that results in some level of recruitment, active participation in clubs and ECs that are diverse, support community, and align with college major interests, etc., and the ability to socialize with a broad range of peers are all part of the effort to nurture a well-rounded kid. I don’t think there’s a one-size-fits-all formula, but I can tell you that high-level academics + ECs that don’t manage to cultivate social development that can be expressed in mainstream society (like band /orchestra or the various olympiads / coding competitions) is not a formula that gets there. |
DP but those are being cited frequently because they were the three highest ones in the ranking being discussed (and are usually the three highest publics in school rankings). But go further up in the back and forth and you also see Florida, Texas, UVA, and UNC mentioned. |
NP- Rankings obsessed people are so strange. It's like people that parade a Goyard Artois. It's a useless way to make yourself feel important when all it is is a sack holds stuff. |
What are you even talking about? I focused on one item, which was the disparagement of the top publics by insecure parents of top private students. |
lol. the strawman is without pants. no one at the ivies or duke or stanford etc give two shits about michigan, berkeley. Except maybe when they are in berkeley and trying to avoid homeless. |
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reminds me of this
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Lol imaging caring enough about this to spend time making a meme. |