BF calls it “making love”

[Anonymous]

Almost every time instead of sex. Weird of me to be turned off?

[Anonymous]

Observe gentleman; there is nothing you can possibly do right, so please enjoy yourself for as long as you can then move on the moment you get the feeling that this nonsense is starting

[Anonymous]

He sounds old. The only people I know who use that term are legit boomers.

It's very offputting.

[Anonymous]

My husband hates that I call it F…ing. We all have our quirks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He sounds old. The only people I know who use that term are legit boomers.

It's very offputting.

I am older and agree with this. But I'm not a hearts and roses kind of person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband hates that I call it F…ing. We all have our quirks.

Curious what he wants you to call it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband hates that I call it F…ing. We all have our quirks.

To be fair I also do the finger through the looped fingers thing too. 👉🏻👉🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[Anonymous]

Really???? What is wrong with that now?

[Anonymous]

People's vernacular and word usage varies, that's OK. It's OK for him to say the phrase and ok for you to clue him in on your finding it distasteful (he is your bf).
There are tons of words I find gross (especially those used to replace anatomical names). I find them so uncouth, yet people bold facedly use them comfortably and I chalk it up to their culture. I am not going to tell a friend "Just say breasts!" but I would not hold back on correcting a partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really???? What is wrong with that now?

It's a soppy euphemism.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really???? What is wrong with that now?

*shudder*
A nice "let's have sex" removes all the imagery of "making love" like some hairy guy with a rose in his mouth on silk sheets trying to be seductive. I can see someone like Will Ferrel using that phrasing. That's my personal issue, maybe op feels something similar?
I admit it's my issue though. Similar to "panties", others find it off putting because it evokes something for them (I actually don't know what) but since it simply describes a feminine garment, I have no issue with it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband hates that I call it F…ing. We all have our quirks.

To be fair I also do the finger through the looped fingers thing too. 👉🏻👉🏻👌🏻👌🏻

You are terrible!! But I'd laugh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Almost every time instead of sex. Weird of me to be turned off?

He is a romantic person. He is showing you respect. You are "making love" to a person you love. You are having sex with OR fu**ing a bi*ch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Almost every time instead of sex. Weird of me to be turned off?

Yes. Please find some real problems to occupy your time. Or a hobby, perhaps.

[Anonymous]

Likely some other woman told him that saying f@cking was crass and let’s have sex was too generic or boring.