BF calls it “making love”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe, OP, you should try leaning in to his mindset and see if you might like it more than you think. Put on the Barry White, slip into a naughty little negligee, get some champagne and chocolates, and prepare for a long night of “making love” on the brown shag carpet of your sunken living room. I mean really go all in, Chef-from-South Park-style, and see what happens. Perhaps the 70s had a point.

Also, I think “making whoopie” should be the new DCUM linguistic standard for all sex related standards. Let’s try to make that a thing.

Questions, not standards. Heh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe, OP, you should try leaning in to his mindset and see if you might like it more than you think. Put on the Barry White, slip into a naughty little negligee, get some champagne and chocolates, and prepare for a long night of “making love” on the brown shag carpet of your sunken living room. I mean really go all in, Chef-from-South Park-style, and see what happens. Perhaps the 70s had a point.

Also, I think “making whoopie” should be the new DCUM linguistic standard for all sex related standards. Let’s try to make that a thing.

This. It always sounded completely natural when Isaac Hayes sang it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe, OP, you should try leaning in to his mindset and see if you might like it more than you think. Put on the Barry White, slip into a naughty little negligee, get some champagne and chocolates, and prepare for a long night of “making love” on the brown shag carpet of your sunken living room. I mean really go all in, Chef-from-South Park-style, and see what happens. Perhaps the 70s had a point.

Also, I think “making whoopie” should be the new DCUM linguistic standard for all sex related standards. Let’s try to make that a thing.

Whatever happened to knocking boots?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have never been comfortable with that phrase, either. Gives me the ick.

An adult using the term "ick" seems ickier than someone saying "making love", lol!

[Anonymous]

I prefer to call it "hiding the salami"

[Anonymous]

We just wants to be your loverman, so maybe start calling him that around the house.

"Pass the Ms. Dash, loverman." "Have you seen the new proof-of-insurance cards, loverman?"

[Anonymous]

Get a foreigner that doesn't talk much but is there for action.
The action itself is something between making love and f_king. I wouldn't want to hear about 'making love' or any of the derogatory words for women-all would be such turn off.
Keep using a different word. Maybe he will pick up on it unless he slow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Observe gentleman; there is nothing you can possibly do right, so please enjoy yourself for as long as you can then move on the moment you get the feeling that this nonsense is starting

Oh plus 100!

[Anonymous]

I absolutely love my husband which is one reason we have a good sex life, but we don’t do it to make love because the love already exists. We do it so I can have a couple of Os and he can have at least one. We don’t have a special term for it, maybe a special look.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband hates that I call it F…ing. We all have our quirks.

Curious what he wants you to call it?

Perhaps something less brothel?

[Anonymous]

A guy said he wanted to make love to me once and my vagina crawled so far inside me I felt it in my throat. Ick. To be fair we are millennials so Idk why he said that.

[Anonymous]

Ugh, this is reminding me of that SNL Will Farrell skit in the hot tub…

[Anonymous]

An adult using the term "ick" seems ickier than someone saying "making love", lol!

+1000.

An adult would never use the term "ick" unless they were making fun of someone who says, "gives me the ick."

[Anonymous]

Wait, do we have the same BF? Mine does that too and I love it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I absolutely love my husband which is one reason we have a good sex life, but we don’t do it to make love because the love already exists. We do it so I can have a couple of Os and he can have at least one. We don’t have a special term for it, maybe a special look.

C'mon, what's your term for what you want to do?
I'll tell you me and my sweetie's term if you tell me first.