BF calls it “making love”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband hates that I call it F…ing. We all have our quirks.

To be fair I also do the finger through the looped fingers thing too. 👉🏻👉🏻👌🏻👌🏻

That is definitely a turn off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really???? What is wrong with that now?

It's a soppy euphemism.

OP, you are either not a match for this sentimental love struck man OR, more likely, one of the EXes he had before you excoriated him for “just wanting sex” or told him that women find it insensitive or even offensive to refer to it sex or f*#king. Maybe she even told him that women get upset and/or feel like a used whore or one night stand unless men say “making love”— and so he has tried his best to not make that “mistake” again.
And now he’s paying for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here's my conclusion after reading this. The kind of women who yells "Give it to me HARD" or "F*** me NOW" or "Do whatever you want to do to me" probably won't like "making love" that much. The kind of woman who whispers "I love your tender kisses" or "can you just hold me for a while" or "I can't believe you're so gentle even though you're so strong" is probably going to appreciate "making love." So you have to know your audience guys. Until you do, choose your words carefully, and avoid the ones that might alter the course of history.

Some of us women like all those things. Depends on the day, partner, situation, etc

+1

We typically F during round 1 and then make love for round 2+

[Anonymous]

It is weird to call it making love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here's my conclusion after reading this. The kind of women who yells "Give it to me HARD" or "F*** me NOW" or "Do whatever you want to do to me" probably won't like "making love" that much. The kind of woman who whispers "I love your tender kisses" or "can you just hold me for a while" or "I can't believe you're so gentle even though you're so strong" is probably going to appreciate "making love." So you have to know your audience guys. Until you do, choose your words carefully, and avoid the ones that might alter the course of history.

But women in 2024 prefer sensitive, gentle guys.

[Anonymous]

I just ask my husband if he wants to fool around. He knows I love him and he also knows that I’m not one for using the f word unless I stub my toe. Sometimes I just shower, put on a nice nightgown and walk past his home office where I don’t need to stay anything. It’s pretty much a Pavlovian reaction like holding a bone in front of a dog.

[Anonymous]

Observe gentleman; there is nothing you can possibly do right, so please enjoy yourself for as long as you can then move on the moment you get the feeling that this nonsense is starting.

Word

The poor guy probably called it "making love" because he did not want to hurt her feelings by sounding crass.

Note to the men reading this post: If you find you are with a woman as crazy as the OP, move on ASAP. But make sure she knows it is over. Usually, the crazy ones (e.g., the OP) will act even crazier if you ghost them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Observe gentleman; there is nothing you can possibly do right, so please enjoy yourself for as long as you can then move on the moment you get the feeling that this nonsense is starting.

Word

The poor guy probably called it "making love" because he did not want to hurt her feelings by sounding crass.

Note to the men reading this post: If you find you are with a woman as crazy as the OP, move on ASAP. But make sure she knows it is over. Usually, the crazy ones (e.g., the OP) will act even crazier if you ghost them.

This is a silly response IMO. There is nothing crazy about not liking the term “making love” and there is nothing wrong with not liking “f-in’” either. Different strokes. This is just what a mature sexual relationship is - people who know what they like and don’t and then - gasp - tell each other. Just communicate and without judgement and it will all be fine. To me it’s no different than saying there are things you like better or worse in terms of the act itself.

[Anonymous]

Regardless of what guys call ot, always follow Denise Lasalle’s advice: https://youtu.be/1LLWVqUZvT0?si=6urdiX7MuqyeYlVa

[Anonymous]

OP is one of those women ruined by growing up watching sex/city and the internet. Her romantic partners can't do or say anything without her first reaction being imagining having a convo about it with her gal pals, or how the internet audience will react to dissecting every single thing. Just tell your BF that you're a lost cause OP so he can move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here's my conclusion after reading this. The kind of women who yells "Give it to me HARD" or "F*** me NOW" or "Do whatever you want to do to me" probably won't like "making love" that much. The kind of woman who whispers "I love your tender kisses" or "can you just hold me for a while" or "I can't believe you're so gentle even though you're so strong" is probably going to appreciate "making love." So you have to know your audience guys. Until you do, choose your words carefully, and avoid the ones that might alter the course of history.

Some of us women like all those things. Depends on the day, partner, situation, etc

+1

We typically F during round 1 and then make love for round 2+

And then round 3 is just casual

[Anonymous]

Ham candle in the queen chapel