Feelings for my lawyer

Anonymous

I am getting divorced and have developed feelings for my lawyer. He listens, he compliments me, he shares a lot of stories about his kids. I feel like it’s my safe space. He looks out for me.

I find I am jealous of his wife. I see her picture on his desk and I know that I have a prettier face, though she’s thinner.

My lawyer grew a bit of a beard, and it looked good on him, so I complimented him. Now he always has that stubble beard when I meet with him.

Another time, he complimented my outfit, so I told him his blue suit made his blue eyes stand out. Since then, he’s worn blue every time.

I know he’s married, so help me get over these feelings!
Anonymous
Sounds like the start of a bad romance novel.
Anonymous
Gross.
Anonymous
You are a paycheck to him. This is not a real relationship.
Anonymous
Lol. You're delulu and desperate for attention.
Anonymous
Lifetime movie! Get the popcorn ready!
Anonymous
He’s married. Are you divorcing because you already cheated with another woman’s husband?

Or did your husband cheat?

It sounds like you want to punish a woman you don’t know to make yourself feel better about the demise of your own marriage and for a self-esteem boost “look at me, I can get a married man to bang me. I must be so desirable”

Get a hold of yourself and stop flirting
Anonymous
Cut the chatter as he bills by the hour.
Anonymous
I know some divorce attorneys who trade services for companionship. Highly unethical, but those going through divorce are vulnerable.
Anonymous
It happened to Charlotte York, it could happen to you!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Cut the chatter as he bills by the hour.


Ha! My thoughts. Total divorce lawyer snake, flirting and billing her for the time.
Anonymous
It's possible that he is a real innovator, a la the Will Ferrell character in "Wedding Crashers", who found that crashing funerals was an easier way to get women in bed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I know some divorce attorneys who trade services for companionship. Highly unethical, but those going through divorce are vulnerable.


Not an attorney, but couldn’t you get disbarred for that? Also, I heard there were some rumors about Casey Anthony’s lawyer accepting that as payment during her murder trial.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Lol. You're delulu and desperate for attention.


This. My goodness woman listen to yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I know some divorce attorneys who trade services for companionship. Highly unethical, but those going through divorce are vulnerable.


Not an attorney, but couldn’t you get disbarred for that? Also, I heard there were some rumors about Casey Anthony’s lawyer accepting that as payment during her murder trial.


Yes. Probably not disbarred for one instance, but disciplined, yes. It's an ethics violation.
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