YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

I have a teenager who has had severe behavioral problems since infancy (ASD & ADHD). Since K, he has been in various special education settings & inpatient/outpatient therapies with similar children. I have known dozens of struggling families. I feel confident in my expertise on this topic.

Your kids behavioral problems are nothing compared to what Huxley has. But try again.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

This. It’s easy to be an internet troll/bully and judge and make nasty comments when you aren’t in the situation. Nobody knows what this family went through or the reality behind Huxleys medical issues and the amount of time and money spent trying to get him help.

THAT IS A PARENT’S JOB. Jfc.

lmao caps lock isn’t helping you sweetie. You do not know this family or that child or the other children. You don’t know everything that went on in their home, doctors appts, therapists appts, etc. Was it better to send the child to a special place for children with his level of special needs OR to a new loving home? Think about that. They did everything they could for him. Drs didn’t recommend he go to a new home because they were crappy parents. This DIFFICULT decision was made due to safety concerns (not abuse or anything to do with the family) and him needing different care that goes way beyond what this family could offer him.

You don't send away or give away your four year old child, Myka. WTF is wrong with you. I think you honestly cannot wrap your head around the concept that this child was YOURS and not a loaner.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

I’m the PP. 1) I’m not Myka but think what you want. 2) They went to MULTIPLE therapists, health professionals, drs, etc. to diagnose him and get help. Things got bad over the last 6 months with him and huge safety issues arose. Again, I’m not putting her personal family stuff out there but for safety reasons regarding hux and the other kids, this was the best course of action. His special needs were way way way beyond what anyone thought.

Again, there is NO safety issue presented by a four year old that can't be solved by close adult supervision at all times.

Lol ok, go away now. Stop pretending you know anything about this family or this circumstances. Who the hell are you to judge someone you don’t know? What a sad and pathetic person you are.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

I have a teenager who has had severe behavioral problems since infancy (ASD & ADHD). Since K, he has been in various special education settings & inpatient/outpatient therapies with similar children. I have known dozens of struggling families. I feel confident in my expertise on this topic.

Your kids behavioral problems are nothing compared to what Huxley has. But try again.

How could you possibly know that? The videos of this child seem pretty tame to me.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Those multiple health professionals were wise to recommend getting him into the care of a different family. What does it take to fail so miserably as a parent that professionals recommend that you give up your child?

Hmm... how about when safety is involved for both the child and the other children? Or how him remaining in the home would not make things better for him or help him? He needed to be in a home where he could get 1 on 1 attention and they have 3 other kids in the home.

This is likely correct. I've witnessed a few instances of rehoming through some contact with adoption groups and for the most challenged kids they almost always need to go to a home with a stay at home parent and no other children. They can't get what they need as part of a big family and the other children suffer, sometimes really seriously. It's sad, but by the time it comes to this it is usually the right move for everyone.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

This. It’s easy to be an internet troll/bully and judge and make nasty comments when you aren’t in the situation. Nobody knows what this family went through or the reality behind Huxleys medical issues and the amount of time and money spent trying to get him help.

THAT IS A PARENT’S JOB. Jfc.

lmao caps lock isn’t helping you sweetie. You do not know this family or that child or the other children. You don’t know everything that went on in their home, doctors appts, therapists appts, etc. Was it better to send the child to a special place for children with his level of special needs OR to a new loving home? Think about that. They did everything they could for him. Drs didn’t recommend he go to a new home because they were crappy parents. This DIFFICULT decision was made due to safety concerns (not abuse or anything to do with the family) and him needing different care that goes way beyond what this family could offer him.

And you’re doing these people no favors by dragging out the drama, honey.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

This. It’s easy to be an internet troll/bully and judge and make nasty comments when you aren’t in the situation. Nobody knows what this family went through or the reality behind Huxleys medical issues and the amount of time and money spent trying to get him help.

THAT IS A PARENT’S JOB. Jfc.

lmao caps lock isn’t helping you sweetie. You do not know this family or that child or the other children. You don’t know everything that went on in their home, doctors appts, therapists appts, etc. Was it better to send the child to a special place for children with his level of special needs OR to a new loving home? Think about that. They did everything they could for him. Drs didn’t recommend he go to a new home because they were crappy parents. This DIFFICULT decision was made due to safety concerns (not abuse or anything to do with the family) and him needing different care that goes way beyond what this family could offer him.

You don't send away or give away your four year old child, Myka. WTF is wrong with you. I think you honestly cannot wrap your head around the concept that this child was YOURS and not a loaner.

Your stupidity is truly baffling. You want to message her directly? Go message her on IG. It’s hilarious that you think she knows a damn about this website.
But keep embarrassing yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

I’m the PP. 1) I’m not Myka but think what you want. 2) They went to MULTIPLE therapists, health professionals, drs, etc. to diagnose him and get help. Things got bad over the last 6 months with him and huge safety issues arose. Again, I’m not putting her personal family stuff out there but for safety reasons regarding hux and the other kids, this was the best course of action. His special needs were way way way beyond what anyone thought.

Again, there is NO safety issue presented by a four year old that can't be solved by close adult supervision at all times.

Lol ok, go away now. Stop pretending you know anything about this family or this circumstances. Who the hell are you to judge someone you don’t know? What a sad and pathetic person you are.

The thing is, Myka, when you put your garbage self and trashy husband and poor exploited kids online TO MAKE MONEY...guess what? We get to judge you. You put it out there for public consumption. Any problem this child was having had a therapeutic in-home solution. Expensive, time-consuming, and not fun or cute? Yes.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

I have a teenager who has had severe behavioral problems since infancy (ASD & ADHD). Since K, he has been in various special education settings & inpatient/outpatient therapies with similar children. I have known dozens of struggling families. I feel confident in my expertise on this topic.

Your kids behavioral problems are nothing compared to what Huxley has. But try again.

What ever happened to “you don’t know what these people are going through”? One way street? You somehow do know what the pp has been through?

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

I have a teenager who has had severe behavioral problems since infancy (ASD & ADHD). Since K, he has been in various special education settings & inpatient/outpatient therapies with similar children. I have known dozens of struggling families. I feel confident in my expertise on this topic.

Your kids behavioral problems are nothing compared to what Huxley has. But try again.

How could you possibly know that? The videos of this child seem pretty tame to me.

Are you this dim? Why the hell would they post videos of him having tantrums or being dangerous or any of the other issues that went on? Why would they do that? Do you post videos of your kids online when they are throwing a fit, throwing stuff, hitting, punching, etc.? No you don’t.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

This. It’s easy to be an internet troll/bully and judge and make nasty comments when you aren’t in the situation. Nobody knows what this family went through or the reality behind Huxleys medical issues and the amount of time and money spent trying to get him help.

THAT IS A PARENT’S JOB. Jfc.

lmao caps lock isn’t helping you sweetie. You do not know this family or that child or the other children. You don’t know everything that went on in their home, doctors appts, therapists appts, etc. Was it better to send the child to a special place for children with his level of special needs OR to a new loving home? Think about that. They did everything they could for him. Drs didn’t recommend he go to a new home because they were crappy parents. This DIFFICULT decision was made due to safety concerns (not abuse or anything to do with the family) and him needing different care that goes way beyond what this family could offer him.

You don't send away or give away your four year old child, Myka. WTF is wrong with you. I think you honestly cannot wrap your head around the concept that this child was YOURS and not a loaner.

Your stupidity is truly baffling. You want to message her directly? Go message her on IG. It’s hilarious that you think she knows a damn about this website.
But keep embarrassing yourself.

What's funny is I had never heard of her until I saw this post and looked her up. Most of her posts make me cringe with second-hand shame. But getting a fun new adopted accessory and then casting him off like last year's shoes? Wow. Special place in hell for this lady and her husband. Why is her husband escaping public wrath?

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

I’m the PP. 1) I’m not Myka but think what you want. 2) They went to MULTIPLE therapists, health professionals, drs, etc. to diagnose him and get help. Things got bad over the last 6 months with him and huge safety issues arose. Again, I’m not putting her personal family stuff out there but for safety reasons regarding hux and the other kids, this was the best course of action. His special needs were way way way beyond what anyone thought.

Again, there is NO safety issue presented by a four year old that can't be solved by close adult supervision at all times.

Lol ok, go away now. Stop pretending you know anything about this family or this circumstances. Who the hell are you to judge someone you don’t know? What a sad and pathetic person you are.

The thing is, Myka, when you put your garbage self and trashy husband and poor exploited kids online TO MAKE MONEY...guess what? We get to judge you. You put it out there for public consumption. Any problem this child was having had a therapeutic in-home solution. Expensive, time-consuming, and not fun or cute? Yes.

I’m embarrassed for you. Your poor children.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

I’m the PP. 1) I’m not Myka but think what you want. 2) They went to MULTIPLE therapists, health professionals, drs, etc. to diagnose him and get help. Things got bad over the last 6 months with him and huge safety issues arose. Again, I’m not putting her personal family stuff out there but for safety reasons regarding hux and the other kids, this was the best course of action. His special needs were way way way beyond what anyone thought.

Again, there is NO safety issue presented by a four year old that can't be solved by close adult supervision at all times.

Lol ok, go away now. Stop pretending you know anything about this family or this circumstances. Who the hell are you to judge someone you don’t know? What a sad and pathetic person you are.

Can you actually hear yourself?

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Myka you're a POS. The only truly disgusting people is you and your pathetic husband.

+1. There is NO WAY a child THAT young cannot be cared for by regular parents with the help of professional therapists.

What are your credentials to make a statement like that?

I have a teenager who has had severe behavioral problems since infancy (ASD & ADHD). Since K, he has been in various special education settings & inpatient/outpatient therapies with similar children. I have known dozens of struggling families. I feel confident in my expertise on this topic.

Your kids behavioral problems are nothing compared to what Huxley has. But try again.

How could you possibly know that? The videos of this child seem pretty tame to me.

Are you this dim? Why the hell would they post videos of him having tantrums or being dangerous or any of the other issues that went on? Why would they do that? Do you post videos of your kids online when they are throwing a fit, throwing stuff, hitting, punching, etc.? No you don’t.

They posted videos of him online "tantrumming" (he was sitting calmly in a stroller) and other videos of him doing normal kid stuff. A child with such SEVERE issues that he could not safely stay in own home would likely not be able to do any of those things.

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Anonymous wrote:Im actually disgusted by so many of the comments on this thread. I know Myka personally and this whole situation has been heart breaking for this family. They did not re-home Huxley like an unwanted pet. They put SO much time and money into his medical care, therapy, etc. to help find out how severe his special needs are and believe me, they ARE severe. I’m not going to put her personal info on here but this wasn’t a decision that they came to overnight. This decision to send him to a family who has experience with his extreme mental health and special needs was recommended by multiple health professionals. It was over 6 months of them trying to figure out the best way to help me. A lot went on behind the scenes with Huxleys needs and for the safety of him and the other kids, this was the best option.

Some of you are truly disgusting. Unless you were in her shoes yourself, you have no clue what her and her family went through. Hux was and is beyond loved and was cared for wonderfully by them.

Those multiple health professionals were wise to recommend getting him into the care of a different family. What does it take to fail so miserably as a parent that professionals recommend that you give up your child?

Hmm... how about when safety is involved for both the child and the other children? Or how him remaining in the home would not make things better for him or help him? He needed to be in a home where he could get 1 on 1 attention and they have 3 other kids in the home.

This is likely correct. I've witnessed a few instances of rehoming through some contact with adoption groups and for the most challenged kids they almost always need to go to a home with a stay at home parent and no other children. They can't get what they need as part of a big family and the other children suffer, sometimes really seriously. It's sad, but by the time it comes to this it is usually the right move for everyone.

Yup, this.