But she spoke to a few "professors". She also heard three schools don't care about granting deferrals. Must be a desperate 2020 parent whose DC is still on lots of wait list. |
Nope, a parent of a high stats Junior (high school class 2021) trying to figure out expectations and application strategy for next year. All the data anyone currently has is anecdotal since this is uncharted territory in the last 40 years or so. |
Are you really that much of a selfish person that you would take multiple spots in future classes for your child to give them a year to decide? And all while knowing it could screw other students like her in next year’s senior class? |
She has not only spoken to her HS college counselor but also both schools. Their decision not yours. You can chill out. |
All the chinese who missed out 2020 will be back in full force in 2021 along with their 2021 cohort further complicating the situation for the class of 2021. Need to stop/drastically reduce international recruitment for 5 years.. |
Can’t you get rescinded for double depositing? |
| A high school is only going to send one 'final transcript' to one school. So one could double deposit, but it will get kind of awkward when the second school doesn't receive said transcript. |
Rich people don’t give a **** about your kid. It’s only 1k to guarantee their kid can do whatever the hell she wants. |
You are a stuck up snob. Your kid could likely learn a lot by working Mickey D's for a year rather than your bubble. Some kids need to defer because the money they planned on making this Spring and Summer at their 30 hour a week job is now gone. And their parents got furloughed and so just maybe, money is now tighter than the family planned and they need a year regroup. Oh and also maybe a family member died so they are a bit spooked about living in the confined space of college dorm. |
DP. What do you get out of being so rude? |
I have three teenagers. One in college, one senior, and one sophomore. By far the worst hit is the senior, no comparison. They miss everything related to the end of school, including saying goodbye to their friends. Yes, my Sophomore missed her spring sport which she was trying to be recruited and has to take two on-line AP Exams. It is not a win for anyone but the enormity of disappointment is overwhelming for my senior. If she loses her summer job that will be a huge hit. Her college has not announced that what they will do in Fall BUT they did tell her that if it is on-line, she will be able to defer. That is not normally an option. I feel bad for the next two years of students applying to colleges, especially the juniors because unfortunately I do think they will be the toughest admissions class in quite a long time. So that sucks for them, but there are still plenty of options. They will probably have a more mature outlook on life in the whole process because they have now lived through "anything can happen". However, no class has it worse than the senior class of 2020. I am sad for them and all teenagers but we will get through it. |
Yes. Of course. |
Your kid has been admitted to college and has the choice of deferring if she feels like it. How is that worse than the class of 2021. Those kids may not have choices if your DD and others decide to defer. |
This. The amount of $$$ 2020 parents pay for college tuition is relatively fixed. That amount is not magically bigger than that of 2021. The number 1 priority of any college administrator right now is to maximize the 2020 tuition dollars coming in. It makes zero sense for any college to defer 20% of the revenue to next year. |
If they defer students, they will also pull from the waitlist. $ will be coming in this year. |