| For what it is worth, my senior will matriculate and launch into college in the midst of this crisis. But it is a difficult and problematic decision not to be taken lightly. He is a resilient and independent student and he thinks he is capable of making more progress by going forward then anything else he could come up with for the year. But this is very worrisome and far from ideal. Not sure the same choice would make sense for my other. This is difficult. |
All manner of business, school, plans, etc. Are being affected and put on hold and college is no different. It affects every year, not just rising college freshman. This is a mess. |
You got your bump. Be happy. Unless they add A+ for the top students to get the same bump, it's clearly not fair to those kids. |
Parents that think that class of 2020 is going to be treated special are in for a shocker. |
LOL But I saw it here that Princeton wanted to screw 2021 students. The OP is built on a giant wishful thinking. |
Class of 2020 parents think that there are unlimited open spots for the following year. Let them think that. They obviously don't want to hear the facts. Wonder if colleges are banking on that kind of naivete? |
OP is absolutely wishful thinking. Where did it say that any school wants to screw the class of 2021? The only one that wants to do that is OP. |
So your little one is deferring then? |
He'll be fine. At least you'll know to have contingency plans in place in case campuses close down again, which I doubt will happen but there is always the possibility. This year has been so chaotic because we were all blindsided by this and had never seen anything like it. Now we know what happens and people know what to do if something like this ever happens again. Overall, I think that the colleges and the students have done a great job handling such an unprecedented situation. |
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It's a mess. I do feel bad for my high school senior. They've missed out on some big milestones and it looks like their freshman year of college is going to be equally a mess.
Colleges do need to say what the plan is going to be: people pay a lot of money for college and honestly it's disturbing to think they may go for 2 months and be told to pack up and move back home. And then have to finish the year homeschooling. And what about majors where the first year involves a lot of hands on work? You can't do that from the armchair at your house. I get deferrals aren't the answer, anyone can see that's only going to cause problems with subsequent years, but there's a ton of uncertainties for the class of 2020. |
No. But if a deferment was a better choice him or any other student they should defer. Why would it make sense to matriculate over defer for a student that would be better served by deferral? I don't understand the logic of that decision. |
Problems for subsequent years? One kid has a crappy educational experience so another has a good one? What is the criteria for who gets the crappy year and who gets the good one? How should that be decided and by whom? |
No on gets a crappy year - that is the schools' sentiment. There are X number of deferrals period. BTW, the school is not willing to sacrifice $$$$$$ because the Class of 2020's mommy and daddy are mad they didn't get their Instagram moment (ie: prom and graduation). So, limited number of deferrals, it is. If you can't accept that, then you do your child no good. |
It would only make sense is deferral was a better option. But how is deferral a better option for anybody? It's not. Unless you are a hopeless ninny who would rather stay home and do literally nothing, because things didn't pan out the way you planned. Why would do nothing make sense at all? |
| No one is making important college desicions based on some snarky dcum post. DCs college has indicated that requests for deferrals will be honored. My DC will matriculate as planned but I could see that not being a good choice for some students...for more then normal based in these circumstances. |