90 Day Fiance, Season 3

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Alla's first marriage was maybe not so stellar. Maybe it was rushed and she didn't get her "dream" wedding? Maybe she was pregnant with Max and really didn't want to get married but had to? She mentioned in one of their conversations, when Matt was shaming her for wanting to go out and dance, that she "changed her values" with one marriage (yet Matt has had three). Made it seem like she wasn't in a good place with the first go around, "changed her values," and is ready to get married for real.

I don't know, I think she should have the wedding she wants. There are plenty of lake beaches in Kentucky that could fit the bill. But please, let's all do what the guy's family wants, since they've all already done this three times before. Is there a reason Matt and Alla couldn't have this conversation? Why is his mother so involved? Isn't he a wedding expert by now?

Still love Anfisa. the only 100% honest one in the bunch. Don't like her? She don't care. She don't front.

Anfisa may be honest, but I don't find her likeable or interesting. She seems completely driven by materialism.

I think she's the least likable person they've ever had on the show.

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Anonymous wrote:I think Anfisa is hilarious. If she's really like that (and not playing a role), she's amazing. Jorge will deserve everything he gets.

What do you all think of the guy who's on his 4th marriage?

Yes! She's great and should have her own show.

I live in Eastern Europe and all of the Russian and Ukrainian women at work are watching this show because they love Anfisa so much. She has a huge hero-worship cult following here.

She seems pretty cruel, self-centered, and shallow to me. Don't really get the hero-worship. Yeah, he's pretty gullible for falling for her, but that doesn't make her a good person.

No, but she isn't pretending to be a good person. She is a crafty gold digger with hustle, and she readily and regularly reminds Jorge of this. Jorge "fell in love" with her after seeing her photos, and he's made multiple misogynistic comments. If he had integrity, he would just admit that Anfisa is 100% correct that he is only with her because of how she looks: that is ALL he cares about.

Jorge belongs with Alla, I think. I am certain Alla met Matt on one of the "dating services" here in Kiev, in which women join for free and are then sent, one by one, to "meet" foreign Westerners who pay big $ for a "tour", during which they sleep with all the women they are matched with and choose one. I know one Ukrainian woman who slept with all 17 guys Western guys she was matched with last month, all in one week's "tour", and she's so sad that none of them chose her, but she's still signed up and ready to "meet' the next wave in November because there are no other options for her here. This woman is a DOCTOR (and they are paid less than $400 a month in Ukraine and live in poverty). There's a documentary about this thriving industry called "Love Me." Also, according to the dozen or so Ukrainians with whom I've discussed the show, Alla is just too old to be considered datable here. Ukrainians marry young, and someone Alla's age is considered very undesirable. She will die alone if she stays in Ukraine, so she's happy to be Matt's 4th wife. At least Anfisa has other options. How can you trust the love of someone who has no other options?

This is so sad. 17 guys in one week?

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12:15 thank you for recommending "Love Me". It was definitely an eye opener to all of this.

Poor guy from Fairfax, Va. who basically got scammed, but these guys have to know this deep down. Low self-esteem truely has his ups and downs and by him admitting he's fat (which he is) and knowing it's a set back to attract an American women; this was his only way to find a companion.

With this guy knowing his flaws, not sure why he continues to pick the most attractive girls from website.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if Alla's first marriage was maybe not so stellar. Maybe it was rushed and she didn't get her "dream" wedding? Maybe she was pregnant with Max and really didn't want to get married but had to? She mentioned in one of their conversations, when Matt was shaming her for wanting to go out and dance, that she "changed her values" with one marriage (yet Matt has had three). Made it seem like she wasn't in a good place with the first go around, "changed her values," and is ready to get married for real.

I don't know, I think she should have the wedding she wants. There are plenty of lake beaches in Kentucky that could fit the bill. But please, let's all do what the guy's family wants, since they've all already done this three times before. Is there a reason Matt and Alla couldn't have this conversation? Why is his mother so involved? Isn't he a wedding expert by now?

Still love Anfisa. the only 100% honest one in the bunch. Don't like her? She don't care. She don't front.

Anfisa may be honest, but I don't find her likeable or interesting. She seems completely driven by materialism.

I think she's the least likable person they've ever had on the show.

Right? Not getting all the love on here for Anfisa. Because Jorge likes her for her looks, that makes her awesome for being a bitchy, materialistic gold-digger?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday's episode was hilarious. I mean how can Danielle be that clueless? Is it for the show? Can someone in Mohamed's situation (temporary Green Card for 2 years) call the police and get restraining order against the person he is still married to, just because she wants to see him?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think Anfisa is hilarious. If she's really like that (and not playing a role), she's amazing. Jorge will deserve everything he gets.

What do you all think of the guy who's on his 4th marriage?

I think he has issues, and Alla's voice is bizarre. She has a really weird intonation, as if she has severe hearing problems, and this is NOT her accent (I live in Ukraine and hear Ukrainians speaking English every day, and no one sounds like that). I wouldn't be able to live with That Voice.

Also, she was married before too, so I don't understand why she wants to have a big beach wedding the second time around. The guy's mom is right to talk her down from that for the sake of the family's comfort (since he was also married before).

I wondered that, too. Then I wondered if the producers hadn't encouraged her to play this up in the interest of creating a storyline.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think Anfisa is hilarious. If she's really like that (and not playing a role), she's amazing. Jorge will deserve everything he gets.

What do you all think of the guy who's on his 4th marriage?

I think he has issues, and Alla's voice is bizarre. She has a really weird intonation, as if she has severe hearing problems, and this is NOT her accent (I live in Ukraine and hear Ukrainians speaking English every day, and no one sounds like that). I wouldn't be able to live with That Voice.

Also, she was married before too, so I don't understand why she wants to have a big beach wedding the second time around. The guy's mom is right to talk her down from that for the sake of the family's comfort (since he was also married before).

It looks like Alla is so lucky to have her future MIL. She seems so supportive and kind. Alla did make some references to the family (probably meaning her future MIL) being too involved, so the show may be editing a lot out.

I think the key word is "seems." The mom also seems overly involved. My teenage son doesn't watch the show, but he glanced at it and asked why a forty-year-old guy who's on his fourth marriage has Mommy so involved in everything.

Yup! I was wondering that, as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yesterday's episode was hilarious. I mean how can Danielle be that clueless? Is it for the show? Can someone in Mohamed's situation (temporary Green Card for 2 years) call the police and get restraining order against the person he is still married to, just because she wants to see him?

I wondered that too. I think she's off in the head....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anfisa is so shallow and one dimensional that she bores me to tears. Her face is just not worth her attitude, but her body might be.

I agree, her face does nothing for me. Between that nose and that underbite I really do wonder why she's so enamored with herself. Her body is all she has going for her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yesterday's episode was hilarious. I mean how can Danielle be that clueless? Is it for the show? Can someone in Mohamed's situation (temporary Green Card for 2 years) call the police and get restraining order against the person he is still married to, just because she wants to see him?

I wondered that too. I think she's off in the head....

She is definitely not all there... which makes it even worse for Mohamed to take advantage of her like he's doing. I hope he gets deported

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Kyle & Noon, I didn't watch the season they were originally in. Kyle just visited his mom, doesn't it look like she has MS or something like Parkinson's? There was alluding to "her problem" but that seemed to be about a drug/alcohol addiction.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yesterday's episode was hilarious. I mean how can Danielle be that clueless? Is it for the show? Can someone in Mohamed's situation (temporary Green Card for 2 years) call the police and get restraining order against the person he is still married to, just because she wants to see him?

I wondered that too. I think she's off in the head....

She is definitely not all there... which makes it even worse for Mohamed to take advantage of her like he's doing. I hope he gets deported

Agreed. I think I may have posted this exact thing before, but he really needs to be deported.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kyle & Noon, I didn't watch the season they were originally in. Kyle just visited his mom, doesn't it look like she has MS or something like Parkinson's? There was alluding to "her problem" but that seemed to be about a drug/alcohol addiction.

Maybe she was having some withdrawal because she was trying to stay sober-ish for their visit.

I thought the same thing, PP, but she has a disease, and I felt she was making an effort to be present.

[Anonymous]

Seems it was mentioned that she has at the least an alcohol problem.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yesterday's episode was hilarious. I mean how can Danielle be that clueless? Is it for the show? Can someone in Mohamed's situation (temporary Green Card for 2 years) call the police and get restraining order against the person he is still married to, just because she wants to see him?

I wondered that too. I think she's off in the head....

She is definitely not all there... which makes it even worse for Mohamed to take advantage of her like he's doing. I hope he gets deported

Agreed. I think I may have posted this exact thing before, but he really needs to be deported.

Yes! He's scum. He's not necessarily smart himself, changing the joint account's address. Did he not think she wouldn't catch it? Then, it makes you wonder why she left him as joint account holder to begin with!? CRAZY!