Tattoos

[Anonymous]

New to thread and haven't read the zillions of pages but I am fine with tattoos. I see a lot of moms, dads with it and I don't think anything of them (meaning less or more). I do not have one, nor DH - at one point almost got one on the spur. I do not want my children to get any tattoos. As you age, it looks horrible- it is a decision that is really painful to undo. if and when that day comes I will tell my minor kids they cannot have tattoos. If they decide as adults- they act later.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I would never want a "suitor" who had an issue with my tattoos. If they are that judgmental about such a minor thing, then they are probably judgmental about many other unimportant things, which is a complete turnoff.

Cool story.

Oh good, the 15 year old teenagers are here to say snarky things when someone says something of worth.

Did PP say something of worth or were they judgmental about someone being judgmental?

Wait. So not wanting a partner that is judgmental without learning about the human they're judging, is judgmental? Your logic is just so superior, I can't even.
It's not judging, it's calling people out for being shallow and shitty. Calling fellow humans trashy is not ok, and not only was it rampant on this thread, it's common on the this forum. It's ok not to like something. It's another thing to degrade someone because you don't like it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would never want a "suitor" who had an issue with my tattoos. If they are that judgmental about such a minor thing, then they are probably judgmental about many other unimportant things, which is a complete turnoff.

Cool story.

Oh good, the 15 year old teenagers are here to say snarky things when someone says something of worth.

Did PP say something of worth or were they judgmental about someone being judgmental?

Wait. So not wanting a partner that is judgmental without learning about the human they're judging, is judgmental? Your logic is just so superior, I can't even.
It's not judging, it's calling people out for being shallow and shitty. Calling fellow humans trashy is not ok, and not only was it rampant on this thread, it's common on the this forum. It's ok not to like something. It's another thing to degrade someone because you don't like it.

See the political forum and how republicans are regarded there, then come to the realization that all humans judge other humans but think its okay when they do it even when they say its WRONG when others do it.

Also, tattoos are trashy and gross. Spend your food stamps on your kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I would never want a "suitor" who had an issue with my tattoos. If they are that judgmental about such a minor thing, then they are probably judgmental about many other unimportant things, which is a complete turnoff.

Cool story.

Oh good, the 15 year old teenagers are here to say snarky things when someone says something of worth.

Did PP say something of worth or were they judgmental about someone being judgmental?

Wait. So not wanting a partner that is judgmental without learning about the human they're judging, is judgmental? Your logic is just so superior, I can't even.
It's not judging, it's calling people out for being shallow and shitty. Calling fellow humans trashy is not ok, and not only was it rampant on this thread, it's common on the this forum. It's ok not to like something. It's another thing to degrade someone because you don't like it.

See the political forum and how republicans are regarded there, then come to the realization that all humans judge other humans but think its okay when they do it even when they say its WRONG when others do it.

Also, tattoos are trashy and gross. Spend your food stamps on your kids.

Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

[Anonymous]

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Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

*sigh* Didn't say you specifically did.
Good for the "executive".
It was a generalization and yes I recognized it, that was my intention.
Don't feel sorry for me, you'd love my life. Its "peaceful" and awesome
I do yoga regularly and I not only volunteer at our church's food bank but I co-run a charity organization in my spare time.
You keep on judging me though, its human nature.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

*sigh* Didn't say you specifically did.
Good for the "executive".
It was a generalization and yes I recognized it, that was my intention.
Don't feel sorry for me, you'd love my life. Its "peaceful" and awesome
I do yoga regularly and I not only volunteer at our church's food bank but I co-run a charity organization in my spare time.
You keep on judging me though, its human nature.

I didn't judge you. I said I felt sorry from you. I did assume, however, that someone who's so lovely, as you say you are, wouldn't say something so mean. I wouldn't. Who says shit about food stamps and tattoos like that? Sorry, I'm not buying it that you are a kind person. What you say, even anon, counts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

*sigh* Didn't say you specifically did.
Good for the "executive".
It was a generalization and yes I recognized it, that was my intention.
Don't feel sorry for me, you'd love my life. Its "peaceful" and awesome
I do yoga regularly and I not only volunteer at our church's food bank but I co-run a charity organization in my spare time.
You keep on judging me though, its human nature.

I didn't judge you. I said I felt sorry from you. I did assume, however, that someone who's so lovely, as you say you are, wouldn't say something so mean. I wouldn't. Who says shit about food stamps and tattoos like that? Sorry, I'm not buying it that you are a kind person. What you say, even anon, counts.

Ya did though, you are just to pc/millennial/liberal to bring yourself to admit it.
Also I'm not you, I will say whatever I want about whatever opinion I have and *gasp* yes, I focus on nonprofit work and we (DH &I) give right around 30% annually to various charities. We could probably give 50 and still not feel it. So keep feeling sorry for me, I am such a horrible person. "Oh no she thinks tattoos are trashy! Lets prove her point about everyone judges everyone else"

Bottom line, I don't give a poop what anyone thinks of me anonymous or not, what I think of me counts. If you think tattoos are awesome, get them - people are judging you though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

*sigh* Didn't say you specifically did.
Good for the "executive".
It was a generalization and yes I recognized it, that was my intention.
Don't feel sorry for me, you'd love my life. Its "peaceful" and awesome
I do yoga regularly and I not only volunteer at our church's food bank but I co-run a charity organization in my spare time.
You keep on judging me though, its human nature.

I didn't judge you. I said I felt sorry from you. I did assume, however, that someone who's so lovely, as you say you are, wouldn't say something so mean. I wouldn't. Who says shit about food stamps and tattoos like that? Sorry, I'm not buying it that you are a kind person. What you say, even anon, counts.

Ya did though, you are just to pc/millennial/liberal to bring yourself to admit it.
Also I'm not you, I will say whatever I want about whatever opinion I have and *gasp* yes, I focus on nonprofit work and we (DH &I) give right around 30% annually to various charities. We could probably give 50 and still not feel it. So keep feeling sorry for me, I am such a horrible person. "Oh no she thinks tattoos are trashy! Lets prove her point about everyone judges everyone else"

Bottom line, I don't give a poop what anyone thinks of me anonymous or not, what I think of me counts. If you think tattoos are awesome, get them - people are judging you though.

Kindness doesn't just manifest because you have money and can give it away. It's a great thing, and I'm glad you enjoy it, but it doesn't mean that you're a nice person. Kindness is seeing every interaction with others with some amount of decency. You are who you are at all times, anon or not. If you'd make a comment like you did about food stamps here, would you say it to a client at the food bank? Perhaps that tattoo was from long ago, before that person had children? But you'd still say it, right to their face, as you hand them some food? Or would you keep it inside, looking so wonderful and good, only to come to an anonymous forum and say it? I will judge you if that's true, because you've proven yourself to be a hypocrite. I do judge, as do we all, but I wait until someone's actions prove they deserve it. Not just from looking at them. You don't have to care what other people think- but you should care about your own soul enough to be kind whether you're anon or not. Kinda like, I wouldn't say this in real life, why would I say it here?
Just the basic stuff I would teach children. I'm sure you'll insult me roundly. I don't care. I've said nothing I wouldn't say in my real life. I'm so sick of humans that give in one hand and degrade with the other. Your food stamp comment was really degrading but you act like it's ok because you work in NP. Ugh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

*sigh* Didn't say you specifically did.
Good for the "executive".
It was a generalization and yes I recognized it, that was my intention.
Don't feel sorry for me, you'd love my life. Its "peaceful" and awesome
I do yoga regularly and I not only volunteer at our church's food bank but I co-run a charity organization in my spare time.
You keep on judging me though, its human nature.

I didn't judge you. I said I felt sorry from you. I did assume, however, that someone who's so lovely, as you say you are, wouldn't say something so mean. I wouldn't. Who says shit about food stamps and tattoos like that? Sorry, I'm not buying it that you are a kind person. What you say, even anon, counts.

Ya did though, you are just to pc/millennial/liberal to bring yourself to admit it.
Also I'm not you, I will say whatever I want about whatever opinion I have and *gasp* yes, I focus on nonprofit work and we (DH &I) give right around 30% annually to various charities. We could probably give 50 and still not feel it. So keep feeling sorry for me, I am such a horrible person. "Oh no she thinks tattoos are trashy! Lets prove her point about everyone judges everyone else"

Bottom line, I don't give a poop what anyone thinks of me anonymous or not, what I think of me counts. If you think tattoos are awesome, get them - people are judging you though.

Kindness doesn't just manifest because you have money and can give it away. It's a great thing, and I'm glad you enjoy it, but it doesn't mean that you're a nice person. Kindness is seeing every interaction with others with some amount of decency. You are who you are at all times, anon or not. If you'd make a comment like you did about food stamps here, would you say it to a client at the food bank? Perhaps that tattoo was from long ago, before that person had children? But you'd still say it, right to their face, as you hand them some food? Or would you keep it inside, looking so wonderful and good, only to come to an anonymous forum and say it? I will judge you if that's true, because you've proven yourself to be a hypocrite. I do judge, as do we all, but I wait until someone's actions prove they deserve it. Not just from looking at them. You don't have to care what other people think- but you should care about your own soul enough to be kind whether you're anon or not. Kinda like, I wouldn't say this in real life, why would I say it here?
Just the basic stuff I would teach children. I'm sure you'll insult me roundly. I don't care. I've said nothing I wouldn't say in my real life. I'm so sick of humans that give in one hand and degrade with the other. Your food stamp comment was really degrading but you act like it's ok because you work in NP. Ugh.

Judge on my friend, judge on. I'm nice person whether and internet hippy thinks so or not.

PS many states are beginning to ensure that $ from food stamps don't go to tattooing, so off base I was not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

*sigh* Didn't say you specifically did.
Good for the "executive".
It was a generalization and yes I recognized it, that was my intention.
Don't feel sorry for me, you'd love my life. Its "peaceful" and awesome
I do yoga regularly and I not only volunteer at our church's food bank but I co-run a charity organization in my spare time.
You keep on judging me though, its human nature.

I didn't judge you. I said I felt sorry from you. I did assume, however, that someone who's so lovely, as you say you are, wouldn't say something so mean. I wouldn't. Who says shit about food stamps and tattoos like that? Sorry, I'm not buying it that you are a kind person. What you say, even anon, counts.

Ya did though, you are just to pc/millennial/liberal to bring yourself to admit it.
Also I'm not you, I will say whatever I want about whatever opinion I have and *gasp* yes, I focus on nonprofit work and we (DH &I) give right around 30% annually to various charities. We could probably give 50 and still not feel it. So keep feeling sorry for me, I am such a horrible person. "Oh no she thinks tattoos are trashy! Lets prove her point about everyone judges everyone else"

Bottom line, I don't give a poop what anyone thinks of me anonymous or not, what I think of me counts. If you think tattoos are awesome, get them - people are judging you though.

Kindness doesn't just manifest because you have money and can give it away. It's a great thing, and I'm glad you enjoy it, but it doesn't mean that you're a nice person. Kindness is seeing every interaction with others with some amount of decency. You are who you are at all times, anon or not. If you'd make a comment like you did about food stamps here, would you say it to a client at the food bank? Perhaps that tattoo was from long ago, before that person had children? But you'd still say it, right to their face, as you hand them some food? Or would you keep it inside, looking so wonderful and good, only to come to an anonymous forum and say it? I will judge you if that's true, because you've proven yourself to be a hypocrite. I do judge, as do we all, but I wait until someone's actions prove they deserve it. Not just from looking at them. You don't have to care what other people think- but you should care about your own soul enough to be kind whether you're anon or not. Kinda like, I wouldn't say this in real life, why would I say it here?
Just the basic stuff I would teach children. I'm sure you'll insult me roundly. I don't care. I've said nothing I wouldn't say in my real life. I'm so sick of humans that give in one hand and degrade with the other. Your food stamp comment was really degrading but you act like it's ok because you work in NP. Ugh.

NP to the thread. You're THAT person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Weird. One of my best friends has tattoos. He's an executive. Your generalization is wrong and nasty, on so many levels you don't even recognize. I feel sorry for you. Also, I don't participate in nasty political discussions nor do I judge people based on appearance or income , both of which you just did. How peaceful can one's life be when they waste energy doing that? Go meditate and volunteer at a food bank or something. Oh, but some of the volunteers at my food bank have tattoos. They must be horrible, nasty people.

*sigh* Didn't say you specifically did.
Good for the "executive".
It was a generalization and yes I recognized it, that was my intention.
Don't feel sorry for me, you'd love my life. Its "peaceful" and awesome
I do yoga regularly and I not only volunteer at our church's food bank but I co-run a charity organization in my spare time.
You keep on judging me though, its human nature.

I didn't judge you. I said I felt sorry from you. I did assume, however, that someone who's so lovely, as you say you are, wouldn't say something so mean. I wouldn't. Who says shit about food stamps and tattoos like that? Sorry, I'm not buying it that you are a kind person. What you say, even anon, counts.

Ya did though, you are just to pc/millennial/liberal to bring yourself to admit it.
Also I'm not you, I will say whatever I want about whatever opinion I have and *gasp* yes, I focus on nonprofit work and we (DH &I) give right around 30% annually to various charities. We could probably give 50 and still not feel it. So keep feeling sorry for me, I am such a horrible person. "Oh no she thinks tattoos are trashy! Lets prove her point about everyone judges everyone else"

Bottom line, I don't give a poop what anyone thinks of me anonymous or not, what I think of me counts. If you think tattoos are awesome, get them - people are judging you though.

Kindness doesn't just manifest because you have money and can give it away. It's a great thing, and I'm glad you enjoy it, but it doesn't mean that you're a nice person. Kindness is seeing every interaction with others with some amount of decency. You are who you are at all times, anon or not. If you'd make a comment like you did about food stamps here, would you say it to a client at the food bank? Perhaps that tattoo was from long ago, before that person had children? But you'd still say it, right to their face, as you hand them some food? Or would you keep it inside, looking so wonderful and good, only to come to an anonymous forum and say it? I will judge you if that's true, because you've proven yourself to be a hypocrite. I do judge, as do we all, but I wait until someone's actions prove they deserve it. Not just from looking at them. You don't have to care what other people think- but you should care about your own soul enough to be kind whether you're anon or not. Kinda like, I wouldn't say this in real life, why would I say it here?
Just the basic stuff I would teach children. I'm sure you'll insult me roundly. I don't care. I've said nothing I wouldn't say in my real life. I'm so sick of humans that give in one hand and degrade with the other. Your food stamp comment was really degrading but you act like it's ok because you work in NP. Ugh.

xojane misses you in their comment section

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would never want a "suitor" who had an issue with my tattoos. If they are that judgmental about such a minor thing, then they are probably judgmental about many other unimportant things, which is a complete turnoff.

Cool story.

Oh good, the 15 year old teenagers are here to say snarky things when someone says something of worth.

Did PP say something of worth or were they judgmental about someone being judgmental?

Wait. So not wanting a partner that is judgmental without learning about the human they're judging, is judgmental? Your logic is just so superior, I can't even.
It's not judging, it's calling people out for being shallow and shitty. Calling fellow humans trashy is not ok, and not only was it rampant on this thread, it's common on the this forum. It's ok not to like something. It's another thing to degrade someone because you don't like it.

See the political forum and how republicans are regarded there, then come to the realization that all humans judge other humans but think its okay when they do it even when they say its WRONG when others do it.

Also, tattoos are trashy and gross. Spend your food stamps on your kids.

Food stamps? It's not like that anymore. Today it's

It's free!
Swipe yo EBT!

Only thing that hasn't changed is you are still paying for it all. Including tattoos, massages, casinos, and lobster. At least WIC puts reasonable healthy-food restrictions on what you can get for "free."

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why do you all care so much?

Because it is taxing to my day to have to look at fugly people displaying their childhood trauma all over their bodies

Do you know what is taxing to my day? Having to look at brittle, semi-anorexic women with their brittle, over-bleached blonde hair, in their big black SUVs. Talk about fugly, inside and out. Every other woman I see in this area fits the bill. Give me tattoos any day.

I'd love a little more diversity in this town.

[Anonymous]

this thread again?

[Anonymous]

Seriously. Most people with tattoos aren't scammers welfare people. They are everywhere. You wouldn't even know I have one, it's not viable unless I'm in a swimsuit, and I'm just an average working mother. Untwist thy panties and get with the 2015 time bracket.