So sorry. I have cousins - 3 brothers: the oldest is autistic (but highly functional, has career where he does well, owns home, etc), the second was schizophrenic (suicide), the third who is NT never married or had kids (he is a MD). Heart goes out to your DS and your family. |
My 7 yr old and his BFF who are both on the spectrum are going through the poop/fart stage where they make jokes about them CONSTANTLY. Joy.
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And also there's no sensible way to describe autism, at least as presently defined, as "degrees of intellectual disability." Get to know a really smart Aspie and it's quickly apparent that what's wrong is not necessarily an intellectual disability. DS is sharp as a razor cognitively--conspicuously a more precise and complex thinker than his NT age peers. His (real) problems are social, emotional, and sensory. The autism diagnosis encompasses a ton of people who do share some compelling common characteristics and may benefit from some similar interventions, but who cannot be stereotyped as having a certain posture, or voice, or level of intellectual functioning. If you think that you know what "real" autism looks like, and that the kids who are not "classically" autistic don't "really" have it, then you're just saying you know better than the people who put together the DSM-V about what these words should mean. But they're just words. Maybe someday we'll have some real scientific way of identifying different underlying etiologies. But for now nothing useful comes of this endless debate about whether the HFA crowd is really autistic or not. And one thing I've noticed--parents beat this debate to death, but the actual autistic bloggers I read do not. They seem to feel a lot of solidarity and commonality, from one end of the spectrum to the other. |
One of the diagnostic criteria for getting an Asperger's diagnosis was that the person had to have at least average IQ. Anyone with an intellectual disability would not have been diagnosed as Asperger's. One of my nephews who has ASD/Asperger's is currently rated #1 in chess in his age group in the state they reside. My brother who has Asperger's was a math prodigy who skipped hs to attend Johns Hopkins. People with Asperger's have serious deficits but an intellectual disability is not one of them. |
Aspergers has very specific categories as you are describing but they also took Aspergers away and now lump it all in as Autism. They also do not have any type of speech delays. |
I've had that but it was with my child having apraxia as their child did and being told to use this provider and that provider. It is very frustrating. The difference between a MERLD kid is that if a child was hand flapping or opening a door, you can tell them to stop (if they are on the higher functioning end of MERLD like mine). Mine will stop or argue with me about stopping. A HFA cannot stop on command. "typical" kids do handflap and do those things too but it looks slightly different. |
| Yeah, I know Asperger's is officially Autism Spectrum Disorder, level 1, but every clinician, professional and SN schools who work with these kids still use "asperger's" since no one knows what you are talking if you say "my kid has ASD, level 1" |
Placing a MERLD kid with an ASD kid (without a mix of kids) would be a disaster as many MERLD kids need that peer role model. So, if an ASD kid was there, they would try to copy that child's patterns and its a problem. It not about contaminating but about the child's needs and its important for MERLD kids to have specific type of peer interations. |
They have pragmatic speech delays. |
Agreed, and I don't like some of the changes. It is still used along with high functioning autism but technically it isn't correct. Aspergers has always been a form of autism so it makes no sense kids did not get the same level of services as ASD diagnosis. |
Very true, but when I look at the 2-6 range, with MERLD/late talkers as a comparison I don't worry about pragmatic speech till much later. When I refer to speech delays, I am far more worried about receptive, then expressive and aprixia. |
My kid with HFA stops on command and can and will argue with me about stopping. You seem to have a very skewed idea about how a kid with HFA presents. |
I like the change since it made it much easier for kids with Asperger's to get services. No problem with the "stigma" of autism here. My DS only needs social and behavioral supports in his IEP but I'm happy he is getting it and that the change in the DSM made it much easier for kids like him to get the help they need. |
+1 Please stop the misinformation. |
Here is the Level 1 autism severity levels from the DSM 5. Doesn't with what you are saying at all. Inflexibility of behavior causes significant interference with functioning in one or more contexts. Difficulty switching between activities. Problems of organization and planning hamper independence. |