Where to find a WASP husband

[Anonymous]

They live in NoVA (I live here now, but I am from Silver Spring). They are from McLean/Great Falls.

Try some of the bars/restaurants in the Reston Town Center. That is pretty super white NoVA boy heaven up in there. Try the Italian place there (the bar area) or Clyde's. Maybe there are newer places now, it's been a while.

I cannot believe I am making suggestions. : /

[Anonymous]

Or London. Forgot to add London.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They live in NoVA (I live here now, but I am from Silver Spring). They are from McLean/Great Falls.

Try some of the bars/restaurants in the Reston Town Center. That is pretty super white NoVA boy heaven up in there. Try the Italian place there (the bar area) or Clyde's. Maybe there are newer places now, it's been a while.

I cannot believe I am making suggestions. : /

Same poster - I cannot remember how old you are. If you are in your 20s and not 30s, then just go to Clarendon in Arlington. There are pretty boys for you there everywhere - just breathe them in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP - if you want to meet WASPs join a social club in Georgetown - like the City Tavern Club or the Georgetown Club - you can join these for under $1000 (maybe less) plus the quarterly minimums for food/drink ... but they are a good way to meet people.

I know quite a few WASPs who date AA women....just dress preppy and have your tennis whites ready too for a date! lol

The amount of educated white men who date black women is absolutely tiny. A few will have sex with them just to tell their friends about it though.

There's a reason craigslist is crawling with black women. Bottom of the ladder.

[Anonymous]

This thread is so interesting. As someone who could have easily "landed" this sort of guy, I just don't understand the draw. I came from the (very odd?) old money family that highly discouraged my sisters and I from dating the type of guy you describe, who wanted more than anything for us to find "regular" middle class guys who work hard and have big hearts. They would have been seriously concerned and disappointed if we'd married into what you describe, and growing up around many of these sorts of guys, I found them mostly pretty repugnant, not to mention very boring. Very few good apples. I do realize of course that this just makes me a different sort of snob. But that whole scene is just SO unappealing to me.

[Anonymous]

Yup. Spot on. Glad your family tried to emphasize was was truly important.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I commend you for having the self-awareness to know what you're looking for, but as you say you are interested in this culture, I must caution you: These types are often insufferable horrors as mates. Good luck, but don't say we didn't tell you.

+1

absolutely..lots of pent up "puritan" rage issues, sexual issues, inability to really connect with people..etc

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - if you want to meet WASPs join a social club in Georgetown - like the City Tavern Club or the Georgetown Club - you can join these for under $1000 (maybe less) plus the quarterly minimums for food/drink ... but they are a good way to meet people.

I know quite a few WASPs who date AA women....just dress preppy and have your tennis whites ready too for a date! lol

The amount of educated white men who date black women is absolutely tiny. A few will have sex with them just to tell their friends about it though.

There's a reason craigslist is crawling with black women. Bottom of the ladder.

Really? You need to get out more and stop fishing for sex on Craigslist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - if you want to meet WASPs join a social club in Georgetown - like the City Tavern Club or the Georgetown Club - you can join these for under $1000 (maybe less) plus the quarterly minimums for food/drink ... but they are a good way to meet people.

I know quite a few WASPs who date AA women....just dress preppy and have your tennis whites ready too for a date! lol

The amount of educated white men who date black women is absolutely tiny. A few will have sex with them just to tell their friends about it though.

There's a reason craigslist is crawling with black women. Bottom of the ladder.

I was always under the impression that 99.999% of the posts for women seeking men on Craigslist were fake.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do NOT date anyone from an old South family. Just don't. Don't don't don't.

PP, are you Strom Thurmond's lovechild? Tell it, sistah!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

The amount of educated white men who date black women is absolutely tiny. A few will have sex with them just to tell their friends about it though.

There's a reason craigslist is crawling with black women. Bottom of the ladder.

Lol, those are dudes. But carry on with your Randian fantasy world!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or London. Forgot to add London.

You must not have been to London for a while. No white boys there now. They should rename it West Karachi.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is so interesting. As someone who could have easily "landed" this sort of guy, I just don't understand the draw. I came from the (very odd?) old money family that highly discouraged my sisters and I from dating the type of guy you describe, who wanted more than anything for us to find "regular" middle class guys who work hard and have big hearts. They would have been seriously concerned and disappointed if we'd married into what you describe, and growing up around many of these sorts of guys, I found them mostly pretty repugnant, not to mention very boring. Very few good apples. I do realize of course that this just makes me a different sort of snob. But that whole scene is just SO unappealing to me.

+1

I had a stereotypical "rich white girl" childhood and went to a New England prep school, etc. I chose to marry a wonderful, warm-hearted Indian-American man whose parents immigrated to this country and taught him the values of modesty, hard work, love, family values, and giving back. I'm so much happier with him than I ever could've been with the emotionally repressed, snooty, horrible boys I went to school with.

[Anonymous]

I was looking for something similar to you, OP. However, I'm white and I went to boarding school, which helped. I got my preppy, country club, rich family husband. We are happily married, but life is so much more complicated and nuanced than these external, superficial trappings. My husband happens to be a great guy, but not because of the lifestyle of his childhood.

I would really suggest you look for a moral, honest, hard working, loving, caring, partner who will treat you with respect, share housework and parenting and be good for the long haul. Good luck...

[Anonymous]

Hey OP, did you get him?