No, I dont want to date women in their 40's

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Real love is being self conscious about your varicose veins because you've spent your work life working hard on your feet, and your partner looks at you, sitting there naked and sad, and says, I appreciate them, they are battle scars of a strong, beautiful warrior.
Money can't buy that kind of all encompassing love. That's why talking shit about older women is shitty and why we take offense. Btw, the man that said that to me is 7 years my junior, can snag any younger lady he wants, and picked me.

Cheesey as hell. I would punch.my partner inthe face and then laugh my ass off if this was said.

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

PP keeps adding stuff up to the point that further discussion is truly pointless. it wouldnt necessariy be so but he insists on using his own case to prove all his points and then keeps revising that case. Previously he was talking about his ideal dating partner (as in 24 yo open but not really into marriage) now it turns out he has a child with his new girlfriend. What kind of relationship is that? And what kind of woman agrees to be in that position...

No, male PP, no need to answer any of these because I am sure there is another layer of ever more convoluted explanations that won't change the basic point - that you are damaged goods (by your own admission) and frankly do not come across as a very desirable companion.

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

[Anonymous]

It wasn't cheesy, he's not that kind of guy. Not a cheesy bone or pansy bone in his body. A real man can say something like that and it sounds perfect. And being a warrior means something. It means more than you understand, especially if your life has been pretty easy. Mine has not.

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OK, look you two, get a room and fuck this out, OK?

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He also made it sound in prior comments like he was actively dating, but now he has a gf and a child with her??

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

Yeah, if you're in a relationship with a woman and you have a kid together, you're not really on the market, which was kind of the whole point of your multiple postings about the kinds of women you like to date and the ones you think you'll be dating in the future. You had a lot of postings about women in their 20s who want to have fun and enjoy themselves, not too serious, and yet your awesome girlfriend has a baby? Sort of skipped over that part?

In case you're wondering, a 37-year-old guy who's divorced with kids and a has a girlfriend with another kid is VERY LOW value in the marketplace of which you are so fond. Hope she's a keeper!

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

Yeah, if you're in a relationship with a woman and you have a kid together, you're not really on the market, which was kind of the whole point of your multiple postings about the kinds of women you like to date and the ones you think you'll be dating in the future. You had a lot of postings about women in their 20s who want to have fun and enjoy themselves, not too serious, and yet your awesome girlfriend has a baby? Sort of skipped over that part?

In case you're wondering, a 37-year-old guy who's divorced with kids and a has a girlfriend with another kid is VERY LOW value in the marketplace of which you are so fond. Hope she's a keeper!

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

Yeah, if you're in a relationship with a woman and you have a kid together, you're not really on the market, which was kind of the whole point of your multiple postings about the kinds of women you like to date and the ones you think you'll be dating in the future. You had a lot of postings about women in their 20s who want to have fun and enjoy themselves, not too serious, and yet your awesome girlfriend has a baby? Sort of skipped over that part?

In case you're wondering, a 37-year-old guy who's divorced with kids and a has a girlfriend with another kid is VERY LOW value in the marketplace of which you are so fond. Hope she's a keeper!

Again, not at all mutually exclusive if your mind is open.

Open, like the relationship and I have with my girlfriend.

I've continued to date since I met her and had a child with her.

I also, did admittedly, combine some of my current observations in the dating market with some of my recent experiences within the last few years. Precision on an anonymous message board wasn't the highest of priorities for me.

I know you're going to say that she is low value because she is willing to engage in an open relationship, one that is extremely asymmetrical in practice as she rarely if ever has dates with anyone else. But that I suppose will be another symptom of your inability to see things that fall outside of what you think is the norm for the universe.

I am most certainly on the market for sex, dating, and intimacy even if i'm not on the market for another LTR or more kids.

Once you sort of figure things out with how women work, what the triggers are and how women (and men) consistently react to certain things - its not that hard to navigate.

You are most certainly correct in that my value as a "long term" mate has definitely dropped as I picked up another baby momma and probably a second set of two kids. But it hasn't dropped my value for short to medium term relationships at all. It just depends on what marketplace we're talking about.

Its easy to say all things are one way or another in absolute terms and we all know its difficult to understand things that aren't familiar to us.

I hadn't intended to bring my specific situation into the discussion but you and others kept telling me it would be impossible to do this or that and when my specific life experience contradicts it, bringing up seemed to make sense.

I started with generalities and ended up with intimate specifics. My mistake, likely.

I certainly feel like I'm living the dream. Professional life has never been better, physically stronger and more fit than almost all the 20 somethings I come across - even the ones at the gym. I have wonderful children, a gorgeous and lovely GF, and spice and excitement from new experiences regularly.

Can't complain at all and being dissed on DCURBANMOMS of all places isn't going to impact me one iota.

The conversation has been entertaining - thank you.

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

Yeah, if you're in a relationship with a woman and you have a kid together, you're not really on the market, which was kind of the whole point of your multiple postings about the kinds of women you like to date and the ones you think you'll be dating in the future. You had a lot of postings about women in their 20s who want to have fun and enjoy themselves, not too serious, and yet your awesome girlfriend has a baby? Sort of skipped over that part?

In case you're wondering, a 37-year-old guy who's divorced with kids and a has a girlfriend with another kid is VERY LOW value in the marketplace of which you are so fond. Hope she's a keeper!

Again, not at all mutually exclusive if your mind is open.

Open, like the relationship and I have with my girlfriend.

I've continued to date since I met her and had a child with her.

I also, did admittedly, combine some of my current observations in the dating market with some of my recent experiences within the last few years. Precision on an anonymous message board wasn't the highest of priorities for me.

I know you're going to say that she is low value because she is willing to engage in an open relationship, one that is extremely asymmetrical in practice as she rarely if ever has dates with anyone else. But that I suppose will be another symptom of your inability to see things that fall outside of what you think is the norm for the universe.

I am most certainly on the market for sex, dating, and intimacy even if i'm not on the market for another LTR or more kids.

Once you sort of figure things out with how women work, what the triggers are and how women (and men) consistently react to certain things - its not that hard to navigate.

You are most certainly correct in that my value as a "long term" mate has definitely dropped as I picked up another baby momma and probably a second set of two kids. But it hasn't dropped my value for short to medium term relationships at all. It just depends on what marketplace we're talking about.

Its easy to say all things are one way or another in absolute terms and we all know its difficult to understand things that aren't familiar to us.

I hadn't intended to bring my specific situation into the discussion but you and others kept telling me it would be impossible to do this or that and when my specific life experience contradicts it, bringing up seemed to make sense.

I started with generalities and ended up with intimate specifics. My mistake, likely.

I certainly feel like I'm living the dream. Professional life has never been better, physically stronger and more fit than almost all the 20 somethings I come across - even the ones at the gym. I have wonderful children, a gorgeous and lovely GF, and spice and excitement from new experiences regularly.

Can't complain at all and being dissed on DCURBANMOMS of all places isn't going to impact me one iota.

The conversation has been entertaining - thank you.

Yuck!!!

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

Yeah, if you're in a relationship with a woman and you have a kid together, you're not really on the market, which was kind of the whole point of your multiple postings about the kinds of women you like to date and the ones you think you'll be dating in the future. You had a lot of postings about women in their 20s who want to have fun and enjoy themselves, not too serious, and yet your awesome girlfriend has a baby? Sort of skipped over that part?

In case you're wondering, a 37-year-old guy who's divorced with kids and a has a girlfriend with another kid is VERY LOW value in the marketplace of which you are so fond. Hope she's a keeper!

Again, not at all mutually exclusive if your mind is open.

Open, like the relationship and I have with my girlfriend.

I've continued to date since I met her and had a child with her.

I also, did admittedly, combine some of my current observations in the dating market with some of my recent experiences within the last few years. Precision on an anonymous message board wasn't the highest of priorities for me.

I know you're going to say that she is low value because she is willing to engage in an open relationship, one that is extremely asymmetrical in practice as she rarely if ever has dates with anyone else. But that I suppose will be another symptom of your inability to see things that fall outside of what you think is the norm for the universe.

I am most certainly on the market for sex, dating, and intimacy even if i'm not on the market for another LTR or more kids.

Once you sort of figure things out with how women work, what the triggers are and how women (and men) consistently react to certain things - its not that hard to navigate.

You are most certainly correct in that my value as a "long term" mate has definitely dropped as I picked up another baby momma and probably a second set of two kids. But it hasn't dropped my value for short to medium term relationships at all. It just depends on what marketplace we're talking about.

Its easy to say all things are one way or another in absolute terms and we all know its difficult to understand things that aren't familiar to us.

I hadn't intended to bring my specific situation into the discussion but you and others kept telling me it would be impossible to do this or that and when my specific life experience contradicts it, bringing up seemed to make sense.

I started with generalities and ended up with intimate specifics. My mistake, likely.

I certainly feel like I'm living the dream. Professional life has never been better, physically stronger and more fit than almost all the 20 somethings I come across - even the ones at the gym. I have wonderful children, a gorgeous and lovely GF, and spice and excitement from new experiences regularly.

Can't complain at all and being dissed on DCURBANMOMS of all places isn't going to impact me one iota.

The conversation has been entertaining - thank you.

I henceforth dub thee: SleazeTroll.

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

Yeah, if you're in a relationship with a woman and you have a kid together, you're not really on the market, which was kind of the whole point of your multiple postings about the kinds of women you like to date and the ones you think you'll be dating in the future. You had a lot of postings about women in their 20s who want to have fun and enjoy themselves, not too serious, and yet your awesome girlfriend has a baby? Sort of skipped over that part?

In case you're wondering, a 37-year-old guy who's divorced with kids and a has a girlfriend with another kid is VERY LOW value in the marketplace of which you are so fond. Hope she's a keeper!

Again, not at all mutually exclusive if your mind is open.

Open, like the relationship and I have with my girlfriend.

I've continued to date since I met her and had a child with her.

I also, did admittedly, combine some of my current observations in the dating market with some of my recent experiences within the last few years. Precision on an anonymous message board wasn't the highest of priorities for me.

I know you're going to say that she is low value because she is willing to engage in an open relationship, one that is extremely asymmetrical in practice as she rarely if ever has dates with anyone else. But that I suppose will be another symptom of your inability to see things that fall outside of what you think is the norm for the universe.

I am most certainly on the market for sex, dating, and intimacy even if i'm not on the market for another LTR or more kids.

Once you sort of figure things out with how women work, what the triggers are and how women (and men) consistently react to certain things - its not that hard to navigate.

You are most certainly correct in that my value as a "long term" mate has definitely dropped as I picked up another baby momma and probably a second set of two kids. But it hasn't dropped my value for short to medium term relationships at all. It just depends on what marketplace we're talking about.

Its easy to say all things are one way or another in absolute terms and we all know its difficult to understand things that aren't familiar to us.

I hadn't intended to bring my specific situation into the discussion but you and others kept telling me it would be impossible to do this or that and when my specific life experience contradicts it, bringing up seemed to make sense.

I started with generalities and ended up with intimate specifics. My mistake, likely.

I certainly feel like I'm living the dream. Professional life has never been better, physically stronger and more fit than almost all the 20 somethings I come across - even the ones at the gym. I have wonderful children, a gorgeous and lovely GF, and spice and excitement from new experiences regularly.

Can't complain at all and being dissed on DCURBANMOMS of all places isn't going to impact me one iota.

The conversation has been entertaining - thank you.

And I'm sure when your lovely daughter starts breeding with some man 10-15 years older than her who has children from a previous marriage and who continues to fuck other women, you will be say, YES, sweetheart, now you too are living the dream!!!

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Anonymous wrote:even 35 is getting pretty old. When a woman is unmarried with no prospects at 35, it's time to give up and buy 5 cats.

A 40 yo unmarried man is very suspect, too.

There is really only about 5 years of difference between equally desirable men and women, not 15 or 20 as some men are imagining.

Agree. I don't know any single 40 year old men who don't have issues and weren't rejected by women in their 30s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope you have lots of cash. Younger women don't really want to date YOU.
Have fun with your second family...you'll be changing diapers in your 40's and paying for college in you 60's. Enjoy your trophy...and by the way, she won't be immune to gravity either...but you should be able to afford all those procedures to keep her looking great for you.
Better get back to the office, you'll need the money. Sounds like a fun life you're looking for.

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Anonymous wrote:How come you got divorced? Did your wife get too wrinkly after she had the kids? Do you want more kids with your girlfriend, or will that age her too much?

ex became a sexless void. i also had my own problems which i addressed later. and many other reasons which made us long term incompatible.



already have a lovely child with the new gf.

Well, earlier you said "and yet she loves me deeply and wants kids with me," so you're admittedly lying if you already have a child. Not a surprise.

How are wanting kids with me and having one already mutually exclusive?

It might be technically consistent, but it is highly misleading.

Yeah, if you're in a relationship with a woman and you have a kid together, you're not really on the market, which was kind of the whole point of your multiple postings about the kinds of women you like to date and the ones you think you'll be dating in the future. You had a lot of postings about women in their 20s who want to have fun and enjoy themselves, not too serious, and yet your awesome girlfriend has a baby? Sort of skipped over that part?

In case you're wondering, a 37-year-old guy who's divorced with kids and a has a girlfriend with another kid is VERY LOW value in the marketplace of which you are so fond. Hope she's a keeper!

Again, not at all mutually exclusive if your mind is open.

Open, like the relationship and I have with my girlfriend.

I've continued to date since I met her and had a child with her.

I also, did admittedly, combine some of my current observations in the dating market with some of my recent experiences within the last few years. Precision on an anonymous message board wasn't the highest of priorities for me.

I know you're going to say that she is low value because she is willing to engage in an open relationship, one that is extremely asymmetrical in practice as she rarely if ever has dates with anyone else. But that I suppose will be another symptom of your inability to see things that fall outside of what you think is the norm for the universe.

I am most certainly on the market for sex, dating, and intimacy even if i'm not on the market for another LTR or more kids.

Once you sort of figure things out with how women work, what the triggers are and how women (and men) consistently react to certain things - its not that hard to navigate.

You are most certainly correct in that my value as a "long term" mate has definitely dropped as I picked up another baby momma and probably a second set of two kids. But it hasn't dropped my value for short to medium term relationships at all. It just depends on what marketplace we're talking about.

Its easy to say all things are one way or another in absolute terms and we all know its difficult to understand things that aren't familiar to us.

I hadn't intended to bring my specific situation into the discussion but you and others kept telling me it would be impossible to do this or that and when my specific life experience contradicts it, bringing up seemed to make sense.

I started with generalities and ended up with intimate specifics. My mistake, likely.

I certainly feel like I'm living the dream. Professional life has never been better, physically stronger and more fit than almost all the 20 somethings I come across - even the ones at the gym. I have wonderful children, a gorgeous and lovely GF, and spice and excitement from new experiences regularly.

Can't complain at all and being dissed on DCURBANMOMS of all places isn't going to impact me one iota.

The conversation has been entertaining - thank you.

Nobody was saying antyhing was impossible, as everyone is well aware of the existence of various twisted freaks (you know, people having sex with animals, corpses etc). It just wasn't readily apparent (due to misleading info you were sending our way) how deeply in that cateogry you and your - um, whatever she is to you - are. You are just a pervert, and an obnoxious one at that.