No, I dont want to date women in their 40's

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Anonymous wrote:even 35 is getting pretty old. When a woman is unmarried with no prospects at 35, it's time to give up and buy 5 cats.

A 40 yo unmarried man is very suspect, too.

There is really only about 5 years of difference between equally desirable men and women, not 15 or 20 as some men are imagining.

Not anymore since more people are becoming aware that there is such a thing as advanced paternal age and that it is the same age as advanced maternal age.

the 5 year difference is realistic. women are judged mostly on looks while men are judged partly on accomplishments, which tend to increase in age. plus men have no biological clock. That explains the difference.

It's common sense. it's also common sense that 65 year old men can't bang lots of hot 35 year women without incredible wealth and celebrity. Nobody thinks that. I don't get all the vitriol.

There used to be the fallacy that only the mother's age mattered. But the truth is that the age of both parents matter. And the purpose of reproducing with the healthiest mates used to mean mating with the most attractive, younger females because the age of the father was not called into question. But now with increasing understanding that the age of the father also matters means that women need to choose younger male partners. The only way around this is to maintain a social structure where females are kept down and disadvantaged with respect to economic and social opportunities so they continue to breed with older men.

Nothing you said disagrees with what I said. I said a 5 year difference is realistic (and verified by online dating data re desirability). The man's age does matter. And of course so does the woman's, even more so. Your last sentence is retarded though. You seem like a man-hating feminist. I mean if you want to be completely biological, every kid would have a 19 year old father and an 18 year old mother, but we don't encourage that in society. But you can't just pop out kids, you have to raise them. and that's why men are judged on accomplishments/status and women are judged on looks/youth.

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40 year old women are not looking to date a 30 year old man who wants kids.

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I hope you have lots of cash. Younger women don't really want to date YOU.
Have fun with your second family...you'll be changing diapers in your 40's and paying for college in you 60's. Enjoy your trophy...and by the way, she won't be immune to gravity either...but you should be able to afford all those procedures to keep her looking great for you.
Better get back to the office, you'll need the money. Sounds like a fun life you're looking for.

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I doubt there are many older men on this site.

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I got married at 39 to a man I met at 37. We now have 3 kids. I'm glad I did not read this post, which is just dumb.

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Anonymous wrote:I got married at 39 to a man I met at 37. We now have 3 kids. I'm glad I did not read this post, which is just dumb.

Ditto.

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Anonymous wrote:Someone's feeling butthurt about the "Don't want to date your 60 y.o. a@@" thread...

Someone with a fragile ego. Wonder if he lives in his parents' basement and his mom still does his laundry.

Not only that, he's 45 and 45 pounds overweight, maybe 100.

Women in their 40s don't want you, honey.

Resign yourself to self service.

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Anonymous wrote:Any older man shit talking women close to his age should really look in the mirror. You think you look like George Clooney or something? I'm not even close to that age, but that attitude is just nonsensical.

Old men tend to be delusional when it comes to their own desirability. They were raised in backwards times. The old coots will eventually die out.

How's divorce and cat piss treating you, hag

Angry old man.

lol im 31 and hungover

4 years until you are in the creepy single old man category. Chop chop and quit drinking.

lol how old are you calling other people creepy, like 43?

Not PP, but for fuck's sake, man. Get some fucking self-respect and stop writing like a 12-year-old girl.

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Anonymous wrote:At first I thought this was funny, but each time OP replies, it just gets sadder.

It's why more women are opting to date and marry younger. Late 30s guy with no wife/kids...usually a reason.

I know some pretty hot, successful mid/late thirties guys...but dollars to donuts not one of them spends their free time on DCUM calling everyone hags.

LOL Right. I have tried hooking some of these guys up (others have too), and was usually surprised by the reports coming back from the women they dated. I'm referring to guys you're surprised to hear haven't been snatched up already. Either they turned out to have secret asshole tendencies, their sexuality is now in question, or they are guys who either mistreat or are indifferent towards good women because they feel entitled to a hottie (who usually uses them). I am 30 now and I believe at my age, both women AND men should be well past some of the common mistakes we made in our 20s. Golddiggers are easy to spot and so are most guys looking to use a woman for sex.

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Anonymous wrote:I got married at 39 to a man I met at 37. We now have 3 kids. I'm glad I did not read this post, which is just dumb.

Ditto.

Thanks from those of us on this thread who are still hoping to settle down! Nice to hear success stories.

-31 year old "spinster"

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Anonymous wrote:Someone's feeling butthurt about the "Don't want to date your 60 y.o. a@@" thread...

Someone with a fragile ego. Wonder if he lives in his parents' basement and his mom still does his laundry.

Not only that, he's 45 and 45 pounds overweight, maybe 100.

Women in their 40s don't want you, honey.

Resign yourself to self service.

Once you hit menopause, you are sexually irrelevant. It's over. You lost.

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Anonymous wrote:At first I thought this was funny, but each time OP replies, it just gets sadder.

It's why more women are opting to date and marry younger. Late 30s guy with no wife/kids...usually a reason.

I know some pretty hot, successful mid/late thirties guys...but dollars to donuts not one of them spends their free time on DCUM calling everyone hags.

LOL Right. I have tried hooking some of these guys up (others have too), and was usually surprised by the reports coming back from the women they dated. I'm referring to guys you're surprised to hear haven't been snatched up already. Either they turned out to have secret asshole tendencies, their sexuality is now in question, or they are guys who either mistreat or are indifferent towards good women because they feel entitled to a hottie (who usually uses them). I am 30 now and I believe at my age, both women AND men should be well past some of the common mistakes we made in our 20s. Golddiggers are easy to spot and so are most guys looking to use a woman for sex.

Man at 35 is like woman at 30 in the dating/mating game. So if they have too many issues, you do too (assuming you are single). If you are single, worry.

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Anonymous wrote:Someone's feeling butthurt about the "Don't want to date your 60 y.o. a@@" thread...

Someone with a fragile ego. Wonder if he lives in his parents' basement and his mom still does his laundry.

Not only that, he's 45 and 45 pounds overweight, maybe 100.

Women in their 40s don't want you, honey.

Resign yourself to self service.

Once you hit menopause, you are sexually irrelevant. It's over. You lost.

Do you think it's not going to happen to you? Or your partner, if you are male? I'm sorry you're in a situation where it makes you feel better about yourself to spout this ridiculous bullcrap.

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I just too a humongous dump

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I'm 47 and my sweetie is 7 years younger than me. We're both divorced and its by far the best , most understanding relationship of my life. If you judge a lady merely on looks and cannot make deeper, intellectual connections with your lovers, you are flawed and have some work to do on your soul. I don't have an issue dating men my age or older, or a man that's younger.... it's about connection, and once.you assign an arbitrary number to your dating pool that has a judgement attached to it, you've hit shallow.