I'm an African American. Ask me anything.

[Anonymous]

OP,

Are you secretly happy that black men are seen as virile and well-endowed even if it might not apply to you?....Does it apply to you?

-AA female

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Are you secretly happy that black men are seen as virile and well-endowed even if it might not apply to you?....Does it apply to you?

-AA female

Maybe you want to private chat with OP? I smell a Cheater...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Are you secretly happy that black men are seen as virile and well-endowed even if it might not apply to you?....Does it apply to you?

-AA female

Yes and yes
-OP

[Anonymous]

To the AA women: Did you have trouble dating? I've heard that AA women (and Asian men) are least desirable as potential mates.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Are you secretly happy that black men are seen as virile and well-endowed even if it might not apply to you?....Does it apply to you?

-AA female

Maybe you want to private chat with OP? I smell a Cheater...

Far from a cheater. Very happily married. What you've just witnessed is called internet banter.

[Anonymous]

AA woman here - never smoked weed or did any drugs before. Have relatives in jail. My husband encounters the people crossing the street or not speaking to him. He is very friendly, so don't be scared. We live in a very diverse-ish meighborhood though the Black population is less than Asian, Hispanic/Latino, and Arab. I don't use the N word, but I do say "assed" but not "axed" and "what's up?". I don't say "girlfriend" but I do say "this chick". I do watch the Real Housewives of Atlanta. Random facts.

[Anonymous]

00:38 here. No I do not get along with every AA/Black person that I meet nor do I extend a special greeting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To the AA women: Did you have trouble dating? I've heard that AA women (and Asian men) are least desirable as potential mates.

AA woman here. I'm married, but had no problem attracting men. With that said, I've only dated black men (and one who was black/Puerto Rican). My single AA friends have got it tough. It's been difficult for them to date IR. I sometimes go to happy hours with my coworkers and the white guys (the coworkers) often go on about how pretty I am (in a very friendly, non-pervy, way). I'm a very curvy, bootylicious early 30's black woman. White guys seeing me, without the benefit of knowing me, would probably assume I'm not interested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do AA men marry/hit on White Women so much?

Define "so much" and I will try (not) to answer you.

Fine, I'll rephrase.

What is the attraction a lot of AA men have towards white women?

[Anonymous]

OP,

Are you married to a white woman? I get the feeling you are. If so, I have follow-up questions.

[ManHere]

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Are you married to a white woman? I get the feeling you are. If so, I have follow-up questions.

Nope DW is black.

[ManHere]

ManHere wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Are you married to a white woman? I get the feeling you are. If so, I have follow-up questions.

Nope DW is black.

I'm OP.

[Anonymous]

OP, what part of the DC region do you live in? Did race relations, or at least wanting to live in a community with other AA families, play any part in where you chose to live? Any parts of the region you would especially recommend or not recommend to AA families with young children who are relocating to the area?

[Anonymous]

ManHere wrote:

ManHere wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Are you married to a white woman? I get the feeling you are. If so, I have follow-up questions.

Nope DW is black.

I'm OP.

Good idea to get a user name, since we black women hijacked your thread.

I'm interested in your answer to the pp's question about the attraction to white women. I posted with possible reasons, but don't know if I'm right.

[ManHere]

Anonymous wrote:

ManHere wrote:

ManHere wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP,

Are you married to a white woman? I get the feeling you are. If so, I have follow-up questions.

Nope DW is black.

I'm OP.

Good idea to get a user name, since we black women hijacked your thread.

I'm interested in your answer to the pp's question about the attraction to white women. I posted with possible reasons, but don't know if I'm right.

Everyone has their reasons so it's not as simple as just listing a few things. I know at least 15 AA men married to non-AA women (not all white) They all have their reasons and their marriages and families are great. I'm talking about marriage so "easiness" was not the reason. In my opinion.