Why do women put men front and center?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.

Why are your only two options

-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single

?

Do you give men the same option?

Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.

Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?

Are you stupid?!

+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.

Sperm in sperm banks also comes from men! Did you think it was synthetic?

Who said anything about killing off all the men in the world? I'll wait.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.

Why are your only two options

-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single

?

Do you give men the same option?

Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.

Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?

Are you stupid?!

+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.

Sperm in sperm banks also comes from men! Did you think it was synthetic?

Who said anything about killing off all the men in the world? I'll wait.

You said men are not needed. You said they are unnecessary. Well, they are needed to produce sperm for your sperm bank. Sperm isn’t synthetic. You need men, you need good healthy men.

[Anonymous]

[quote=Anonymous]I have seen very attractive, very successful women make their man the center of everything when they are dating or even in a relationship. Some women give up successful careers, leave behind great jobs etc not because it's the best choice but because not making that sacrifice (in their mind) may jeopardize their relationship.

What wrong with being single when the alternative is giving up so much of your personal goals?

Don't call us men for being selfish for not making similar sacrifices. You are not being forced. You can say no. If the relationship ends or never materializes because of it then be it.

My daughter is extremely smart. Her lowers grade is a 98%. She is in 10th grade and wants to be an aerospace engineering major. I won't lie my fear is that one day she meets a boy she is crazy over and gives up a lot job grad school etc just because that's what that man wants. If she ever asks me any advice about giving up anything for a man, my answer will be a resounding NO. [/quote]

I am a very successful attorney, and my ex-wife is an emergency physician. We rarely had time for each other or for our two young children. Both of us were working constantly, and our kids were effectively raised by strangers. There is nothing wrong with your daughter becoming an aerospace engineer, but she will likely end up with someone at her level or higher—not a plumber or a Walmart cashier—and that can become an issue. There can only be one driver in the car, because if you have two quarterbacks, you have none.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t speak for all women but for me it was the instinct. My desire to have a baby and breed in my 20s overpowered all rational arguments. When I saw another young mom pushing a stroller I wanted literally snatch that baby, this is how strong it was.

I gave up a full ride scholarship at a law school and got married, changing cities. Soon after I was pregnant with my only child.

How many will do that for a woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Smarts don’t mean much in relationships. If your DD is smart but nerdy and not good looking she may have to lower her standards a bit. Hopefully she’ll find a nice loving partner even if he isn’t as smart or successful as she.

So men can be ugly and nerdy?

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Anonymous wrote:It's more than just in literature or movies. From the time I was a teenager, relatives or even random friends of my parents were always asking if I had a boyfriend. By the time I was in law school it was whether I was dating someone I was going to marry. It's one million tiny little messages that say no matter how smart you are, no matter what you're actually interested in, no matter what your career, your community is judging you based on your mate.

Where are you from? I'm from a South Asian immigrant community and even for us, that's not the case any more. Women are required to have degrees, careers and income. If they don't for whatever reason, society looks down upon them. They don't have a choice, whether they want to or not.

I am surprised by that too. I keep seeing that women say they grew up in environments where all the messages were that the only worth or value a woman has is as a wife and mother. I have no idea where they grew up as that is foreign to me! I grew up in a very conservative and Christian church and family and even there education and career was encouraged. Yes, people in that environment thought that marriage and family is important (for men and women) but the women were certainly not reduced to that as people.

Women outnumber men in post secondary education so that just doesn't fit with a societal view that women have been raised to be wives and mothers and nothing else.

Society has changed. Men can or sustain a family on a single income anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Smarts don’t mean much in relationships. If your DD is smart but nerdy and not good looking she may have to lower her standards a bit. Hopefully she’ll find a nice loving partner even if he isn’t as smart or successful as she.

Absolutely disagree. A smart and organized woman running household, contributing income towards joint pot and raising your kids smart and well adjusted is more valuable than somone just good looking. Do you want dumb kids? Do you want a spender bimbo wifey who has no clue about budgeting ? Do you want household disordered kids playing video games and laundry on the floor when oh get home from a high profile job ?

One billionaire said: who you marry is the most important decision a man can make early on in life that will be detrimental for his success.

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Anonymous wrote:High value women should not have children.

In any relationship, man is not the most important person for a woman. But, once a woman gives birth to a kid, their brain rewires to put the kid first.

What on earth does this mean. Only low value women should have children?????

Yes. Then they are not wasting their college education or potential. The high value women can pay a surrogate to carry their child.

[Anonymous]

Nature. Women are gatherers and nesters, they want a hunter and protector to hunt and protect to have and raise kids with.

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Anonymous wrote:I can’t speak for all women but for me it was the instinct. My desire to have a baby and breed in my 20s overpowered all rational arguments. When I saw another young mom pushing a stroller I wanted literally snatch that baby, this is how strong it was.

I gave up a full ride scholarship at a law school and got married, changing cities. Soon after I was pregnant with my only child.

This was written by a porn addicted male.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.

Why are your only two options

-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single

?

Do you give men the same option?

Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.

Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?

Are you stupid?!

+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.

Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?

Men will f*** children, the elderly, animals, inanimate objects. sperm and d*** will always be abundant and low value.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.

Why are your only two options

-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single

?

Do you give men the same option?

Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.

Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?

Are you stupid?!

+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.

Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?

When choosing a sperm donor, you get pretty detailed bios that include education, occupation, medical history, physical characteristics among others. You choose the man you want to father your child. My friend's sperm donor had a masters degree and was an engineer.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.

Why are your only two options

-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single

?

Do you give men the same option?

Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.

Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?

Are you stupid?!

+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.

Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?

Men will f*** children, the elderly, animals, inanimate objects. sperm and d*** will always be abundant and low value.

Actually, there are now several options to get sperm donated by tech billionaires at IVF clinics.
Usually medical students donate sperm so these are not the “low value” men

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Anonymous wrote:I’m curious, OP, would it be fine with you if your daughter never married? I feel like that’s the natural endpoint of decentering men. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with that, just wondering if people are mostly ok with the prospect of just remaining single.

Why are your only two options

-Have men front and center in all aspects of womens lives
or
-Be single

?

Do you give men the same option?

Men are optional. Women don't need them anymore for anything. Want a family? Have your own baby. Want money have your own career. Men are outdated and unessesary.

Even if you prefer children to be fatherless, where would you get sperm donors?

Are you stupid?!

+1 PP ever hear of a sperm bank? Good grief.

Typically, men who give sperm are poor and less educated.
I find it surprising that you are so thrilled about getting sperm from men who are considered low class. These are men you would likely never let near you. They will pass on their low class genes to your child.
Does that sound appealing to you?

Men will f*** children, the elderly, animals, inanimate objects. sperm and d*** will always be abundant and low value.

Actually, there are now several options to get sperm donated by tech billionaires at IVF clinics.
Usually medical students donate sperm so these are not the “low value” men

Meh I’m not disagreeing with you. Just the notion that men will hide their sperm from women or whatever that pp is on about is so ridiculous. Men will never stop f***ing even when we ask them not to (aka rape). Sperm will always be available.

But also, isn’t technology now able to create female genes out of female genes? So we can just grow more women and not even have to deal with men anymore?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, if anyone interested, apparently you can IVF treatment fully covered and have a healthy baby from this gorgeous Russian billionaire. Kids will split the inheritance. Honestly, I would have tried if I was younger (instead of giving up my law school)

https://altravita-ivf.com/free-ivf-with-pavel-durov-donated-sperm.html