Married women - have you had a happy ending massage?

[Anonymous]

Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

Where?

[Anonymous]

I didn't even know this was a thing.

Did you ask for it OP?

Agree with others that there are pretty big ethical concerns with this. At best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You think because it’s “high end,” it’s not sexual activity for hire?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

[Anonymous]

I don't fully understand why this is so taboo. Their hands are already all over you. What's a little more?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Any man will be crazy to give a happy ending to a married woman. If she wakes up in a bad mood he next day she will accuse you of rape.

If she didn’t ask for it and he just decided on his own to do it, the rape accusation would not be too far off base.

Wow, do you struggle with reading comprehension? PP is saying the risk is that she will change her mind the next day and accuse the massage therapist of rape. Not that it wasn’t consensual at the time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

I mean you sound like a guy who thinks the strippers are really into him. It comes across as a bit delusional.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

I mean you sound like a guy who thinks the strippers are really into him. It comes across as a bit delusional.

This. And also? Eww. I don't want there to be any ambiguity about the nature of the massage I'm paying for. No hints, no boundary testing. Please properly drape my body for privacy and do the job I paid you to do. The rest of this bullshit is c-grade porn cringe.

-a licensed massage therapist who takes the work seriously

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

Let's also be clear, a masseuse who touches someone sexually without it being explicitly clear that's what the person wanted is committing assault. So that weird fantasy is especially gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

Where?

Most of Northern Europe, for one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do I engage in sex trafficking as a consumer who creates a demand for sex trafficking? No. No I do not.

I think you have a different perspective than what people are saying.

These are typically done by hirgj end masseuses, or people who specialize in this type of massage.

You mean by sex workers?

My perspective - I don’t want to hire a sex worker to do it.

What makes it fun is the idea that a sexy guy also finds me sexy and does it of his own free will. Not that I paid him to.

Also the anticipation and build up - will he? Is his hand going up higher or am I imagining it? The build up of tension. So really more like on a first date where the chemistry is there but you don’t know what’s going to happen and put out your own signals while looking for his.

Sounds delusional. You are paying for a stranger to get you off.

Let's also be clear, a masseuse who touches someone sexually without it being explicitly clear that's what the person wanted is committing assault. So that weird fantasy is especially gross.

Or rather, keep it to a fantasy. Once you make it real, you are hiring a sex worker.