“Boy mom”

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Anonymous wrote:“Mom of boys,” you’re fine.

“BOY MOM,” you are annoying and think your son does literally no wrong.

“He’s all boy,” I will punch you in the tit.


I never thought boy mom meant this. I live with two boys and a husband. I thought boy mom meant getting used to gross toilets, hands down pants, etc. Now that my older kid is well into puberty I'm really feeling the gender differences.


DP. Those are bad behaviors that mothers excuse too. I have two boys and a girl, and they’re equally clean(or else).


I also have two boys and a girl, and my girl is the most resistant to bathing. But my boys love to fart loudly as they leave a room. And pee splash around the toilet with boys (especially young boys) just comes with the territory; it’s not “bad behavior” you loon.


It is bad behavior. Boys should be taught from the earliest age it’s unacceptable to leave pee on/around the toilet; they need to clean it up themselves, immediately. Accepting it and forcing other family members to accept it as normal is “boymom” behavior.


Your misogyny is showing. If you truly believe this then it’s actually “boydad” behavior. I don’t teach my sons how to pee standing up. Just like my husband is not the one to teach our daughter how to properly dispose of menstrual products.

But if my elementary school son splatters a bit when he gets up to pee in the middle of the night, I just deal with it when I see it (you know, like a big girl!) rather than accusing him of toxic masculinity or entitled behavior or whatever nonsense you can come up with.


You, not your husband, is on the internet defending this gross behavior. And when you are called on it, you cry misogyny? Let’s just say I am not surprised you are raising your boys not take responsibility- you are apparently modeling it for them.


You’re right. 5-year-old pee splatter equals future rapist. And the world is pro-men and boys, because we allow it.


Ah, you cannot acknowledge your poor logical leaps so you make another gigantic one. Sad.
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Anonymous wrote:Are there two more irritating words in the English language?

“Girl boss”
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Anonymous wrote:“Mom of boys,” you’re fine.

“BOY MOM,” you are annoying and think your son does literally no wrong.

“He’s all boy,” I will punch you in the tit.


I never thought boy mom meant this. I live with two boys and a husband. I thought boy mom meant getting used to gross toilets, hands down pants, etc. Now that my older kid is well into puberty I'm really feeling the gender differences.


DP. Those are bad behaviors that mothers excuse too. I have two boys and a girl, and they’re equally clean(or else).


I also have two boys and a girl, and my girl is the most resistant to bathing. But my boys love to fart loudly as they leave a room. And pee splash around the toilet with boys (especially young boys) just comes with the territory; it’s not “bad behavior” you loon.


It is bad behavior. Boys should be taught from the earliest age it’s unacceptable to leave pee on/around the toilet; they need to clean it up themselves, immediately. Accepting it and forcing other family members to accept it as normal is “boymom” behavior.


Your misogyny is showing. If you truly believe this then it’s actually “boydad” behavior. I don’t teach my sons how to pee standing up. Just like my husband is not the one to teach our daughter how to properly dispose of menstrual products.

But if my elementary school son splatters a bit when he gets up to pee in the middle of the night, I just deal with it when I see it (you know, like a big girl!) rather than accusing him of toxic masculinity or entitled behavior or whatever nonsense you can come up with.


You, not your husband, is on the internet defending this gross behavior. And when you are called on it, you cry misogyny? Let’s just say I am not surprised you are raising your boys not take responsibility- you are apparently modeling it for them.


You’re right. 5-year-old pee splatter equals future rapist. And the world is pro-men and boys, because we allow it.


Ah, you cannot acknowledge your poor logical leaps so you make another gigantic one. Sad.


I hope one day you only have grandsons and have to teach them not to pee splatter. Just stand next to them while they go pee and tell them how to end so that nothing splatters.
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Dance mom, soccer mom, girl mom, karen are all irritating.
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Anonymous wrote:Are there two more irritating words in the English language?

“Girl boss”

+1
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Anonymous wrote:People using social-media-friendly and utterly vapid and annoying tags like "boy mom". Ugh.


This. It’s the fact that these “boy moms” can’t just say to others that they have two boys or sons, but that it has to be a thing to make them feel special and unique, particularly on social media. I cringe every time I see that hashtag. The mother is usually the same as well. Suburban, screaming at the officials at the travel soccer tournament, ideally with one or more “Live laugh love” decorations in her house.


The insufferable city person has entered the picture.

OMG! I spend $300 at Ulta today, you know what I mean ... not me thank god #boymom

I am so grateful not to have daughters, for that reason among many others. Less worry, less expense, and I prefer rough and tumble kids.
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Its a little annoying, and also I don't really care. -Mom of boys
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Anonymous wrote:“Mom of boys,” you’re fine.

“BOY MOM,” you are annoying and think your son does literally no wrong.

“He’s all boy,” I will punch you in the tit.


I never thought boy mom meant this. I live with two boys and a husband. I thought boy mom meant getting used to gross toilets, hands down pants, etc. Now that my older kid is well into puberty I'm really feeling the gender differences.


DP. Those are bad behaviors that mothers excuse too. I have two boys and a girl, and they’re equally clean(or else).


I also have two boys and a girl, and my girl is the most resistant to bathing. But my boys love to fart loudly as they leave a room. And pee splash around the toilet with boys (especially young boys) just comes with the territory; it’s not “bad behavior” you loon.


It is bad behavior. Boys should be taught from the earliest age it’s unacceptable to leave pee on/around the toilet; they need to clean it up themselves, immediately. Accepting it and forcing other family members to accept it as normal is “boymom” behavior.


Your misogyny is showing. If you truly believe this then it’s actually “boydad” behavior. I don’t teach my sons how to pee standing up. Just like my husband is not the one to teach our daughter how to properly dispose of menstrual products.

But if my elementary school son splatters a bit when he gets up to pee in the middle of the night, I just deal with it when I see it (you know, like a big girl!) rather than accusing him of toxic masculinity or entitled behavior or whatever nonsense you can come up with.


You, not your husband, is on the internet defending this gross behavior. And when you are called on it, you cry misogyny? Let’s just say I am not surprised you are raising your boys not take responsibility- you are apparently modeling it for them.


You sound really weird. Are you triggered by the #boymoms because you don’t know how to relate to other human beings?
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Anonymous wrote:“Mom of boys,” you’re fine.

“BOY MOM,” you are annoying and think your son does literally no wrong.

“He’s all boy,” I will punch you in the tit.


I never thought boy mom meant this. I live with two boys and a husband. I thought boy mom meant getting used to gross toilets, hands down pants, etc. Now that my older kid is well into puberty I'm really feeling the gender differences.


DP. Those are bad behaviors that mothers excuse too. I have two boys and a girl, and they’re equally clean(or else).


I also have two boys and a girl, and my girl is the most resistant to bathing. But my boys love to fart loudly as they leave a room. And pee splash around the toilet with boys (especially young boys) just comes with the territory; it’s not “bad behavior” you loon.


It is bad behavior. Boys should be taught from the earliest age it’s unacceptable to leave pee on/around the toilet; they need to clean it up themselves, immediately. Accepting it and forcing other family members to accept it as normal is “boymom” behavior.


Your misogyny is showing. If you truly believe this then it’s actually “boydad” behavior. I don’t teach my sons how to pee standing up. Just like my husband is not the one to teach our daughter how to properly dispose of menstrual products.

But if my elementary school son splatters a bit when he gets up to pee in the middle of the night, I just deal with it when I see it (you know, like a big girl!) rather than accusing him of toxic masculinity or entitled behavior or whatever nonsense you can come up with.


You, not your husband, is on the internet defending this gross behavior. And when you are called on it, you cry misogyny? Let’s just say I am not surprised you are raising your boys not take responsibility- you are apparently modeling it for them.


You’re right. 5-year-old pee splatter equals future rapist. And the world is pro-men and boys, because we allow it.


Ah, you cannot acknowledge your poor logical leaps so you make another gigantic one. Sad.


I hope one day you only have grandsons and have to teach them not to pee splatter. Just stand next to them while they go pee and tell them how to end so that nothing splatters.


When her adult grandsons don’t visit her when she’s eventually all alone someday, she’ll undoubtedly count their lack of concern for her as further evidence of how awful boys and men are. She’ll never consider that they don’t visit her because she’s a horrible person who made her disdain for them obvious throughout their lives, just because they’re not girls.
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There is so much hostility and defensiveness on this post.
Anonymous
I call myself a boy mom sometimes (2 of my 3 are boys). Experiencing both sides - it really is a different journey raising boys vs. girls, and sometimes you just need to bond with other women going through the same experience, and it’s a term we use. Too bad so sad if it bothers you. (I also use girl mom sometimes too!)
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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get the term in the sense of why does everything needs to be branded with a catch phrase these days? It’s not enough to be a mom and to say “I have two boys.” Everything had to be a hashtagable phrase that can be printed on moms beach trucker hat or her wine-o-clock glasses.

I guess I don’t understand how being a boy mom is different from being a mom????

For me, being a boy mom means embracing everything that goes along with raising only boys. Through watching them grow up, I've gained an appreciation for men and how they operate. Men and women are different. Raising boys vs raising girls is different.


Yes and both have their pros and cons. (For example it’s a fresh kind of torture to be going through perimenopause with a teenage girl in the home!).
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Anonymous wrote:There is so much hostility and defensiveness on this post.


Yes, the “punch you in the tit” post was extremely hostile!
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Anonymous wrote:There is so much hostility and defensiveness on this post.


Yes, the “punch you in the tit” post was extremely hostile!

And all the posts saying "I'm so glad I have boys; girls spend too much money on makeup" or "I'm so glad I have girls; boys pee all over the toilet seat." Why are we denigrating entire genders? Just be happy with the kids you have.
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Anonymous wrote:“Mom of boys,” you’re fine.

“BOY MOM,” you are annoying and think your son does literally no wrong.

“He’s all boy,” I will punch you in the tit.


I never thought boy mom meant this. I live with two boys and a husband. I thought boy mom meant getting used to gross toilets, hands down pants, etc. Now that my older kid is well into puberty I'm really feeling the gender differences.


DP. Those are bad behaviors that mothers excuse too. I have two boys and a girl, and they’re equally clean(or else).


I also have two boys and a girl, and my girl is the most resistant to bathing. But my boys love to fart loudly as they leave a room. And pee splash around the toilet with boys (especially young boys) just comes with the territory; it’s not “bad behavior” you loon.


It is bad behavior. Boys should be taught from the earliest age it’s unacceptable to leave pee on/around the toilet; they need to clean it up themselves, immediately. Accepting it and forcing other family members to accept it as normal is “boymom” behavior.


Your misogyny is showing. If you truly believe this then it’s actually “boydad” behavior. I don’t teach my sons how to pee standing up. Just like my husband is not the one to teach our daughter how to properly dispose of menstrual products.

But if my elementary school son splatters a bit when he gets up to pee in the middle of the night, I just deal with it when I see it (you know, like a big girl!) rather than accusing him of toxic masculinity or entitled behavior or whatever nonsense you can come up with.


You, not your husband, is on the internet defending this gross behavior. And when you are called on it, you cry misogyny? Let’s just say I am not surprised you are raising your boys not take responsibility- you are apparently modeling it for them.


You’re right. 5-year-old pee splatter equals future rapist. And the world is pro-men and boys, because we allow it.


Ah, you cannot acknowledge your poor logical leaps so you make another gigantic one. Sad.


I hope one day you only have grandsons and have to teach them not to pee splatter. Just stand next to them while they go pee and tell them how to end so that nothing splatters.


How strange that again you are doubling down on not teaching your sons to clean up after themselves. Some of you are so strange.
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