OMG people HS and College are NOT THE SAME. Grade inflation in HS in this area are ridiculous - showup=4.0. College is there to prepare you for the real world. Not everything is going to be given to you on a silver tray. There is so much more than academics that comes from going to college. One of the first lessons is you might be smart, but there will always be someone smarter. |
UMD? |
Sounds like a very smart kid who busted his butt getting into a top college and now is doing some well-deserved chilling out. I did the same my freshman year (though with a 3.3) and it was the best thing ever for me. My grades rocketed up after freshman year, I got into a great grad program, great career etc. All good. My advice - back the heck off your kid this semester. Truly. It’s inappropriate to try to be so involved in your college freshman’s choices, especially when he’s clearly doing just fine. The kid is growing up. Let him figure it out, “mistakes” and all. |
We have several friends who teach at Universities. They have all noted that the first semester of freshman year tends to be pivotal - not just academically but socially as well. If a student can get through the first semester they typically start to see a more engaged student by the sophomore year. Many schools have a freshman forgiveness mentality for just this reason.
To add to what others have mentioned, we didn't ask, and neither of our students told us their GPAs. They talk about their classes and maybe share a mid-term grade or project but we have no idea what their GPA is. They know we want them to work hard and try their best, but that we aren't getting involved unless they ask or tell us. |
I mean, we know it’s second tier . . . |
First senester 4.0.
16 credits, with a 200 and a 300 level course. Worked really hard. |
lol I have no idea and we’re paying 84k out of pocket. You sound crazy. |
3.5 (B/C range in high school) |
+1 and I'll add that college is also a time to learn "outside of the classroom" about "life" - and freshman year is a time when that is happening in spades. |
The C students can become a president of the United States - says Bush Jr. Look it up in YouTube. It's true. |
There is no HS in the USA without grade inflation. |
IDK their GPA because they are adults. Paying has nothing to do with their GPA, not in our house. We pay for college. This is their shot at college. They know this. They are building their life and know better grades will matter.
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There was nothing humble about that brag. WHO monitors their college students’ grades anyway? They’re adults now and have to take personal responsibility. |
My kid’s college education is the most expensive thing I’ll ever buy. You bet I’ll be monitoring my investment. |
That’s irrational and insane. Cut the apron strings. |