You will see when you get old that it is much harder to work the older you get. Retired people are not lazy, they are (often) tired or sick. |
No one requires women to work… If you are that stressed, downsize your lifestyle. |
So a 25-year-old with a debilitating illness is less deserving of help than a healthy and able-bodied 75-year-old? |
Both are taboo |
Wow! So love is something that has to be earned? |
What about a 25-year-old with a debilitating illness? |
If you don't want to make sacrifices your kids, don't have any! |
It IS taboo for adults to leech off of other adult family members. Full stop.
Parents should want to NOT be a burdens And adult children need to grow the f up. |
No one requires men to work out of the home either. |
+1 |
Agree. Pay it forward. |
Children usually outlive their parents. If adult children haven't learned to take care of themselves by the time their parents are gone, they're screwed. However, adult children caring for elderly parents are going to outlive said elderly parents, so this same issue isn't applicable. Elderly parents need care because they are dying.
In a caregiving situation where the caregiver is going to die before the person they're caring for, the person being cared for needs to learn to care for themselves, because their caregiver won't always be around. But in a caregiving situation where the caregiver is going to outlive the person they're caring for, the caregiving can just continue caring for person in need of care for the rest of their life. |
No, what I can't see the difference between is "My parents should provide me with food and shelter if I need it and they can." and "I should provide my parents with food and shelter if they need it and I can." |
There are a lot more government resources for older adults than young adults. Older adults get social security, Medicare, subsidized housing, and SNAP. In some states, they also get assistance with utilities and property taxes.
For that reason, U will be helping my adult children a lot more than my retired parents. |
“I” not “U” |