“Down there” trends in 2022

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do guys who like full bush perform cunnilingus?

DH does very frequently.

+1 for DH and he loves how soft my kitty is

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being bald “down there” seems to be falling out of fashion. Keep things from peeking out of swimsuit line and you’re good. The rest is up to you. Mix it up if you want.

Not with the many women I've dated in the last 5 years. I'm thankful for that.

And what do you do to keep yourself in check? When I watch p*rn, then men are also waxed. Seems preferable that way.

...You know this dude has face stubble that feels like sandpaper and a jaw that wears out...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ob gyn told me the hair there serves a purpose. It catches bacteria etc rather than that bacteria going directly into your vagina or urethra, it cushions the skins to prevent chafing.

I shave the sides. That’s it. I’ve never had a guy dump me for it. And if a guy doesn’t want to date a woman unless she meets his specific criteria for public maintenance, then I’d rather not date him.

It also serves a purpose to protect against friction during sex and preventing tiny cuts that could lead to infection. Looking like a child is odd.
I also wish men would leave some hair on their chest. All these young men without any hair on their chest seems too much.

[Anonymous]

NP. I’ve dated three women since the pandemic began. All three were divorced professional women, in their mid-50s, and either waxed or lasered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP. I’ve dated three women since the pandemic began. All three were divorced professional women, in their mid-50s, and either waxed or lasered.

This is actually really common after divorce for women. So my esthetician tells me...

They are back to dating and think this is what is expected of them

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do guys who like full bush perform cunnilingus?

DH does very frequently.

Yep, mine loves doing it, as long as I'm clean.

My DH doesn’t mind if am clean but goes crazy if I have just worked out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do guys who like full bush perform cunnilingus?

DH does very frequently.

Yep, mine loves doing it, as long as I'm clean.

My DH doesn’t mind if am clean but goes crazy if I have just worked out.

Same with my DH. I think he’s crazy but he’s happy. 🤣

[Anonymous]

Just asked my husband. He’s prefers a trimmed bush. We’re both 40

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Being bald “down there” seems to be falling out of fashion. Keep things from peeking out of swimsuit line and you’re good. The rest is up to you. Mix it up if you want.

Not with the many women I've dated in the last 5 years. I'm thankful for that.

And what do you do to keep yourself in check? When I watch p*rn, then men are also waxed. Seems preferable that way.

...You know this dude has face stubble that feels like sandpaper and a jaw that wears out...

Haha well you hope for the jaw to wear out if there's face stubble

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just asked my husband. He’s prefers a trimmed bush. We’re both 40

At 40 you had to stop and ask? Isn’t this something you would have already discussed or at least had some firm idea of how he felt?

[Anonymous]

I’m late 30s and I’ve done various levels of grooming over the years. DH prefers some hair, so I mostly just shave the bikini line and keep the rest neatly trimmed.

In my single days my experience was that men who insisted on complete hairlessness were bad in bed (probably because they watched too much porn and were therefore out of touch with what real women look like, and enjoy).

[Anonymous]

Ungroomed is a reflection of poor personal hygiene and sloth

[Anonymous]

Question: Do your men keep themselves trim too? My DH trims down there just to keep things neat for when I'm down there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question: Do your men keep themselves trim too? My DH trims down there just to keep things neat for when I'm down there.

Mine keeps it trim but doesn’t wax or shave it off (same thing I do).

[Anonymous]

48 and married, and I still wax it all off, though I now get waxed a little less frequently because I'm lazy (lol) and the growth is very slow. So even if I haven't gone in months, it doesn't look terrible. But it FEELS terrible to me. I find it itchier, especially if it's really grown in, and it even disrupts my sleep.