“She’s like one of the guys”

[Anonymous]

What the heck does this even mean?

[Anonymous]

It means they don't mind having you around but they don't feel like they have to respect you at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It means they don't mind having you around but they don't feel like they have to respect you at all.

Disagree w/ the lack of respect comment.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it means much, to be honest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the heck does this even mean?

Means they think of her like a cousin or something. And they have a common sport or job or alum group, whatever.

Means they don’t view her as a romantic interest. Not a Pick Me girl either.

[Anonymous]

I think it means that they like hanging out with the girl but not romantically.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the heck does this even mean?

Means she’s easy to talk with in the group and no one’s sexually or romantically interested in her.

Like Sally rider the astronaut was treated “like one of the guys.”

[Anonymous]

It’s an old-timey saying that was said around 15-30 years ago. Nobody thinks girls are or can be just one of the guys anymore for obvious reasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s an old-timey saying that was said around 15-30 years ago. Nobody thinks girls are or can be just one of the guys anymore for obvious reasons.

True.

Today neither males nor females can dish it out anymore since either can run to HR in the blink of an eye.

[Anonymous]

I was one of these about 25 years ago.

Thinly-veiled code for ‘girl we’d like to run a train on’.

[Anonymous]

The woman fits in to a group of low stakes, low emotional/drama relationships typically enjoyed by stereotypical heterosexual men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What the heck does this even mean?

Well liked platonic friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The woman fits in to a group of low stakes, low emotional/drama relationships typically enjoyed by stereotypical heterosexual men.

This. It means they don't feel they have to make any special effort around you and they don't care what you think and they know you won't place any demands on them. Not a good thing IMO.

[Anonymous]

The girl at the Super Bowl party who is actually watching the game and understands the rules.Follows football and may have a team in a fantasy league vs. the girl who had her hair and nails done for the party and doesn't know what "first and ten" means.

[Anonymous]

Low drama, not cute enough to hit on so safe like a cousin.

Fun, like sports, not fussy about environment/food/cleanliness .